Question for Sub Bottoms, are you "sub" 24/7?

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Back when I came out, (The Earth was still cooling.) We used the terms, French active and Greek  passive. Then, it was just active and passive, then top and bottom.  Now, it's Dom and Sub.  Now, bottom and Sub are used pretty my much synonymously.  While I am always a bottom, I'm not always a sub.  When I'm higher than God, I'm very sub. Otherwise, I'm just me, obstinate, outspoken, bossy at times, especially professionally.  A regular top deeply offended me recently and said he was done with me.  Fine. Two weeks later he was back.  I told him until I forgave him, he was the bitch. I made him beg. Things went back to normal eventually, but I made it clear that sub doesn't mean without respect or boundaries. Are you always sub even outside of sex? Do you set boundaries?