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3 hours ago, MattDillan said:

Exactly!  I’m really surprised at the amount of tops that like to ‘churn the butter’ by fucking a pre loaded hole.

Also here’s another suggestion-  schedule your pump n dumps during the week —during lunch hours (11:30- 2pm).  A lot of closeted (or just married/ in relationship ) that just want to bust a nut while at work.  

 

 

I had two guys who only wanted to fuck me right after I had gotten a load from another guy.

3 hours ago, Pumpinmyhole said:

You *should*  be able to find a fair amount of dick here.  I'm planning on doing it this month in Phoenix, meeting up with a top bud of mine from Tucson who wants to breed me with others.  

Arizona always seems to be a place for a lot of dick. At the beginning of the year I had an aborted attempt at a breeding session through BBRT in Phoenix. I had 25 guys signed up in a party, but sadly my travel plans changed so I ended up in SoCal instead of Phoenix so I had to cancel it.

3 hours ago, Brianbttm said:

Get a room with outside access so no one has to go through a lobby or require key access.  Change your grindr profile to anon ass up face down and no condoms or b b only.  You'll be surprised the guys that will hit you up, ask how many loads you have and say they like a loaded hole.

Yes, that's exactly what I did.

14 hours ago, Pumpinmyhole said:

Very hot for your first time.  I'm assuming you'll be doing it again 😉  

I hope to. I might make it down to the Palm Springs area this winter, I might try one there.

So I did my first motel load taking gig a couple nites ago.

I only took 6 loads, small potatoes by some standards, but it was fun. All the guys were from Grindr. I set up a separate account.

First guy came by about 4:30pm after I checked in. I was on all fours in a darkened room. He pumped in me for a couple of minutes then left a huge load. he told me that he had big loads. I never looked back to see him, so his load was pretty anonymous. When he left I wanted to see if he was right. His load was enormous, I couldn't believe how much cum he pumped in me.

Next guy came and dumped a load, then a bit of time and a cute 22yo walked in and within about a minute dropped a load in me. He had a great ass which i had to play with a bit.

Two more guys came over at the same time, one watched while the other fucked and bred me. The second one said he wanted to fuck a newly bred hole so he jumped right in and unloaded in a couple of minutes.

A few more and the evening was over, but it was a great experience for a first time trying it.

2 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

I think most people here have hit on the key elements, save one. It's true a lot of places are being more restrictive with Covid; in some areas, drug dealing and prostitution are a major concern with some lower-cost motels and local governments are really hounding them (understandably) to keep the crime down. 

Motel 6 has long had a reputation as being a cheap, no-frills and not-particularly-quality place to stay, but about ten years ago or so, they started a major campaign to upgrade every property to a higher standard and to market to a somewhat different clientele - especially families traveling for vacations. They chose a consistent, clean design for the rooms, with built-in furniture, wired networking jacks at desktop height, etc.  Not every property is yet upgraded (and COVID undoubtedly has slowed that down further) but they're nonetheless trying to get away from the sketchy, people-in-and-out model that works well for the kind of activity described here.

I'm not critiquing that behavior in and of itself. But understand that like public sex in parks and bathrooms, it violates the norms other people expect, and so there's going to be pushback at times. What is overlooked at a no-national-brand name motel on the outskirts of town or in a more industrial/commercial zone is unlikely to get the same lack of interest in a motel marketing to family groups. Motel 6 is positioning itself squarely in that latter category, so while it's blessedly inexpensive, it's also restrictive on what's allowed on site.

Yes, this one was upgraded. Everything was newer and higher quality than I remember seeing at other ones in the past.

5 minutes ago, Fuzzypup said:

Ah, shit. I hate places like that. I usually start at the bottom of the list and work up, the seedier the better, as long as I won't get shot or robbed. Best places I've been too are little chains here and there that have some high school kid baked off his ass running the desk overnight. Better luck next time! Could be a whole covid thing too, I know that's fucked up everyone's hookup game

If I'm ever in your area take me to one of hour favorite seedy places and we'll take loads together.

1 minute ago, Fuzzypup said:

I usually try and find the motels where you park in front of your room, just so it's easier for a quick in and out. That's where I've had best luck. No hallways or lobby's for your johns to deal with. 

Yeah, that's why I liked this motel 6, door outside, no lobby, my car parked nearby. But the woman was kind of adamant that this policy was something they enforced. I think it might have to do with the slighly sketchy part of Salt Lake City it was in and they may have had problems with drug dealers or something.

Ok, that's good to know. That was a $55 learning experience, LOL.

I had a weird situation yesterday, I had gotten a room at a Motel 6 hoping I could try taking some loads in the evening. I know Motel 6 is a chain many guys have used for this purpose, but when I checked in (after having booked the room the night before), the woman asked if I planned on having any guests. She said that if I did ever one needed to check in at the front desk and provide ID, otherwise if the security guard caught people going into my room they would essentially evict me from my night there. I'm serious, it was kind of hard core. I ended up taking one load from a guy but it was too disconcerting for me so I quit.

Has anyone else ever run into this?

18 hours ago, MattDillan said:

I’ve been off of Prep since late May, think I’d never get laid due to Covid.  I went to Fort Lauderdale in late June and took multiple loads, plus getting loads here in DC and Philadelphia since September. Got tested last week and no bugs or Covid.  Luck maybe?

That's awesome man. Keep having fun.

I took a load from a guy at his condo. He ate my ass out, he loves hairy asses, then dropped a really substantial load in it. I got hit up by a guy on Grindr who happen to be in a hotel 2 blocks away from out of town. When I got to the hotel I asked to use the restroom and pushed out the 1st load and was surprised how large it was. I then took the load from the 2nd hotel guy, his load was enormous, OMG. I didn't push that out until I got home 40 minutes later.

I got fucked by a cute 29yo today in my RV while traveling through Twin Falls Idaho. He wanted me to be ass up when he walked in. So I did. He sent a face and dick pick, but when he came in I never turned around to look, he just fucked me for a few minutes and came in me, then left. That's what we wanted, to come in, fuck and dump, then leave. I never turned around to look at him. That's the closest I've come to anonymous. He had a pretty long dick. I couldn't push out his cum at first, took 4 hours for it to finally come out. At first I didn't think he actually came, but there 4 hours later it showed up. Big pool of cum came out of me.

2 hours ago, MattDillan said:

I have some in my album.  I have vid’s I’ve posted on Silverdaddies.com

Ill post to XTube this weekend.

I love that picture on your back with the guy fucking you, that's truly hot.

1 hour ago, MattDillan said:

I was contacted by Public Health in California and Maryland.  They wanted names, but I told them I hooked up on the internet. Then they wanted to know the name of the website — I told them ‘Christian Mingle’.   I did however contact the individuals myself. 

That's awesome. 

1 hour ago, MattDillan said:

Not worried at all.  I get off on being filmed. Especially squirting cum out of my hole.

Do share pictures 🙂

Question about repeated STD positive tests (like chlamydia or ghonoreah). If you start testing positive on a frequent enough basis, I'm told that the health department of your local municipality may contact you and want to do contact tracing. Has this happened to anyone? How do you handle a situation where you may be seen as a 'problem' person in the context of STD spread?

Took a big load from a cute guy in his early 20s last night.I took a picture of it after I pushed it out. 

I had a cute 32yo twink come over yesterday, from Grindr, and do a quick pump-n-dump in me. Huge load. It was fun. 

10 minutes ago, cumslut958 said:

I say play it bold. If you're traveling, no connections to the area, no care for reputation, then just shoot your shot at guys who interest you. extend the offer and see who goes for your hot ass 😉

Yep, that's basically it. I'm just up exploring the Northwest in my RV. I'll be bold!

1 minute ago, Cumfilledbottomboi said:

If you combine words into one, “Cumdump4top” or something. I have “breedMy🍑” as my tag line. I have no trouble getting loads.

Awesome, thanks.

I'm traveling and plan on using Grindr to try and set up a night of taking loads at a motel. I haven't done that before and I'm curious how other's have worded the profile to get results. I've heard that Grindr prohibits certain words (like cumdump, but I don't know for certain). Any thought from those who have successfully done this?

5 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

That sounds healthy to me. Fuck shame.  It can take time to distance and work through and past that conditioned response, so i think you are smart to not make yourself vulnerable unless you know you are safe.  Our instincts and fears can be good things, eh?  i personally like to know why i am feeling the way i do, but feelings can be protective either way. They can also keep us trapped in things like "wacko... religion," or under some authority who manipulates feelings, so it makes sense to me to look to understand our feelings.

Your point about authority figures, displacing one for another is interesting. I was raised Mormon in Utah. They're HYPER authoritarian. The good thing is that it made me leery of authority. I've seen people do exactly what you say, jump from a hyper-authoritarian religious environment into the atheist side of things where science became their new authority. I'm not knocking atheism or science, it was more how I saw how one kind of authority was displaced by another in a way.

But i'm not entirely sure how to talk to the therapist about bareback sex as it relates to my feeling that for me it's actually a healthy direction to take. Because it feels that way. I know there are various degrees and directions I could take, from just occasional hookups with a single guy (which is wha I've done so far) to being whored out and blindfolded at an anonymous hotel. I'm fairly clear in my mind that the later isn't exactly what I want. I would like to try a cumdump thing but a no loads refused, anonymous thing isn't the right form for me. 

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

Congratulations on escaping a "wacko religious environment."   Speaking from experience, i know that can be a complex process.  

As far as talking to a therapist is concerned, i think they can be very helpful and i also think they can cause damage.  i think, in large part, that depends on the one getting the 'counseling.'  i think the purpose of counseling is to optain self knowledge.  We discover who and how we are in self reflection and in relationship with others (i.e., seeing our reflection in them).  A challenge is, none of us is a perfect 'mirror,' so none of us reflects perfectly.  i see a therapist as a trained 'reflector,' and a 'good' one should give you a clear reflection of who and how you are.

i believe part of what turns a religious environment "wacko" is people looking for an authority to tell them 'the truth,'  and those who think they are an authority on 'the truth.'   i've seen a lot of people leave religion (or atheism), only to transfer the disposition that got them there to the next authority or 'ism.'  

To me, a question is:  "why did you feel hesitant about telling your therapist about bareback and taking loads?"  To me, his job is to reflect you, help you understand who you are , and in this case, help you understand more about your desire to bareback and take loads. i do not think his job it to be an authority in your life and tell you this is 'good' or 'bad.'   Not saying he is btw. Your hesitance could just be a reflection of fear on your part, which to me would be a great insight to get from therapy. 

Those are great points. The reflection concept you mention is one that's particularly important to me actually. In fact that's a big reason I've decided to see this therapist right now because I feel I'm lacking some clarity in various aspects of my life. But the direction I'm going from the standpoint of sexuality is part of that. We discussed sexuality in some detail in the past session and I was encouraged that he has views very similar to the ones I'm developing which felt like a good reflection experience. 

And my hesitation is in fact a bit of self protection until I'm sure I have a sense I'm not going to be shamed, considering the extreme degree of shame I grew up with I'm leery to let myself be shamed by a therapist even though I really don't think he's going to do that.

16 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

I would add, to the comments above: 

Or, flipped, you could be seeking this as an affirmation of a sex-positive role for yourself where you don't feel constrained by traditional mores about sex being an intimate act between two and only two people.

 

I think the above quote is closer to how I'm feeling inside in terms of sexual awareness, as a motivation for my desire for bareback sex. And I have told the therapist that I'm on PreP and he's very encouraged by that.