new and trying to get rid of the shakes

[Guest betrl8thannever]

I'm 23 years old and I really want to take a load, and sometimes I don't care if it's charged or not. I've only ever topped and I'm negative currently. The problem is I get really nervous, and I get the shakes and I convince myself not to. How do I relax enough?

[HardhatBB]

bend over...enjoy it. maybe your not trying with the right man..

[fisterm8]

have a few drinks and the adrenaline shakes will stop and you will be then nice and relaxed to take his loads for hours

[HardhatBB]

sides youll be shaking all right...in envy ..once you feel a man nut inside you. youll want more

[MyBeardIsRed]

When you top, do you fuck raw or wrapped? If raw, imagine how your bottoms have felt while you unloaded inside them. If that is something you want to experience, then find someone you are comfortable with who can do that: someone whose load you crave to receive. If you are honest with him and with yourself about what you are looking for, then he may be able to guide you through this uncertainty.

[einathens]

when you're truly ready and your mind catches up to what your body wants, your fear will turn into energy and your uncertainy into power, and you'll do it without thought or hesitation.