How do I stop guilt and regret?

[DylanV]

Hello everyone, I'm Dylan.

I guess I am bi-curious or maybe even bi-sexual; starting from only being attracted to females then moving on to becoming more and more attracted by gay stuff (although I have not lost any attraction for females); I have never hooked up with any guys, I jerk off to gay porn or do some anal play and the moment I cum I get this wave of instant guilt,regret and relief that I didn't do anything with a guy.

How can I stop this? I feel like gay stuff could be something that I will really enjoy & I don't want to miss out.

Thanks,

Dylan

[WolfinSheepsClothing]

just a guess here, since you don't talk a lot about your background, but sounds like you were raised that men only like to have sex with women.  you have been discovering that you also like the idea of having sex with other men.  until you can let go of that societal mental block you will still keep having problems with the thoughts of having sex with men.  Not a psychiatrist,  just know it was that way with me.

[Guest Upstateguy518]

I think once you act on it and explore, you'll lose that feeling. It's definitely odd dealing with your sexuality when you think you're one thing for all these years then you discover otherwise. Just enjoy the fun. Men can be far more fun than women. 

[Eptxbttm]

Do you only get the regret when you jerk off to gay prom or does it sometimes happen to any porn? It may take time but push yourself to pass boundaries and learn what you like and dislike.