What is it better to do?

[Explorer10cs]

 If you were  on Grindr, do you wait until you establish a connection maybe one or two or three or four conversations or do you just move in? The advantages and disadvantages for both.

[Warmnsalty]

More often then not, it's my first contact with a guy. I'm not looking for anything other than a load. I don't look for or need any type of personal connection I just want his cock. I'm always hoping for ongoing, assuming things click the first time around. Most of the loads I take are from DL attached guys, so ongoing is difficult. 

[sub4oralcum]

I'm down from the first conversation. I'm happy to have a chat buddy, but I don't mind meeting and swallowing a man on our first contact.