Cruising/Sex Clubs in NYC

[120DaysofSodom]

Im not very familiar with the scene in NYC and ill be there June 26-July 1st. Ive heard the bathhouses have all closed. Where is a good place to take loads?

[JavyX69]

Supposedly East Side Club is still open? Give em a ring and see what's up. Wish I was going up there myself.

[BreedMeNYC]

East Side Club is the only "bathhouse" option left. The main focus here is private, ticketed sex parties: 

• gbuparty .com
• malebox .com
• pighausleather .com
• lodgeny .com
• cumunion .com

The crowd, atmosphere, etc. of these parties vary wildly and it's impossible to give a general overview of what they're like. It depends on the night, the theme, etc. Some are open invite and some require memberships or pre-approval, so plan ahead. 

East Side Club is a very disappointing club. It's more of a "sex club" than a "bathhouse" even though there is a sauna and a steam room. There are lockers, but rooms are only a couple bucks more. Guys cruise in towels and sandals, mostly. Partying is of course not allowed but very common. Room rentals are FOUR hours, not eight like most clubs I've been to. 

There is a AIDS Crisis-era NYC law that prohibits sex in public. The City has come out and said they will no longer enforce that, but the ESC management has stupidly decided to keep enforcing it. That means: no sex in the sauna or steam room, and no sex in your room/cabin with the door open or cracked. (You could wait ass up for someone to walk by and join... but as soon as they join, the door has to close. It's fucking stupid.)

With that said... since your trip lines up with Pride, most of these options -- including ESC -- will be better than average. ESC will likely be full and there may be a line or a wait for rooms, so there will be plenty of dick and you'll end up satisfied. But the downsides remain, so just manage your expectations. (I will probably end up at ESC that weekend at least once, so it's not a TOTAL lost cause. It can be fun when I go with friends, party, and lower my standards/expectations to just collect as many sketchy loads as possible.)

Sniffies is also very popular here and lots of people organize groups that way. These are usually at someone's apartment, not commercial groups. 

Kyros, I'm going to message you on telegram. Wherever you end up that weekend, you're getting my dirty load before you leave. 

[topblkmale]

 

June - NYC Sex Party Calendar

 

[think before following links] https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=nycgaysexparty@gmail.com&ctz=America/Chicago

 

Edited June 15 by topblkmale

[TaKinGDeePanal]

12 hours ago, BreedMeNYC said:

Wherever you end up that weekend, you're getting my dirty load before you leave. 

I'm in NYC later this year. Need your dirty load as well.

[BreedMeNYC]

16 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

June - NYC Sex Party Calendar

 

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=nycgaysexparty@gmail.com&ctz=America/Chicago

 

This is a great resource put together by some selfless person with more time on their hands than I have. Gotta hand it to them for this community service. 😅

The thing I'd warn people about with this is that many of the parties on that calendar (maybe even the majority) are parties run by the same people, just with different names at different times. They sort of came out of nowhere recently with TONS of parties each week, and -- in my opinion -- oversaturated the sex party scene. So now each party is more sparsely attended because there are too many options. And a newbie will go to one party, see how sparsely attended it is, and decide never to go back. (The organizers probably know more than I do, considering I know nothing, but it seems like a self-defeating business plan.)

The parties that are tried and true, outside of that group of oversaturated events, are: GBU, MaleBox, and Pighaus. CumUnion is usually pretty good, and it should be great on Pride weekend. The fetish-focused parties run by that big conglomerate are exceptions and I think they're safe bets (like Manhole, the fisting party). 

[topblkmale]

On 6/16/2024 at 2:18 PM, BreedMeNYC said:

This is a great resource put together by some selfless person with more time on their hands than I have. Gotta hand it to them for this community service. 😅

The thing I'd warn people about with this is that many of the parties on that calendar (maybe even the majority) are parties run by the same people, just with different names at different times. They sort of came out of nowhere recently with TONS of parties each week, and -- in my opinion -- oversaturated the sex party scene. So now each party is more sparsely attended because there are too many options. And a newbie will go to one party, see how sparsely attended it is, and decide never to go back. (The organizers probably know more than I do, considering I know nothing, but it seems like a self-defeating business plan.)

The parties that are tried and true, outside of that group of oversaturated events, are: GBU, MaleBox, and Pighaus. CumUnion is usually pretty good, and it should be great on Pride weekend. The fetish-focused parties run by that big conglomerate are exceptions and I think they're safe bets (like Manhole, the fisting party). 

 

Very true. This one conglomerate, LodgeNY, has quite a few party franchises in NYC.

They're hosted in one of two venues. I've only attended Blow Buddies NYC a handful of times. I was not impressed. It felt cold, rushed and not very diverse at all by NYC standards.

• The Bear Party - Bears, cubs, chubs, chasers and friends
• Bigg Tent - A Saturday night party for men of all stripes
• Blow Buddies NYC - Blow-jobs only
• The Chub Chaser Party - Chubs and chasers only
• The F*ck Stop - For guys who are down to f*ck
• Kink Brotherhood - For guys with kinks and fetishes
• Manhole - Fisting and serious ass play
• Nocturnal NY - For the late crowd Sun thru Thurs
• NY Uncut - For uncut guys and admirers
• Over 50 / Under 50 - Parties for guys 50 and over and 50 and under
• Stoner Boner - A sex party for guys that smoke weed. 21+
• Squeeze - A Sunday evening party with no theme
• Workman's Lunch - A nooner for the working crowd Tues & Thurs

 

Here's another local resource that details other parties in New York.

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://gaysexnyc.wordpress.com/

 

Edited June 19 by topblkmale

[meetme]

I went to the Uncut party at 56th St of theirs. I think they own the real estate and are trying to milk it for fast cash because it’s not suitable for much else. The 56th St place looks like it was a massage parlor.

[Traviscraymer]

On 6/15/2024 at 12:41 PM, BreedMeNYC said:

East Side Club is the only "bathhouse" option left. The main focus here is private, ticketed sex parties: 

• gbuparty .com
• malebox .com
• pighausleather .com
• lodgeny .com
• cumunion .com

The crowd, atmosphere, etc. of these parties vary wildly and it's impossible to give a general overview of what they're like. It depends on the night, the theme, etc. Some are open invite and some require memberships or pre-approval, so plan ahead. 

East Side Club is a very disappointing club. It's more of a "sex club" than a "bathhouse" even though there is a sauna and a steam room. There are lockers, but rooms are only a couple bucks more. Guys cruise in towels and sandals, mostly. Partying is of course not allowed but very common. Room rentals are FOUR hours, not eight like most clubs I've been to. 

There is a AIDS Crisis-era NYC law that prohibits sex in public. The City has come out and said they will no longer enforce that, but the ESC management has stupidly decided to keep enforcing it. That means: no sex in the sauna or steam room, and no sex in your room/cabin with the door open or cracked. (You could wait ass up for someone to walk by and join... but as soon as they join, the door has to close. It's fucking stupid.)

With that said... since your trip lines up with Pride, most of these options -- including ESC -- will be better than average. ESC will likely be full and there may be a line or a wait for rooms, so there will be plenty of dick and you'll end up satisfied. But the downsides remain, so just manage your expectations. (I will probably end up at ESC that weekend at least once, so it's not a TOTAL lost cause. It can be fun when I go with friends, party, and lower my standards/expectations to just collect as many sketchy loads as possible.)

Sniffies is also very popular here and lots of people organize groups that way. These are usually at someone's apartment, not commercial groups. 

Kyros, I'm going to message you on telegram. Wherever you end up that weekend, you're getting my dirty load before you leave. 

Agree with ESC.  Was there in Pride and it was busy.  Lot of beautiful cock there.  I rarely go because it hot or miss for me these days.  

[meetme]

The thing about the ESC and this was always true at the WSC too, is that when you talk after great sex you will more likely than not find the man you enjoyed so much is not a New Yorker.  I believe sex still happens, elsewhere, but in NY at the only bathhouse available that most locals won’t go to, PRIDE weekend you have a chance because the men who went there believe in the bathhouse myth. The regular NY traffic just complains about the types of men on offer there

[deepnrawnyc]

42 minutes ago, meetme said:

The thing about the ESC and this was always true at the WSC too, is that when you talk after great sex you will more likely than not find the man you enjoyed so much is not a New Yorker.  I believe sex still happens, elsewhere, but in NY at the only bathhouse available that most locals won’t go to, PRIDE weekend you have a chance because the men who went there believe in the bathhouse myth. The regular NY traffic just complains about the types of men on offer there

Totally agree! The problem with regular NY traffic is their attitude.  All they are interested in is an 18 year old pumped up Adonis with a 10 inch cock.  Otherwise it's just judgment city with these NYers, who's too old, who's too short who's too fat, who's dick is too small or too big, who's too hairy, the list just goes on and on and they are more interested in passing commenting and complaining than having hot sex.

I'll probably catch some flack for my opinion but those NYC guys know it's the truth.

[meetme]

I know it’s the truth. Lately you go to the ESC and every guy with his room door open is on his phone cruising apps. Are you kidding me? I am here, in a towel and you won’t look up from your phone.  I did get very lucky last week before pride week. It was 8 o’clock Sunday and as I returned to my room two other men, a couple, were returning to their room which was next to mine. They had walked around together for four hours and had no luck at all. I said I understood because my experience had been slim too. I said I was there for sex and the exchange of bodily fluids, they nodded in agreement and came into my room. One guys cock went in my mouth while the younger of the two noticed that my hole was leaking from the one lucky contact I had. He told his husband to feel how wet I was. The man with his cock in my mouth agreed I had been used so his partner slid his cock into me. After they both gave me a load I asked for their phone number in upstate NY. Hope the next time they visit the city we get together again

[deepnrawnyc]

You lucky man!!