POZ TOPS, do you always tell a bottom that you are poz ?

[Vicarious]

never! ...opposite: i look like a sane guy i always look for neg guy, possibly young, just to try to poz them! and if they ask me something i always say NO, SURE. I'M NEG ...and even if they ask me to put on a condom.... i always pull it off while i'm fuckin i love to poz the world! ))

I personally find this terrible and hearing stuff like this is one of the reasons why I'm always hesitant with hooking up with people. I personally have no problem with hooking up with poz guys willing to wear a condom (I'm not at a point in my life that I feel comfortable about opening myself to becoming HIV+). It's fucking awful that gay guys have to worry about this kind of shit. I had this happen to me before and it really has made me very nervous about hooking up with guys. I've had a guy take off the rubber during sex before when I was 18 and was one of the first people I ever hooked up with. I'm not sure if he was HIV+ or not but thankfully I didn't catch anything.

[Bobottom]

Personally as a bottom who goes bb, I would always assume poz unless said otherwise. That way it’s a pleasant surprise if not and I’m not left feeling gutted if so. It’s the risk you take.

[Piggyybttmm]

6 hours ago, Bobottom said:

Personally as a bottom who goes bb, I would always assume poz unless said otherwise. That way it’s a pleasant surprise if not and I’m not left feeling gutted if so. It’s the risk you take.

Same. Like if you're going to be out here going raw that's the risk you have to take and accept. Yeah you can ask  but men can lie or  don't know. If you aren't willing to accept that I would just use condoms or not have sex all together....or just get on prep lol

[ObsessiveSex]

I don't think that poz tops need to tell bottoms anything. It's up to the bottom to protect themselves if they don't want to be pozzed.  We are grown ups and each of us is responsible for our actions. You know the risk if you go bareback and you're not on PrEP.  You can't expect a poz top to walk around saying I'm poz.  For years I was on PrEP until it became a fetish of mine to have unprotected sex.