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That sounds hot, but no I can't say anything like that has happened to me. That may be a difficult fantasy to create authentically (without it happening randomly). I guess you could look for a guy who is interested in owning you in a master/slave relationship or just using you whenever he pleases, and give him access to information that you would do anything to keep secret. That way if you ever tried to back out he could blackmail you with it. Of course you have to determine if A) you have a secret / personal information you would rather be raped than disclose and if you actually want to give said information to someone to fulfill a fantasy, when in reality you have no idea how they will use it.

Good luck.

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incredibly hot!

I want to see!

I *mostly* go for stuff on xtube with people recording themselves. Professional porn with all the corny music, dialog, condoms, and fake moaning doesn't turn me on in the slightest.

there's nothing wrong with wanting to fuck a guy. it just gives you more options.

Always thought this was hot. Relevant x-tube vids:

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One thing I lament about is the lack of BB voice out there in the gay community. We have many sub groups: Bears, Leather, Muscle, Twinks etc etc but BB is a lifestyle choice but we do not have a vocal voice/representation. This annoys me as I believe there are A LOT of gay men who ACTIVELY BB but far too many are in the closet about it. I recognize the topic is taboo but I think it is time we start building a voice.

I myself call myself a BB advocate. Not only do I practice the lifestyle but I am relatively open about it where appropriate. If I am asked about it, I speak about it. The biggest way I came out was in college, I did an interview for a now out of print online magazine and spoke freely about my BB lifestyle and used my real name.

I am in no way shy about my BB lifestyle and I am not ashamed, embarassed, or scared of what others will think. My biggest wish is not only that the BB lifestyle will begin to have a voice in the gay community but also the image will change. I am very tired of the image that those who BB are tweakers/drug addicts/meth heads and therefore unable to know what they are doing. I am not a drug user and have a disdain for it and my choice to BB was done of sound mind, knowing full well the risks. I am a pretty normal guy, with normal job, no drugs, normal life. I didn't have some traumatizing experience that turned me on to BB. I didn't have some messed up childhood, it was rather normal one.

I don't really see the point of having a "voice" in the gay community. Barebacking is risky behavior with potentially life-changing consequences. If you choose to do it, you either accept the risks, or are delusional. If you belong to the former, great, you are an adult and live your life as you choose. If you are among the latter, you should be educated, not further confounded by people telling you it's "ok to BB". I don't think the current image is so much that BBers are drug users so much as that they are irresponsible. The fact is, that image is true. It's a vice we choose to partake in much like drinking, smoking, doing drugs, etc ... and adding in the whole spreading disease bit. It feels good, but it is bad. For those of us that BB, the feeling good obviously outweighs moral and personal health concerns.

I had a boyfriend a year ago with the most perfect ass. It was like, Greek statue perfect (as far as I was concerned anyway, people have different preferences). In that instance I didn't think about fucking other people. We didn't get along for other reasons, but sexually it was great. If it happened once I'm sure it can happen again.

Just make sure you're fully aware of what you're getting yourself into.

Sometimes it didn't break, but the sperm will swim through the hole, which means sperm is smaller than particles of water, because a condom poked with a needle will still hold the water. I should get a doctor's degree on this, lol.

What? Sperm head diameter is in the micrometer range while water molecule diameter is in the angstrom range. (Of course semen consists of other molecules, none of which would be substantially smaller than the water molecule). If sperm fits through a hole water can't it's because the force of the ejaculation made the hole bigger.

All you ever hear about is tops or bottoms. What percentage of gay guys are versatile? Being versatile gives you the best of both worlds!!

Agreed. Most guys I've been with have been versatile with one or two exceptions. Idk.

I just saw this video and it made me think about how much gay culture has lost...

Today it's all about marriage and being like straight people. But back then we were queers & fags - and we made the most of it by being absolutely fabulous. The AIDS crisis wiped out a lot of the uninhibited behavior and the creativity that went along with it since it was the creative guys back then who often took the most risks (even sexually). Today our most uninhibited guys (sexually) are often drug addicts. OK, sure they were drug addicts back then too - but they created stuff when they were on drugs. What in the hell has a meth addict ever created? So much has been lost, in so many ways - it's sorta sad.

I didn't really get to experience much of the uninhibited gay culture you see in the video. But there was still a little bit left by the late 80s and early 90s when I was out at the clubs. I gotta say I really miss it. While BBRT is nice, I'd trade it in a second to go back to the type of club you see in that video...

It's not about "wanting to be like straight people", it's about wanting to be left alone, and not feeling like you have to join a subculture based on your sexuality in order to feel accepted.

Depends on the demographic. In college, everyone I fucked or got fucked by always had condoms. It wasn't even a discussion. In my experience older guys are more likely to want to fuck bare. This may not be true in general, or in other places, but hell if I told myself 5 years ago that I would let a hookup fuck me bare I wouldn't believe it.

I'm surprised top2 got so bent out of shape, since he already fucks you bare. What did he think happened when the other guy just stopped fucking you and left?

It's true though, everyone has their own preferences. If you're going to be fuck buddies, well it comes down to how much compromise you are willing to make to have sex with that person. Is he hot enough or is the sex good enough to let him spit on you, even though you might not like it? etc

Hey all. I'm 24, have been on here for a while, and was always turned on by the thought of bareback, but never did it until a few nights ago.

Long story short: went to a bar with some friends, got drunk, met a good looking guy, went back to his place - pretty run of the mill.

He was attractive with his clothes on, blonde hair, brown eyes, a little scruff, probably late 20s. I'm pretty much 50/50 versatile, but I can play up a role if I get a feel of the guy, and this guy was pretty dominant. First thing he did when we got back to his place, cornered me against a wall and pushed me down on my knees, forcing his crotch against my face. I could feel his dick was hard through his pants, so I unzipped him, pulled out a nice sized uncut dick (bonus points there), and started sucking. I don't have much of a gag reflex, especially when intoxicated, so he was face fucking me before I knew it. Damn it was hot though, his dick was slightly curved up so it was a bit of work to get my mouth positioned right. I gagged a few times but he kept saying "come on, take it all the way in", so I did. At some point while I was inhaling his cock he took off his shirt, and I pulled down his pants. I was pleasantly surprised that he was hairier than I would have expected, most blonde guys I've been with have been smooth. He had a nice athletic build, I might have been stronger than him but already made the decision to be sub. So he dragged me into his room, we get on the bed, my clothes come off. I suck him a bit more until he flips me onto my stomach and starts to finger me. Despite being drunk, I had a moment of clarity and knew exactly where this was going. I looked back and saw him take out some lube and no condom, and I knew what I was signing up for. He probably would have stopped if I said anything, but I didn't. It hurt when he pushed it in, but I didn't make any noise because I didn't want him to stop. After a minute of slow thrusting he started to pick up the pace and fuck me hard, but instead of hurting more like usual, it started to feel good. I got on all fours and he continued to pound me. After a few minutes he asked "You want my load?", to which I responded "Yea", so he pushed my head into the pillow and gave it a few more good thrusts before holding his dick in me. I couldn't feel the cum, but I felt his dick throbbing and he was moaning so I knew he finished. He probably lasted about 10 minutes, but bred me one more time that night, and once the next morning before I left (guess I can't blame it on the alcohol).

Since then I've been feeling less regret than I expected, and more desire to do it again. I guess I know what you guys mean about bb being a slippery slope now.

I talked to the guy after the fact, he told me he's neg, but of course I'll go to get tested. I guess I feel conflicted because I tell myself sex shouldn't be worth compromising my health for, so how did I still end up doing it? I guess I'll see if it turns out to be a one time moment of weakness or the first of many to come.