Wild you take your partners poz load if u were neg?

[Guest JizzDumpWI]

I've deceived that I want his cum deep in my ass. I'm on a mission to have his cum in me tonight or tomorrow

Interesting choice of words... "deceived" or "decided". Either way, I think it requires an open and honest dialogue. Were my partner and I a serodiscordant couple, it would be important to frankly discuss this.

Options come down to the nature of your relationship. There are a lot of options where you can still enjoy that skin on skin relationship you enjoyed for so many years. He could start HIV meds. You could start HIV preventative meds (Truvada). Some insurance plans will even cover meds like Truvada for a mixed status (serodiscordant) couple; especially if they're on the same plan.

Emotionally, it will take some will to get down to the details of how his conversion has affected the two of you. But if it is your intention to be permanent partners, I think you've reached the time to do this...

[Johnjohn]

If I was in a relationship with a poz guy there would be no question of my not taking his loads. Maybe this is naive but but my love for him would be unconditional and this means taking his poz cum whether I became infected or not.

[bottomdu33]

H does not want to give me his poz loads...OK I go and get one. Our relation wil not be the same then!!

[einathens]

you have to remember, that load is his to give, not yours to take.