Being submissive as a top?

[losttop]

I have open relationship with my bf and with my Fuckbuddies and hook ups I'm quite verbal and dominant... But lately with my bf I'm becoming more and more submissive....I still top him and everything.... But lately he expressed the feeling to become more of a top.... And I'm totally open to it. The truth is.... I feel like I have to reinvent myself.... Although the idea of him topping me turns me on.... I find it hard to relax and take dick.... I used to be vers. But last time I got fucked is like 16 years ago.... I'm more open to tag team a bottom with my bf..... But he doesn't feel secure doing this for some reason..... Maybe u guys could get me some feedback on this matter....

[pisstopper]

There seems to be a lot of issues you raise - how can you comfortably bottom more? How can your bf be more of a top? And what does it mean to be submissive? I tend to not equate submission with bottoming all the time. One of my favorite things to do is restrain and hood a bottom, force him to get hard and then use his cock to fuck either myself or other guys turning them into an involuntary top. It's very doable to be a submissive top or a dominant bottom with the right planning

However if the issue is just one about changing roles for fucking, I think practice makes perfect. Get started taking cock or if you wanna start slower toys and work your way up. I tend to think groups are not the best way to practice new or rusty skills. How about forcing him to rape you with some plugs or a reasonable dildo as a reintroduction. It may be easier to work on the bottoming part before the submission part