POZ relationships..Strictly top or bottom

[freakypoz]

I have been single a while and tho sex is good I would like to have someone at home when I get there. I have met several really nice poz guys who fit all I want and need except in the bedroom..They are strictly Top or Strictly bottom..Im 100% vers and I find that sex gets old fast if its the same old shit day after day..Is it just me or once your poz it seems guys take one certain role in the bedroom and thats it..Where are the hot Vers guys who want a good man

[bearbandit]

I'm here! I've just spent the afternoon getting my ass wrecked by an escort because I got so sick of the "please fuck me Daddy" crowd. Is it just poz guys though? I've noticed a growing division amongst those who don't identify as poz into being either top or bottom. It's maybe not as bad as strictly top or bottom here but versatile top seems to mean "I'll let you into my hole if it's absolutely the only way we can fuck" and versatile bottom means "I'll fuck you if I really have to" while true versatile doesn't seem to exist in most guys' minds.

[freakypoz]

Ive been poz 14 years now but back in the day...lol..It seemed to me that there was alot more vers guys..Now that Im poz I have no clue what the non poz crowd is doing..Im truly vers and its almost impossible to find someone who flip fucks any more...I want to fuck and get fucked and I dont mean its all over in 5 minutes..Im talking hours getting to know each others quirks and limits...I might as well buy a blow up doll and a dildo....lol...It would be alot less aggrevating