bigdick4you Posted April 2, 2013 Report Posted April 2, 2013 I can process and express my feelings bit different than most people... I can go from totally being in love to totally indifferent....depending how other reacts and behaves.... I'm the type of person that believes in being a true friend in good and bad times.... But I do expect the same back....was just recently on one of my many trips.... That I suddenly fell ill and even needed medical assistance.... Here I was in strange city all by myself and no friends around....guy I have been having on/off long distance relationship with checked how I was doing which I thought was really sweet.... But later I realized he never offered if I needed anything.... It would have been easy for him to come and c me on my airline passes....instead he decided to go out all weekend which u can do.... But then u show me that u r not a good friend.... And not worth my love and dedication...he did check on me regularly.... But that is not the same is it? A while back when something was going on with him.... My first question was if he wanted me to come over...spend lots of time chatting with him today but deep down I realized my feelings were gone...which is good as I have lots of things going on in my life and really couldn't use the distraction.... So sometimes u c.... Things happen for a reason!
Guest JizzDumpWI Posted April 2, 2013 Report Posted April 2, 2013 I hope so. You've been riding a fence with this guy for awhile. Hopefully the many responses nudged you along. I do disagree with one point. I don't think "sometimes ..things happen for a reason". I believe all things happen for a reason. Pay attention to events; use that to make your next right step. Best to you as you move on from this long distance affair.
FatFuckPigMA Posted April 2, 2013 Report Posted April 2, 2013 Quick, before you change your mind, delete all his contact information (including old emails including your In and Sent boxes ) and add him to your spam list. Congratulate yourself and buy something nice and affirming, like a new coffee table, that harness you've been eyeing, or that escort you've been promising yourself for your birthday.
bigdick4you Posted April 2, 2013 Author Report Posted April 2, 2013 I hope so. You've been riding a fence with this guy for awhile. Hopefully the many responses nudged you along. I do disagree with one point. I don't think "sometimes ..things happen for a reason". I believe all things happen for a reason. Pay attention to events; use that to make your next right step. Best to you as you move on from this long distance affair. U r right.... Things always happen for a reason. I'm just glad I found closure after many of my friends telling me he was not right for me... I won't delete his contact details and I will always be there with kind word and support if he needs it....that's just the way I'm wired....and that's ok... Because once I decide its over.... I take u out of the box bf and place u in box friend...my friends say I'm kind, attractive,generous soul who is fun to have around and that right guy is out there for me.... I believe he is too...just think I will take step back from trying to find bf at any cost....will go back to my normal self of one night stands,dating and making new friends...and never again adapt myself to my bf but let him adapt to me...
einathens Posted April 2, 2013 Report Posted April 2, 2013 form this and other posts, i would suggest that if it's on again/off again, has to be a certain type of guy, the sex has to be great, and you're able to move quickly to totally indifferent, then you probably weren't totally in love in the first place. love hurts when it leaves.
bigdick4you Posted April 2, 2013 Author Report Posted April 2, 2013 form this and other posts, i would suggest that if it's on again/off again, has to be a certain type of guy, the sex has to be great, and you're able to move quickly to totally indifferent, then you probably weren't totally in love in the first place. love hurts when it leaves. The sex was indeed great.... But I can't stay with a bf only due to that....I move so quickly to protect myself and not risking being hurt any longer...I gave and gave and he just took and took...gave me mixed MSG.... I can't live like that! I want to stay friends....not even dumping him like hot potato like most of my friends suggested... Even prepared to be friends with benefits but no more.... As in relationship he is too over bearing....telling me I have to mention every time I sleep with someone.... Give me a break! Not wanting to do group thing with me but doing it with tweakers when he decides to have his drug fueled weekends...being in school at 36 and living in with his parents.... Me paying most of bills....insulting me .... I was in love with him and I still am.... But I won't go on road to self destruction.... I deserve better... I'm decent guy! Maybe too decent and that's the problem...
einathens Posted April 3, 2013 Report Posted April 3, 2013 why would you want to be friends with an overbearing, indifferent, insulting sponge?
bigdick4you Posted April 5, 2013 Author Report Posted April 5, 2013 why would you want to be friends with an overbearing, indifferent, insulting sponge?[/QUOHe also has his sweet side...he can be quite caring...I have my reasons....I know he is not very trusting... I always try to show him that he can trust me and that I'm there for him.im just a softy... What can I say...
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