Ah, the Variety!! Expanding your sexual horizons

[Tiboer]

When I was younger, I had a specific type that I would always pursue.  I thought nothing else would turn me on as much so why waste time and energy?

As I got older, I was getting bored so purposely looked to expand my sexual horizons—trying new sexual experiences (I’d try anything at least twice to see if it was worth continuing).  Part of that was trying varying races, body fitness, hairiness, age, etc.  WOW!  I had been missing so much! 

I found that the strongest aphrodisiac was kindness, general positive outlook, and  sense of humor—a combination that’s rarer than one would thing.   I can also find something physical in every sex partner that turns me on—eyes, body, hair, etc.

Have you purposely worked to expand your sexual horizons?

 

[ffabbian]

Expanding my sexual horizons was a natural progression rather than purposeful with onr exception. I was 99.99% bottom till I was 20. I had a very domineering top bf,  the sex was 💯 and I loved being a  sub - power bottom  but even though he  paid attention to my cock till orgasm I wanted more. I became incredibly frustrated, bored and a little bit embarrassed that  all i was and known by everyone as a bottom. A  twink with with a sloppy hole used by many men and with a pointless 8" x 5.5." 

My taste in men has broadened. In my teens I was into men in there from their mid 20s to 50s,  strong, hairy and hung.   30s to 50s when I was in my 20s but size of their dicks didn't matter. This was the decade where I learnt from my mistakes and repeated some. It was also the decade of discovering what type of personality I love and need.  I had my first bf that was younger than me when.i was 30,  he was also a total bottom which was a first for me as a total top. Turned on by his teeny dick was another first.