CNC - how the fuck does this actually work?

[extremsub337]

I am in largely CNC relationship with my partner/dom/Master.  Basically other than some very specific limits (like no activities with the likelihood of me ending up in an ER) he is free to use me as he desires.  With regards to fucking I may absolutely not say no and have no control whatsoever. He has total control as to who, when, where and how I am used.  It can be scary at times, but also incredibly exciting and liberating.  

[PozToxVersPig]

3 hours ago, extremsub337 said:

I am in largely CNC relationship with my partner/dom/Master.  Basically, other than some very specific limits (like no activities with the likelihood of me ending up in an ER) he is free to use me as he desires.  With regards to fucking I may absolutely not say no and have no control whatsoever. He has total control as to who, when, where and how I am used.  It can be scary at times, but also incredibly exciting and liberating.  

@extremsub337 - and this is fine, as long as you and he understand where there any limits...it sounds like are enjoying the experience of having that understanding and I 100%%%%%%%%% agree that it's liberating and freeing.  The reason the topic is important to me is really representation of many who say they have "no limits" but don't actually know what that COULD include if the dom were going to choose to push - 

You and your partner sound hot! 🙂  And I am very liberal with my limits also, so can relate to the "scary at times" - though I'd call it thrilling 🙂

[evilcoyote]

I like your form or as we used to call it application. I remember back when I was a baby gay dipping my toe into the kink community I had to fill one of these out for a few different Doms. It was basically giving them consent to anything written down. And the stuff that was close to no, no was at times tested, and interestingly enough, it pushed my limits further and further down...to now I explain to many it's just easier if I say no death or ER. 

[PozToxVersPig]

54 minutes ago, evilcoyote said:

I like your form or as we used to call it application

It was really inspired by my research in to BDSM principles + my own experiences of having consent/limit conversations.  We've all been asked a bazillion times "what are you in to" and it might seem a little bit robotic, but having it outlined makes a shit ton of sense to me 🙂  I worry when I hear folks say "no limits" and that's just simply not true! 🙂 Thanks @evilcoyote! 🙂

[evilcoyote]

11 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

It was really inspired by my research in to BDSM principles + my own experiences of having consent/limit conversations.  We've all been asked a bazillion times "what are you in to" and it might seem a little bit robotic, but having it outlined makes a shit ton of sense to me 🙂  I worry when I hear folks say "no limits" and that's just simply not true! 🙂 Thanks @evilcoyote! 🙂

You are welcome. And yeah, "no limits" should be a huge red flag to run away. Even in TPE relationships there are limits. 

 

*TPE = Total Power Exchange which is where where a submissive yields significant control to a dominant partner, often 24/7.