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On 12/12/2020 at 4:56 AM, Shotsfired said:

I find that communication is key when promoting safety while fisting. You should have at least a mental inventory of your injuries and sore spots. 

Playing sober, especially when playing with someone new and untested, is essential to your safety. Check cleanliness of hands,  fingernail length and sharpness,  and keep a small nail kit in your fisting gear. Also callouses can really scrape as bad as knuckles. DO NOT USE numbing agents or ointments like lidocaine.  DO bring Vitamin A+D Ointment for aftercare. I recommend fists first then toy play as toys can make you sore. Large toys are way more dangerous to use with other people  than  fists.  Toys can not tell you how tight things are,  how deep in your hole the toy is, or if things are tearing.

Another good rule of thumb  while fisting is to not let a top bind your feet or legs. I had a top try to shove up into me while I was bound. He wanted to get in me past the elbow.  Luckily I was able to outmaneuved him and unbind myself.  

I have only been injured by  being rough fucked without lube by a large top. It caused a deep fissure and once while cleaning out.

Proper fisting practice actually reduces the likelyhood of fissures and hemorrhoids. AND gives you better muscle control. 

Tops shouldn't shove their fists in you. They should push only until the point of tension. The bottom should then accept/allow the  fist into his hole.

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On 12/10/2020 at 4:27 PM, raw773 said:

 

Man. You absolutely need a top who can handle this level of intensity. And I would never ever FF on drugs. I don't understand the point of having this insanely intense experience, and then also not being able to feel or enjoy it. Just not a good idea.

Be careful guys, and @813bttm I'm so sorry this happened.

Thank you very much.  I appreciate the kind words. Even thou I was injured and made sick, I didn't want to let a stupid reckless top stop me  from learning about fisting.  I bought several books on anal fisting and ass play / anal sex to learn.  I talked to experienced people that have been topping and bottoming for many years and share experiences and best practices.  I want to share a few things so people stop and think... 

#1 When stoned, drunk or high you will have no idea you're hurt or injured until it is too late.  You need to have a clear head to call 911 and get an ambulance. 

#2 When injured seeking immediate medical help will help you survive your injury.  Be honest with medical professionals. Lying to a medical professional means they are left guessing what is wrong  and it will slow you being treated. 

#3 Alcohol and drugs will thin your blood a lot and make you bleed and bleed.  You will not clot like you're suppose to.

#4 There is NO home treatment for a ruptured bowel. If you ruptured your bowel or have an intestinal tear you need SURGERY immediately. 

#5 No body cares at the ER that you're gay. They just want to save your life and help. Is it embarrassing ... yes but so what and who cares...

#6 Can you rupture your bowels from a large or long toy? YES.  Be careful, don't rush.  Use LOTS or lube then use more.  Being numb from drugs just means you're gambling with your life.  Moving up in toy size either length or width means do it with a clear head, when you have plenty of time and you have taken the time to prep.  

#7 A clear and calm head space will let you enjoy your play session and let you take more and do more when you body says "ok" and is ready.  

#8 Moving up in size on toys is a slow process (and I mean slow). Allow yourself the chance to relax, expand and enjoy the new feelings and experiences is very important. 

I have been in the fisting community for over 12 years and make it a point to share knowledge and experiences to help others learn.  I have posted under an thread on here about some of the best written material on fisting. Please feel free to ask me anything and I will respond as quick as  I can. 

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About 12 years ago I was scratched internally by a pushy, lazy, novice top. Unbeknown to me his nails were longer than expected, dirty and his hands unwashed.  When he scratched me accidently, he introduced all the bacteria into me internally. This setup a massive infection which, I thought I was just coming down with the flu when I got sick.

After 48 hours I was seriously ill and was rushed to the ER. I had no idea why I was so sick. After 24 hours in the ER they discovered I was septic and getting sicker by the hour. I was starting to have severe abdominal pain and turned extremely pale.  They placed me on 4 IV antibiotics, pain meds, anti-nausea meds, and other iv fluids.  I was hospitalized for a week.  Once I was getting better and the internal infection was slowing, they did a colonoscopy and discovered the top had over stretched my rectal cavity (lower portion) and damaged the inside walls by pushing too hard to fast. It was not a tear by very close to being a tear.  After 10 days, I was discharged with bags and bags of antibiotics and nausea meds.  

After 6 month my color returned, and I was able to enjoy the simple things in life like food.  I learned from this experience if playing with a virgin top have another top there to help train them. Inspect their hands and ask a million questions. If you get a bad feeling leave or stop the session.  There is lots of material out on the web on how to fist safely.  If a novice is not willing to learn and read, they are reckless and could injure or end up killing you.  Fisting is the most intense and intimate sexual experience a person can have. It is something that should never be rushed or done by a lazy useless uncaring fucker.