Not much loads

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I feel it's difficult to get loads in my area since some time. I have an anon cumdump profile on Grindr but most of the time conversations start with the question for a facepic while i mentioned "anon" in my profile. So the conversations end to nowhere and ofcourse no load.
It makes me insecure, also because i gained some weight... and because i can't host makes it difficult too... My last load was in april 2022, i gave him a blowjob and swallowed everything.  

Just before the COVID pandemic began i started using Prep, i had a few nice moments in a nearby bathhouse but it got temporary closed because of the pandemic for some time. These days it's open again but i didn't went yet because of the going monkeypox. While the cases a very low here it scares me a bit.

Grindr in my area is so quiet because i live in a small town. Always the same profiles but not much play.

I don't know what to do. Maybe i'm going to the bathhouse on saturday...

Any tips to get more loads would be welcome 🙂

 

[HoneyBuns1980]

Yep, the bathhouse is typically where it’s at. A lot of flakiness and general weird, off-putting behaviour (tops begging bottoms to send a dick pic) online. At least at the baths you’re interacting with people face-to-face.