UpstateNYexplorer

Doesn't take much convincing tbh. They always want to play "safe" but when it gets hot and heavy, they'll rip that condom off to breed you.

In the middle of a blowjob, The guy took out his phone to record me sucking him and after swallowing his cum, He said "damn you're fucking good", thanked me and left. Never found out what he did with that video but I am sure its floating around somewhere.

Hit up a random blank profile on Grindr, He asked for a pic and I sent one. He said he knew who I was since we used to work together, didn't know that I liked guys, and wanted to see if I could figure out who he was. I did with ease since he was the only gay former co-worker I knew and I am kind of shocked at how open he is sexually since he comes off so...vanilla.

I've always done it raw. Men or women, I have never used a condom and don't see the point in starting now.

I've slept with my fair share of men in relationships so I'm all for it. If I were dating someone, currently single, that wouldn't stop me from having fun on the side.

1 hour ago, R86 said:

or if the condom does break, what’s to say you don’t get accused of tampering?

This will limit the effect.

For one, Plaintiffs will need to secure a lawyer. Unless they come from money, it is limited to NGO Legal Defense Nonprofits or volunteer attorneys.

“Sucking blood from a stone. ”The bigger issue is one has to have assets to take away. It would be a waste of time to sue someone flat broke. Sure there are wage garnishments and bank garnisments; but those can’t take all the defendants money. If one has nothing, he’s got nothing to lose.

Great question. What would prevent someone from lying that the condom "broke" or what if it actually broke, which has happened to me a few times, and you are still accused of it even if it wasn't intended. Plus, as you said, what is the person has no assets to take, you're then suing just in hopes of not only proving it civilly but then getting some kind of damages from it.

1 hour ago, BootmanLA said:

I suspect that's because in the last year or so, as BBRT has cracked down on certain topics, quite a few people were kicked off that system and a lot more quit more or less in some sort of solidarity with them.

Additionally, some people use(d) BBRT primarily for its "local party" and "quick connect" listings, most of which went bye-bye during Covid. Add those to the normal attrition rate and I think that largely covers it.

It's back but now you have to pay to post party/quick connect listings and since that was their most used feature, I doubt many people liked that and jumped ship.

I've fooled around with a fair share of coworkers (male and female). It all comes down to who can keep their mouth shut and it turns out a fair amount do so word doesn't spread about them.

Hotel rooms, bathrooms, car play. I've been on a few situations where I was almost caught but never was.

There are two instances I am spitting in someone's mouth. If I am on top of someone and pounding into them, I'll make them open their mouth and spit in it or on their face. Same goes when they are sucking my cock. It's degrading and it's so hot.

If he's clean and shaved, I'd happily tongue away at a delicious hole. 

A lot of guys lie about their status but if you are willing to take the risk, own the consequences. I just chatted with a guy today tell me after we made plans to hook up that he is undetectable. Still gonna let him fuck me though because he has a great cock. 

When I was in high school, It was fairly common knowledge who was a cock sucker (men and women). The two stand outs for me - One is a woman who would claim to "be discreet" when everyone knew she was a greedy cock sucker. She lived less than a mile from the school so she'd have guys walk home with her just to blow them in her basement. The other is a man who catered to the "straight"/bi-curious crowd. If you wanted to experience what it was like to get sucked off by a guy, He'd be first in line to service you. His favorite spot would be the gym restrooms because it was more discreet and he was far less likely to be caught.

While it is hot for a guy to cum on your hole and fuck the cum into you, I still prefer taking the load nice and deep. 

Dick that surprised me - Skinny twink, maybe 120 lbs soaking wet and just shy of 6 feet. He had a beautiful 7 inch cut cock, thick, kept his pubic hair trimmed too. I said to him that if more people knew he had a cock like that, he'd be surrounded by ass.

Dick that disappointed me - He was around 6'4-6'6, 200 lbs, in good shape but not overly muscular. I guess it was all to compensate for something because he was barely 5 inches. I genuinely laughed when he asked me if I was impressed by it.

I love talking dirty to someone who is sucking me or getting fucked by me. Recently got head from a Grindr hook-up, fantastic cock sucker btw. I was very vocal while using him and after a lovely 30 minute session, I pumped my load down his throat and left thinking that was it. A few mins later, I got a message thanking me and saying he had a great time because nearly everyone he met with was quiet and barely said a word to him. He loved that I was so open, so vocal, and then he shared his number saying to shoot him a text whenever I felt like stopping by.

I always ask for a face pic as I do have one posted. I find it certainly helps add to their credibility and likelihood to meet if they have one. Blank profiles or people who are reluctant to send one just come off as shady.  The real challenge is getting a genuine picture and not one from a few years back. I'm sure we all have our stories about men who look nothing like their photos do.

So just around the corner from a potentially big promotion, A known drama queen comes forward that he just so happens to hate gay people. Sorry but that sounds very suspicious to me and considering, at least from what I've read, he has never had a complaint like this at all in the entire time he has worked there, He more than deserves the benefit of the doubt. If you can't find any unbiased people to verify this or similar behavior, I would just ignore what she is saying as it seems more than likely that she is just trying to stir up drama to get him out of the promotion.

And yes, This is coming from someone totally vilified at work because of the gossip of a drama queen and then had my ass kissed by many once they learned she was lying.

semi-shaved/smooth is the way to go, especially if you love to eat ass.

I always thought of it as an unspoken rule - If you're gonna go BB, you're gonna take/give a load. I've never had a BB encounter that didn't end with someone getting a deep breeding.

That's as bad as guys asking to wear condoms when you want to give them head.

I kept having a guy message me on various sites (Grindr, A4A for example) trying to hook up with me. I had no idea who it was at first until he said I had eaten at his small diner months back. It was the first and only time I went there and it was nearly a year ago. So the fact that he not only remembered me but also kept going out of his way to message me, after repeated denials and blocking, was a bit unnerving. The last time he did so, I said message me again and I'll happily go down to your place of business and let every customer in there know what you're doing. Haven't heard from him since.

IDK why it is so hard for some people to take no for an answer.

After my first barebacking experience, Condoms became optional. If anyone asked to use one or for me to use one, I used them but other than that, I wouldn't ask and wouldn't bother. Nowadays, They're pretty much only used if I am bottoming.

I always felt that there was a real sense of irony that they removed this feature (temporarily). I get that they more than likely did so for legal reasons but for a site that is specifically for men who want bareback sex, who want breeding, to do so is just funny to me. Potentially helping the spread of STDs is fine, No problems there, that is simply A-Okay in their book. Spreading covid though? That is the line they will not cross! It's so eyerolling.

2 hours ago, CumdumpDad said:

I think some are inherently great cocksuckers. And some should just turn over on their stomachs or put their legs up in the air and call it a day.

 

Couldn't have said it any better.

I had a guy slut shame me once. It was just after we finished having sex on the bed he shares with his wife. I don't think it was intentional but it was the way that he worded it that made it clear that he knew exactly what I was and had no problem not just calling me out on it but using me too.