The darker side of things - what is most popular

[PozToxVersPig]

Let me say that this post is in no way an endorsement of any of these activities, merely a fact-finding post.  Connecting online, no matter the forum (I guess this probably doesn't come up in Christian Mingle haha), means a certain number of [banned word] topics come up.  This is on top of poz or poz-unmed versus neg, or use drugs versus don't, and I won't bother here but condom/no condom.

[PozToxVersPig]

Let me say that this post is in no way an endorsement of any of these activities, merely a fact-finding post.  Connecting online, no matter the forum (I guess this probably doesn't come up in Christian Mingle haha), means a certain number of [banned word] topics come up.  This is on top of poz or poz-unmed versus neg, or use drugs versus don't, and I won't bother here but condom/no condom.

I'm also semi-interested in where some people draw the line - some people are absolutely YES to one thing, but absolutely NO to another thing, even though those two things sort of go together.

If I missed something and your comfortable sharing, feel free.  It only gave me so many answer options.

[PozToxVersPig]

ALSO ONE OTHER QUESTION:

Is there a difference between what is kink, what is [banned word], what is [banned word]?

It seems very individual what gets bucketed in to each group.  I have some opinions but I wonder if others have opinions.