Safer

10 hours ago, Teeslad70 said:

Not yet, but not been with anyone either.

Weren't you with three guys?

1 hour ago, Teeslad70 said:

This is still playing heavily on my mind. I just wish things were straightforward.

Did you get tested yet? That will be the first step.

1 hour ago, Teeslad70 said:

So I have been reading on here that there is a version of prep that you take before and after each time you meet? That sounds the most suitable for me, but I don't really know where to start?

Get tested, if neg then go on prep

28 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

Only occasionally, but then I tend to prefer the seamier side of sex. 

Interestingly, almost never all those years in Chicago, but then "southern decadence" is definitely a *real* thing; one of the main reasons I moved to Ft. L. in the first place.

What is the "seamier" side of sex?

1 hour ago, LuvYerCumPlz said:

This year I gotten 9  loads. 

1 a month.

In the ass and/or mouth?

Is this a true story?

11 hours ago, Close2MyBro said:

Getting HIV is like getting pregnant. It only takes one encounter and the right set of circumstances.

I wouldn't say that since almost every female has the biological potential to get pregnant, while hiv requires the person to both have the virus in them, and not be medicated for it.

Getting a woman pregnant is certainly easier than catching hiv.

3 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I'm in my 50's, but am in somewhat the same mindset with regards to monkeypox. I was starting to enjoy a lot of post COVID sex when this hit, in fact I finally took a long awaited post COVID sexcation a month and a half ago. I fucked and got my brains fucked out for 5 straight days, by my best estimate I was fucked by or fucked, briefly in most cases, more than 150 different guys. I did hookup the weekend after I returned home, but today will mark 5 weeks since the last time I hooked up. At this point I'm planning on resuming my activities when I get the vaccine.

You got fucked by 150 guys in only 5 days? How do you even find that many guys so quick?

As someone who is frightened of hiv and think about all the time, you can't catch hiv or many stds with a rubber. 

If you are afraid of being stealthed then assume the top position when you have protected sex. When you are a bottom you are vulnerable to being tricked but as a top you can be sure that protection is being used.

And if you decide you want to go bare, the risk is much lower for a top which can be lowered much more with prep.

On 11/4/2021 at 9:40 PM, Ponystallion said:

Awesome, I do tell my partners, just wanted to get in on the dialogue 

Hey, just wanted to ask since it says you are poz. Did you get it from topping or have you bottomed some in the past?

9 minutes ago, Treehugger said:

I am trying to ‘read between the lines’ with your question. Are you saying you would like to explore more barebacking or riskier sex but are concerned about becoming poz? Just curious? 
     I wouldn’t dismiss the idea of taking prep before talking to a healthcare professional. As for the cost there are options to explore.

     It’s good you are asking questions, keep going.

     

Yes. I have no interest in going to bathhouses though and bloodslams are definitely out. I am just concerned what the likelihood of me getting pozed is or if it's highly likely I already have been.

4 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

I hate to be critical but as phrased, this question really has no answer.

A circumcised "total top " who has sex with a handful of carefully screened partners, all of whom are on Prep or undetectable, has a much different risk than a circumcised "total top" who has lots of sex in bathhouses and cruisy public areas where multiple tops share cumdump bottoms. 

The most that can be said is that, very generally speaking, and with all other factors equal, (a) topping is less risky than bottoming and (b) circumcised men are at slightly lower risk than uncut men. So as far as those two factors are concerned, your risk is lower than it would be if you were a bottom or uncut.

That's all that can be said as to 'how hard it is" for you to get HIV.

I don't go to bathhouses or have sex in public places. I have only barebacked a bf and a few one night stands here and there that said they were on prep.

I am circumcised and I have no plans of bottoming anytime soon (if ever). I heard about prep but I think that is expensive and it might have side effects, I have a weak stomach for drugs.

48 minutes ago, WelshBBCigarFuck said:

Definitely go see your doctor, the only STD I ever had was a case of gonorrhoea which showed up on my regular check up, I was totally asymptomatic. From memory it was a jab and 4 tablets to clear it up for me. I then unfortunately had to contact everyone I had sex with between check ups to tell them to get tested. Your symptoms do sound like classic gonorrhoea so see a doctor and they will soon clear it up.

What test did you have that detected it? Urine or swab?

3 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I didn’t mean to address the comment to your case specifically, only to expand on the other poster’s comment about the doctor drawing a conclusion of negativity from whether a treatment worked. I have previously had a case of gono that did not respond to first-line treatment, but my doctor didn’t draw a conclusion on the basis of that that I didn’t have gono.

Was the gono in your cock or ass?

On 11/5/2021 at 5:52 AM, BoiPussi said:

Oof hard to say. Almost a 60 or so. I've been taking it in my ass since I was 12 years old. Middle school was when I was most active. I can tell you all kinds of stories

You have been fucked by 60 cocks and didn't poz?

On 10/14/2021 at 8:37 PM, Cuteguy69 said:

I was info only girls and one day m’y wife sent me to hook up with a guy It took me only 5 minutes to removed thé condom and bareback all night

i whas hook since 

but i told thé truth to m’y wife 

so when i whas diagnose with hiv she always ok with It 

Did you ever bottom?

I have been looking around the internet and researching and everywhere I see it says black people are at higher risk of catching HIV but it doesn't necessarily explain why.

3 hours ago, Bottom Jim said:

My guess is about 100

Oh wow. And you are still neg? We're you on prep at one time?

On 9/21/2021 at 7:03 AM, Bottom Jim said:

I am a cum dump . I love to take as much cum in me as I can Yesterday I guy came over who appreciated that

i sucked him hard and then without delay he went in my ass. He fucked me a good long time before he started to moan Then I could feel his cum going in my ass He stayed in me and pumped another load in me

Cool. How many guys have bred you if you don't mind me asking?