Snarkybitch

When a top rams it in me without regard for whether or not he's hurting me or even if I'm enjoying the fuck.

To continue, I'm not the guy you practice on. I've had guys throw up a bit on me, scrape me with their teeth thinking they're doing something great. Then they wonder why I turn them down the next time I'm out on the prowl. Do what you can, and what you're comfortable with, and I'll enjoy it as well. My second gripe is the guy that grabs the base. It ain't a lollipop, lol. The cocksucker always ends up slouching down on his heels and doesn't release his grip. Ugh, lol. If you don't want to or can't swallow it, I'll sense it and won't ram it in. Remember, gimme great head and you'll be rewarded with the rimming of your life. Make it crappy and I'm on to the next cocksucker!

So, lots of attention to the head and behind the crown to get you hard and leaking?

Yes, but not because they were black.

There are types I find more attractive (I tend to favor furry muscledaddies and average joes), but ultimately it's more about character and connection. If I'm not into you as a person, you don't deserve access to my ass.

raw sleazy bareback sex turns me on so much so i cant fuck them safe anyway, no matter what i would have. i aslo hate when bttms refuse to let me fuck them bare. most guys i can talk into bb, cause im young and hot, but on rare occations its impossible. then i try to rip the condom so it will brake during pounding. cause i pound brutally

Ugh. If the guy you're sleeping with insists on safe sex your only moral options are to have safe sex with them or to move on to a different guy.

I don't often cum before the top. But if I'm in too much pain from being fucked I'm not shy about insisting that the top stops.

Did it once. It hurt like a motherfucker, so it's not something I'll ever do again even if I was amenable to a 3-way.

I used to be a lot sluttier, but as I've matured I find I get more out of having sex with someone I'm in a relationship with. The last few times I hooked up, I felt hollow and depressed after. Sex with love is where it's at for me!

I've only ever had sex with one straight guy, but there was a lot of ecstasy involved on both our parts. Still, he had his legs wrapped around my waist as I plowed him. He sure seemed to love it.

Always wondered what it'd feel like to get held face down and pounded by a straight stud, though.

I think it's important to have some sort of mutual agreement as to boundaries and expectations with whoever you're in a relationship with. At least, if you're interested in a healthy adult relationship.

Well yes. The vast majority of guys you'll interact with online will flake on you. But that's kind of what you'll have to put up with if you wish to remain entirely anonymous.

There are a rather bewildering array of gay hookup sites.

You could always have a monogamous relationship with someone you trust to be faithful to you. It's not 100% foolproof, but if you really don't want to catch any diseases, it's that or condoms.

What Park? P Street Beach? The Black Forest? And when? It's sort of a public service to share where and when, so others might avoid harassment.

And was it DC's finest? There are so many police forces around here.

The last time I ever did anything in public, I got detained. In a park in DC I was on my knees sucking a guy off when a cop found us. He handcuffed us while he ran our IDs. I lied and told him I'd never done anything like this before. Since my record was clean, and I was fully clothed, he let me off with a warning, but told me that if I ever got caught again I would be arrested. The guy I was sucking got arrested, I have no idea what happened to him after that.

A top who doesn't care if I cum, or worse yet would rather I not cum, is a top who doesn't deserve access to my ass. I mean, shouldn't sex be about both partners trying to please each other?

At this stage of my life, monogamy suits me best.

I'm a little picky about looks, but I'm far pickier about personality, character, and chemistry.

Oh so that's what undigested tacos look like!

What do you crave most? Cock or loads deep in you?

-Cock. Though I enjoy getting fucked bare more than I enjoy getting fucked with a condom, and I do prefer when my partner comes, I don't 'crave' loads at all.

Do you ever feel satisfied or are the cravings insatiable?

-Yes, I feel satisfied. Typically one guy is all I want.

How many loads does it take to turn you into an “any cock, any hole, any load” guy?

-I've only ever been that kind of guy when I was still using meth. Thankfully that part of my life is over.

How old were you when you first realized it was about your hole/pussy/cunt and not your cock? Was it innate and there from the beginning or did you learn it over time?

-I don't see this as an either/or distinction.

The hottest opening line I ever heard was, “I don’t care about my cock.” Do you even think about cumming? Do you have a need to?

-yes, and yes.

When you are home alone, do you play with your hole or your dick?

-With my dick.

Are you afraid of how deep your cravings are and the levels you will submit to in an effort to satisfy them?

-No

Do you tell your friends about your cumdump desires or are those separate and secret?

-I have no desire to be a cumdump

What would you choose…sucking a hot guy’s huge dick or taking a taking a heavy-set Daddy’s load up your ass?

-I think I'd rather suck off the hot guy.

Anonymous sesssions or do you prefer to see who is fucking you?

-I prefer to see who is fucking me. Heck, my favorite position is missionary.

Is there anything mor important to you than taking loads?

-Lots of things.

I find I enjoy sex better when I have an emotional connection with someone. To that end, start dating someone and when it comes to the sex discussion, tell him that you'd like to bottom. You may wish to make it clear that it's your first time so that he honors that.

While it's certainly the bottom's responsibility to ask the top to wear a condom if that's what he wants, it's also the top's obligation to either abide by that decision or go fuck someone else.

There's another side to it as well. You could always ask before the top sticks it in "ARE YOU POZ OR NEG". Now being asleep in that position is your own fault. Yes the top should disclose his HIV status but it takes two to tango and if you don't ask you don't know.

Sleeping naked face down doesn't give anyone the right to stick their dick in you. Regardless of cruising customs, get consent. Even if he wasn't poz, who's to say the guy wasn't done for the night or that he just wasn't attracted to the perpetrator?

If a bottom hands me a condom I take it as a clear sign he intends for me to use it.