how to stay hidden as bi

[miticax]

I'm a married bottom but find it hard to stay under the radar and still have fun.

wondering how bi around here coop with still getting action (as a top or bottom) and also managing a relation with wife/family.

how I do it is that I manage to get around during the work hours and escape, but that way I can get random hookups or with previous tops.

[Guest FinalDL2021]

I can relate.  right now, I rely on gong to bathouses. I also rely on discreet fuck buddies that I meet online. I am in a long-term relationship with a women, and do admit, that I am in a position were I might have to make a choice, her or a gay lifestyle. 

Before I started barebacking I did not see other men, for sex, that frequently, so it was easier, Barebacking has unleashed something that makes me want to have sex with men much more often.

My advise would be to find a good fuck buddy / friend that you can trust, if you plan on staying with your wife/family.

I hope this helps