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I was there Sunday and just walked straight into the lifts with no issues at all

ldn_bblad

That sounds like a mirror of my own experience and how I’ve changed! I wonder what the next step is?!

I don’t know if it’s the mental element of adding to a loaded hole, doing something so dirty, or if it’s genuinely how silky and warm a pre-loaded hole feels and how your cock slides straight in. But it feels so good and turns me on like nothing else. I’m neg (I think) and not on prep, so probably should do something about that if not already too late as I know it’s riskier…. But every once in a while I get the urge. If I was on prep I’d probably do it every day. I almost exclusively fuck pre-loaded holes now. Anyone else the same?

Ldn_bblad

Ldn_bblad

As the title says. Would anyone in the area like to help me settle in? 😉

Mine is @norfolkbblad (I’m now in London, not Norfolk!!!)

You’re so right. I have a friend who’s now 30 and still a total virgin, with girls and guys. Why? Because he’s quite obviously gay but so far in the closet that he just switches off from the idea of sex. He has some mental health difficulties, I think largely because he can’t accept who he is. Such a shame when he’s a fit guy too. As for me, to be honest I was ready at about 10. My first time was when I was 15 though with a guy in his 30s.

I love it!! Only today, I was fucking a guy when it got all squelchy and I could see my cock was covered with cum. “Oh yeah, I’ve had two young guys fuck me this morning already.” It was so hot. I just do hope none of that cum is poz…. 😈

So we all know that poop, crap, shit - whatever you want to call it - goes with the territory of fucking someone’s arse. Ok, fair enough. But when as a bottom you have a hookup planned, unless you’ve both stated you’re into scat, the obvious thing should be to prepare properly. And properly means more than a 5 min jump under the shower, but thoroughly cleaning that area. I appreciate not everyone is into douching and some see it as overkill, but it’s not an area that should be ignored. Especially when the sex is bareback. Another bit of common courtesy would be that if you’re having an off day and your bowels aren’t moving properly, just let the guy who’s coming over to fuck you know? That way the ball is in his court as to whether he’s happy with the risk or would rather postpone until things are back to normal? Yet again tonight, I’m fucking a guy. Really into it, all going well, I’m getting close. Then I smell shit. Pull out and it’s all over my cock. I stop the fuck there, clean up and leave, but the guy seems totally oblivious to what’s happened and was even messaging me after with no mention of it or an apology. Sorry, but it absolutely reeked, and especially afterwards he must’ve known what happened when he went to clean himself up (presuming he cleaned up…) Accidents happen, but is this something that should be considered “normal”, or is it just bad manners on the bottom in this case to not even apologise? I appreciate he could’ve been embarrassed, but the way he was talking to me afterwards like it was the best fuck of all time, I doubt that was the case. Sorry, but shit on my cock is when the action ends. It’s a deal breaker for me. I’m sure I’m far from the only one. It’s never going to be guaranteed not to happen, but there are things that can be done to help make it less likely, or at least make up for it after the accident has happened. To do nothing, is that just lazy and rude, or am I being picky?

I’d pass. If you only want a “sex buddy” - believe me, a 16 year old isn’t capable of that. And there’s always the possibility he could be lying and he’s actually 15 or 14. At that age, I know I wasn’t mentally capable of processing anything that didn’t have strings attached, not if I remotely liked the guy anyway.

I love cruising, would definitely love to give this place a go one day. I agree, it’s so hard to find good cruising fun these days!

Seriously hot!!

If he's that trusting, he'll soon find out the hard way that guys do lie. Even then, the biggest danger comes from "neg" guys who have no idea they're poz yet. He'll soon be a poz cumdump though...