Tom

Gawd, how can anyone quantify kinkiest? My most RECENT was at the bookstore- a dom boi I have been playing with , and who has been fisting me there- met me one afternoon- he had already gotten a load- I tried with 3 guys but came up empty- he wanted me loaded b4 he used me. After some scolding, he led me into a booth, had me strip, and then J Lubed my hand and had me try to self fist my hole, while he throat fucked me. He pulled out and held his cock back and pissed all over me, then had me stand and spread my ass for him, and he proceeded to fist and fist/fuck my ass. At some point he opened the booth door- wide open, and all the guys in the place could watch him use me. After he had his load in my ass, he invited a 7-11 type clerk in to use me- very small cock tho and his load was lost on my ass lips- then he told me to keep letting guys use me, put on his pants, and split. I probably was naked in a pool of piss and J Lube for another 30 minutes-- but too many lookers and not enough pigs at that time of day

Very hot!! I think you can quantify it depending on your own limits. Lately I've been getting into the kind of kink where the guy puts a rope around my neck or bag over my head and as he cums, he pulls either really tight. Wow.. freaky I guess. I think my thing is for some kind of psycho to be fucking me.

Hot! Love a good piss drenching while my fuck hole drips his cum.

And in case anyone is curious, I love to get fucked while this song plays: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cVgBuwM9zcQ

Don't judge me to harshly guys. I love to get fucked. So much so that just thinking about it and I drip cum. Sometimes I wonder if its enough. The kinkiest fuck I ever had was in the back of a cab. The driver was cool about it and I rode this guys cock. It was not easy but he came in me and the cum dripped out and got all over the seat.

Here's my thing(s). Fisting? What does it feel like for the guy getting fisted?

Second, I have this freaky fantasy of being fucked and its more like a rape/snuff flim scenario. Some stranger with tattoos and piercings and a gorgeous big cock is fucking me in a dimly lit room and there is weird techno music playing-- very hypnotic and rythmic. He's fucking me from behind and we're both really hot and horny and sort of out of it...just into the fucking. As he's ready to cum, he puts a bag over my head and cuts off my air and as he's cumming inside me, he pulls it really tight and won't let me breathe. The freaky thing is, I like it!

So is this fantasy normal? Whats it all about and have you ever had a real life experience like that?

Cum is so delicious. Love it!!

Hot! I can cum without touching myself and when a guy is fucking me just right, as he cums, my cock just starts shooting cum like a cannon. Love that.

Guys, do you cum very thick loads that sort of bubble up out of your cock, or more liquid type cum shots that erupt and go all over the place? And, which do you prefer? Thick cum that oozes out, or not so thick cum that erupts big time and goes all over the place?

I would also say that for me it is not the size of the nips, but how sensitive they are. They make wonderful toys to play with as I plow a bottom's ass. But then again I get off on watching a fuckhole respond to everything I do to him.

I love tops that teast and excite us bottoms. I like very sensual play to get me really hot. Teasing my fuck hole, nips, stuff like that. Fingering is the best.

The size of my partner's tits is less of interest to me than than their sensitivity. Sensitive nips are always a treat, Tom, so if I'm fucking a guy and I can heighten his pleasure by tit-play, yes, I'm all for it. A difficulty may arise if the guy is really looking for tit-torture. There's only so much squeezing I can do, and, frankly, one's fingers get tired! Guess that's why some guys graduate to clothes pins and the like.

Cool thanks. These suction cup things did make them bigger, but it was only immediate after I had them on. They became much more sensitive. Personally, I like mine the way they were... super sensitive and just a bit tweeked. Play with my nips while kissing me or fingering my fuck hole and I will pretty much do anything the top wants.

So I'm with this guy who is the only one fucking me right now. He likes us being monogamous (sp?)

Anyway, he's awesome in bed, so I like to please him. He loves to fuck me from behind and loves playing with my nips, which drives me wild! He bought me these suction cup type things on Saturday and told me to put them on my nips as much as possible. My nips are so huge now! And very tender and tweeking them feels great! He's fucking me tonight, so am psyched to see his reaction.

Tops: do you like big nips on your bottoms? Do you like to play with your bottoms nipples as you fuck him?

Thanks, I'll try the Maximum Impact spray!

Hey guys, I met a guy last night and we fucked like mad in every position. I tend to be very tight, so prefer it from behind with me on all 4's and him standing or him behind me on the bed. This guy's cock is pretty big -- like 7.5 x 6. It hurt at times! He losened me up okay, but still, I prefer my hole to be lose and most guys that fuck me like a lose sloppy wet hole. Any suggestions on something that will intensify the sex and make me lose? Poppers worked okay, but not so great. I need something that will make me a horny bottom cunt.

I see where you're at now - you're in the angst phase. It will pass and you'll be a lot more accepting in the next year or two. Just remember the angst is all self-created. You can end it whenever you want to by just giving in and becoming a cumdump. The other details will just sorta sort themselves out.

^ Okay, but listen, I don't know that the angst is self-created. Is it? Sure, I think about giving my fuck hole up to any and all cocks. Absolutely. But there is something in me that stops me. It pisses me off sometimes, but makes me glad other times. Fucked up, I know. You know what I wonder? Is my attraction to older men out of a need for more safety?

Interesting you post this after some of your more negative comments in other threads. I see where you're at now - you're in the angst phase. It will pass and you'll be a lot more accepting in the next year or two. Just remember the angst is all self-created. You can end it whenever you want to by just giving in and becoming a cumdump. The other details will just sorta sort themselves out.

It's actually good I saw this post 'cause after reading your comments about neg sub bottoms and poz guys disclosing their status I was wondering what to do with you - not sure I wanted that level of negativity on the forum. Do try to be a bit more accepting of others in your comments. I'm really trying to make sure people never feel attacked here.

And P.S. rawTOP, this was my reply on negsubbottoms: Re: Can True Submissive Bottoms Reasonably Expect To Stay Neg?

Why is it so hard to find a good submissive bottom you ask? Same reason why its so hard to find a good top. Too many tops are too focused on themselves and it's not great sex. Besides, I don't know how anyone could obey those rules above. That's not hot...it's freakish. IMO

^ I hardly think my expressing that opinion is "negative." Hence the IMO. Which in case you don't know, means in MY opinion... and not everyone finds the slave fetish to be appealing. Deal with it.

All4cum is right, Tom, just give into it. Know yourself and act on that knowledge. That way, there are no regrets. Guys like us simply are born cumdumps; that is our purpose in life, that is why we exist. Once you recognize that, then it becomes a matter of making yourself the world's best cumdump, not only in terms of quantity (number of loads taken) but also in terms of quality (making it the best fuck He's ever had in His life; every time). It is an art; it takes training, skill, strength, stamina. We are performers, exhibitionists, artists. There is nothing shameful or wrong about being a cumdump. It is natural and the natural fulfillment of our destiny and our purpose. Love is great, but it cannot and will not district from fulfillment of our essential purpose in life, and any Man who loves us understands that. Our cocks are not the focus of our sexuality; our holes are. If, when you see a gorgeous guy your cunt twitches instead of your cock chubbing up, you will know your purpose in life. Once you have that knowledge, you have to go with it.

Thanks. I hear what you're saying. Thing is, I like guys so much, it's rare one doesn't turn me on. I get hard and my hole twitches, yet I know I'm a total bottom. I think I mentioned that some tops find it odd to top me because I have a pretty big cock and they think I would want to top, but nope...never really do. I'm a cum dump for sure, but just not sure I could take any and all loads. Nothing at all wrong with guys that do...nothing. I think maybe I think too much.

Interesting you post this after some of your more negative comments in other threads. I see where you're at now - you're in the angst phase. It will pass and you'll be a lot more accepting in the next year or two. Just remember the angst is all self-created. You can end it whenever you want to by just giving in and becoming a cumdump. The other details will just sorta sort themselves out.

It's actually good I saw this post 'cause after reading your comments about neg sub bottoms and poz guys disclosing their status I was wondering what to do with you - not sure I wanted that level of negativity on the forum. Do try to be a bit more accepting of others in your comments. I'm really trying to make sure people never feel attacked here.

Negativity? Don't confuse negativity with someone wanting an open, direct and honest debate. Isn't that what a forum is for? No offence, but if you're going to have a forum, you should be prepared for people to challenge your words. If not and you simply want to control everything, then yeah, you're right, this is not a forum I want to participate in.

No offence intended rawTOP, but you seem to have very militiant, almost destructuve views on sex. You seem angry. Yeah, some of the things you post shock the hell out of me and others. So? Thats fine. But be prepared for someone who has different views to debate you on it. You say for me to be a bit more accepting of others views. I am! Perhaps its just your views I challenge. Do you have a problem with that? Now, why don't you post where I attacked anyone. You can't, cuz I never have. You on the other hand confuse someone with a strong sense of view that conflicts with yours to be a problem. Who really has the problem then? So look, thanks for the forum, but this is not a place for me. You want to control everything and shove your views down everyones throat. You seem to have issues...which I think you need to deal with. Bye.

This is something I wrestle with all the time. I've been in LTR's and loved it. I loved being fucked tenderly. Loved the fact that my BF's would make love to my hole and not just fuck it. But there is a part of me that wants to be a total slut. A part of me that wants to get used...get fucked and have piss and cum pumped into me by many men. See, I love Dick. I love men. I love cum and I LOVE being fucked. Bottoms: do you wrestle with wanting to be a cum dump who is fucked and cummed in by many guys? How do you handle it?

Do you ask the top his status or just wait for him to bring it up? While I realize there's a legal obligation to disclose in some places, personally I don't feel the poz top should be required to bring the topic up. I think the old "assume everyone is poz" is still good advice today. If the neg guy needs to ask.

rawTOP, I totally disagree with you. Your attitude on this is frightening. Okay, so a workman comes to your home and he knows he has TB. He says nothing and you get TB. How would you feel? I know it's not a direct comparison, but sorry, you do have an obligation to disclose. No question about it. You do. You don't feel the poz top should have to bring it up!? Of course he should! You can't assume that the bottom should or will and you cannot assume because he is barebacking he is poz! Did you ever stop to think perhaps he is on something? Or maybe has bi-polar disorder and is not in full control of his mental faculties? The good advice is that people who know their status need to reveal it HONESTLY and those who don't know, need to ask, need to say "I don't know." Then each person is more responsible for his actions.

I know this is aimed at poz guys and their honesty when trying to get inside a sweet neg hole. As a neg (I think) bottom I have twice lied about my status to poz tops I felt might be reluctant to seed me.

Can I be frank? I think that's wrong. If a poz guy fucked you because you told him you were poz too and you were not and then he causes you to be poz, don't you think that's wrong? Imagine if he found out it was he who madey you poz?

Well I think you should. Dont's assume. We're talking about a very deadly disease here. You have an obligation to disclose. Case closed.

Why is it so hard to find a good submissive bottom you ask? Same reason why its so hard to find a good top. Too many tops are too focused on themselves and it's not great sex. Besides, I don't know how anyone could obey those rules above. That's not hot...it's freakish. IMO

I bottomed. It was summer freshman year of college. Came home, went to a party and there was this older guy there. I think he was in his 50's. He lived down the street. Invited me over and fucked me. He's the guy that started out with condom then took it off.

For me tats on the calf are so hot. I prefer simple desights, like a band or barbed wire. But yeah, the calfs. Makes me so horned up when I see a guy in shorts and he has tats on his legs.

Safe then raw. He took the condom off and finished raw. He shot his load all over my stomach.

Dude that is so hot!