NorfolkUK

5 hours ago, Markcumdumpguy said:

Any update on what’s happening with St Giles, any problems with security? Tips?

I was there Sunday and just walked straight into the lifts with no issues at all

ldn_bblad

24 minutes ago, Davidc said:

It used to be that I couldn’t fuck with a condom , now I only get really excited by a warm frothy cumdump.

( My local sauna reopens this week after a long holiday , will be in the dark room fucking a cumdump or two who are making up for lost time) 

That sounds like a mirror of my own experience and how I’ve changed! I wonder what the next step is?!

I don’t know if it’s the mental element of adding to a loaded hole, doing something so dirty, or if it’s genuinely how silky and warm a pre-loaded hole feels and how your cock slides straight in. But it feels so good and turns me on like nothing else.

 I’m neg (I think) and not on prep, so probably should do something about that if not already too late as I know it’s riskier…. But every once in a while I get the urge. If I was on prep I’d probably do it every day.

I almost exclusively fuck pre-loaded holes now. Anyone else the same?

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Ldn_bblad

As the title says. Would anyone in the area like to help me settle in? 😉

Mine is @norfolkbblad 

(I’m now in London, not Norfolk!!!)

On 1/13/2022 at 9:09 PM, swvsucker said:

I think early teen years is best. This is around the time a guy is both sexually aware of what pleasuring his own cock feels like and is a good time to gain confidence in his sexual urges.

I was 14 when I sucked my first cock and I instantly knew I loved it and wanted to do it a lot more (and I did). I have read stories where guys fought their urge until they were in their 30s and regretted all of those wasted years later on.

It also allows you to build an early eater/feeder relationship with a guy. My first was my cousin (also 14) and we quickly established an agreement that he could have a blowjob anytime he felt the urge and I could suck his cock anytime I had a craving and neither of us needed to be embarrassed or insecure about asking for it, because we both knew the other would want it. It resulted in both of us having that unlimited access for nearly 30 years until he developed some health issues. 

You’re so right. I have a friend who’s now 30 and still a total virgin, with girls and guys. Why? Because he’s quite obviously gay but so far in the closet that he just switches off from the idea of sex. He has some mental health difficulties, I think largely because he can’t accept who he is. Such a shame when he’s a fit guy too.

As for me, to be honest I was ready at about 10. My first time was when I was 15 though with a guy in his 30s.

I love it!! Only today, I was fucking a guy when it got all squelchy and I could see my cock was covered with cum. “Oh yeah, I’ve had two young guys fuck me this morning already.”

It was so hot. I just do hope none of that cum is poz…. 😈

So we all know that poop, crap, shit - whatever you want to call it - goes with the territory of fucking someone’s arse.

Ok, fair enough. But when as a bottom you have a hookup planned, unless you’ve both stated you’re into scat, the obvious thing should be to prepare properly. And properly means more than a 5 min jump under the shower, but thoroughly cleaning that area. I appreciate not everyone is into douching and some see it as overkill, but it’s not an area that should be ignored. Especially when the sex is bareback.

Another bit of common courtesy would be that if you’re having an off day and your bowels aren’t moving properly, just let the guy who’s coming over to fuck you know? That way the ball is in his court as to whether he’s happy with the risk or would rather postpone until things are back to normal?

Yet again tonight, I’m fucking a guy. Really into it, all going well, I’m getting close. Then I smell shit. Pull out and it’s all over my cock. I stop the fuck there, clean up and leave, but the guy seems totally oblivious to what’s happened and was even messaging me after with no mention of it or an apology. Sorry, but it absolutely reeked, and especially afterwards he must’ve known what happened when he went to clean himself up (presuming he cleaned up…)

Accidents happen, but is this something that should be considered “normal”, or is it just bad manners on the bottom in this case to not even apologise? I appreciate he could’ve been embarrassed, but the way he was talking to me afterwards like it was the best fuck of all time, I doubt that was the case.

Sorry, but shit on my cock is when the action ends. It’s a deal breaker for me. I’m sure I’m far from the only one. It’s never going to be guaranteed not to happen, but there are things that can be done to help make it less likely, or at least make up for it after the accident has happened. To do nothing, is that just lazy and rude, or am I being picky?

I’d pass. If you only want a “sex buddy” - believe me, a 16 year old isn’t capable of that. And there’s always the possibility he could be lying and he’s actually 15 or 14. At that age, I know I wasn’t mentally capable of processing anything that didn’t have strings attached, not if I remotely liked the guy anyway.

I love cruising, would definitely love to give this place a go one day. I agree, it’s so hard to find good cruising fun these days!

Seriously hot!!

If he's that trusting, he'll soon find out the hard way that guys do lie. Even then, the biggest danger comes from "neg" guys who have no idea they're poz yet. He'll soon be a poz cumdump though...

@norfolkbblad

So unfortunately we can probably all agree that there are times when we’re really horny but all on our own, so we have to resort to a good old fashioned wank.

 I often find porn doesn’t really cut it anymore, and my thoughts often end up going to guys I know. Usually straight guys who are totally off limits, but I find really sexy. Really gets me going in no time, but then afterwards for some strange reason I feel kinda guilty. It’s not like I’m looking at their pics or anything, just thinking about them in my mind.

Does anyone else do the same? Does anyone else also feel a little guilty or naughty after for doing so?

I was about 11. I’d been wanking and dry cumming regularly for a year or two by that point though.

I used to have a regular poz fuck bud who was into anon bottoming. I fucked him dozens of times and always bred him, but we never knew what each other looked like. Sadly he disappeared, I’d love to fuck him again!

2 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

I often use Vaseline too and I find it works very well

And Vaseline also has the added advantage that if you find a top insistent on using a condom - sure, go ahead! Then when it breaks, tell them you want their cum and they’ll be so horny that they won’t even care 😈

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Yes. I used to go cruising a lot when i was 18-21. When I was 19, I went one day as usual, only ever to suck as many cocks as possible, and maybe top on the rare occasion.

One guy, mid 40s, suggested we go to a slightly more secluded area of the woods. I was sucking him and really enjoying it, thinking he’d cum in my mouth like all the others. But he then picked me up, turned me around and pushed me so I was leaning on a tree. I then felt his huge cock rubbing my hole, which had only been fucked twice before.

I told him no. I said I was far too tight and it’d never get in. Then he just pushed so hard, and in it went. It hurt so much, with only my spit for lube. I was just in shock and pretty much paralysed. Then he started thrusting really hard, and the pain eased. It took him no more than a minute to cum and flood my ass. He remarked how I was his tightest ever fuck, he laughed a little after it was done, then walked off and left me standing there in shock half naked.

I was in pain for days afterwards. Walking, sitting, bending - anything was agony. But I still really enjoyed it. Technically it was rape, but it still turns me on so much.

The one and only time I’ve had a load in my ass was in public. Totally unexpected at a gay cruising woods near me. I loved feeling his load inside me.

So I know to a lot of people this might sound bad, but I’ve had guys on sex hookup sites who look fantastic in their photos and send me a message. It’s obvious what they want, but despite it being a hookup site, they still seem to want me to ‘chat them up’ as if we’d met in a bar.

No matter how sexy they are, or how much I’d love to hook up with them, I can’t be bothered with a chase. I always am very direct about trying to arrange meets with this type of person, but then they predictably go quiet after that.

Is it just because it makes them feel less of a slut, as if morals come into anything on these sorts of sites? Or are they just time wasters?

Does it turn you on when someone plays hard to get, or do you just get bored like me and move onto the next guy, even if they’re extremely hot?