Fisting

[GuyLover]

How do you work yourself up to taking a big fist in your ass? I’ve had a friend who has been training me slowly, but he’s real nice to me and he is indeed taking it slow slowly. I bought a butt plugged and I’ve been riding it hard and shoving some extra fingers in there, stretching, and hurting myself as as much as I can. It’s really pleasurable. But tell me, everyone, how did those of you who enjoy fisting get your ass ready for it … thanks

Edited March 10 by GuyLover

[cummimmenow]

Months of  relaxation practice . Deep  breath  just like they teach in child birth.

[Westlonlad]

Time, practice, poppers, patience and lube. Lots of lube.

Enjoy the journey.

[FFBBTTMBOI]

From my training… I think toys are your best friend before you’re able to get fisted by someone else. Incremental increases in size with different shapes. 

I’d personally try to resist hurting yourself, I know it feels good (especially when you’re all horned up) but it can prolong you reaching your goal in the long run as you heal.

Also, in the training stage, I’d suggest using poppers (and any other substances) as little as you can. The more you can take by relaxing yourself without enhancements, the better it’ll be when you’re having a fisting session. It’s better if poppers are just adding to the pleasure, and that they don’t become a necessary  numbing agent for you to ram something inside your hole that it’s not ready for. 

[ffabbian]

On 4/18/2025 at 11:52 AM, FFBBTTMBOI said:

From my training… I think toys are your best friend before you’re able to get fisted by someone else. Incremental increases in size with different shapes. 

I’d personally try to resist hurting yourself, I know it feels good (especially when you’re all horned up) but it can prolong you reaching your goal in the long run as you heal.

Also, in the training stage, I’d suggest using poppers (and any other substances) as little as you can. The more you can take by relaxing yourself without enhancements, the better it’ll be when you’re having a fisting session. It’s better if poppers are just adding to the pleasure, and that they don’t become a necessary  numbing agent for you to ram something inside your hole that it’s not ready for. 

I 100% agree. Fisting is about the long game so hurting yourself is counterproductive. 

[Erik62]

On 4/18/2025 at 8:52 PM, FFBBTTMBOI said:

From my training… I think toys are your best friend before you’re able to get fisted by someone else. Incremental increases in size with different shapes. 

I’d personally try to resist hurting yourself, I know it feels good (especially when you’re all horned up) but it can prolong you reaching your goal in the long run as you heal.

Also, in the training stage, I’d suggest using poppers (and any other substances) as little as you can. The more you can take by relaxing yourself without enhancements, the better it’ll be when you’re having a fisting session. It’s better if poppers are just adding to the pleasure, and that they don’t become a necessary  numbing agent for you to ram something inside your hole that it’s not ready for. 

Greay advice for ALL things sex. If you can't relax, be nice & accommodating to any size cock or smaller  fists, then it's as sure as you were born that Enhancements ARE NOT going to do what you want them to. If you can master the art of relaxation then Enhancements will blow your sex into another galaxy. 

[drm1234]

I agree that toys are the way to go.  It really is a combination of time and patience.  It's a bit cliche, but focus on the journey and not the destination.  Something that I struggled with was getting used to keeping my hole open for long term play.  Our bodies' normal instinct is to expel anything in the rectal cavity.  To really enjoy fisting, I had to train my body to resist this natural instinct.  I would recommend butt plugs that you can wear for extended periods of time to get used to the sensation of having your hole full and gaping.  I'm a big fan of the Grip and Gape Keeper toys from Topped Toys.