subchub272

I am a divorced white male 50 in the Atlanta area. I am completely new to this scene. I have had a few bisexual encounters in the past. But recently I have felt drawn to the idea of completely embracing my submissive nature and desires. I am very submissive sexually which started when I was still 100% heterosexual and only with women. It started with strapon play with my more dominant partner and then escalted to her encouraging me to suck cock. That has been the bulk of my experience in this area. I have been single for awhile now with the whole covid situation the last couiple years has not help with that. I have increasingingly felt myself drawn towards more gay/bi desires and embracing my submissive nature. So much so that I am envisioning more of a "big-bang" approach quite literally and figuratively. I have heard a bit about Flex and the traditionl gay bathhouse scene appeals to me for some reason. I admit I do tend to be more the shy and reserved type in social situations, and especially somthing like this. It seems that there are options in this environment where I can be very passive and offer up myself as a submissive. There are options such as public play spaces, glory holes, and dark rooms where I might have success. Then there are also less intimidiating areas, so I could chill and just take it all in if I needed to do that. Additionally, there is the option to get a room with a bed and/or sling where I can escape or leave the door open and offer up myself to whoever chooses to enter through an open door. I am thinking that this last option may be the easiest way for me to personally start my journey as a submissive bareback slut. I must admit that I am overweight and I definately would be considered a chub. I know because I am older and a chub that I am not that desirable to a large number of those that might be at the club. I think given how shy I can be and also because these less disirable traits that the private room with a bed and/or sling is definately the best fit so that the open door will allow tops to decide if they want to use me for their enjoyment. I am not quite yet ready to make this happen. I plan on starting PrEP soon, so i need to go through that process before I decide to attend. I would be interested in hearing what more experienced guys might have to say. Do you see any issue with what I am thinking? Maybe some additional tips? When might be the best time to try and do something like this at Flex where more chance of tops being ok with older chub?

I am a divorced white male 50 in the Atlanta area. I am completely new to this scene. I have had a few bisexual encounters in the past. But recently I have felt drawn to the idea of completely embracing my submissive nature and desires. I am very submissive sexually which started when I was still 100% heterosexual and only with women. It started with strapon play with my more dominant partner and then escalted to her encouraging me to suck cock. That has been the bulk of my experience in this area. I have been single for awhile now with the whole covid situation the last couiple years has not help with that. I have increasingingly felt myself drawn towards more gay/bi desires and embracing my submissive nature. So much so that I am envisioning more of a "big-bang" approach quite literally and figuratively. I have heard a bit about Flex and the traditionl gay bathhouse scene appeals to me for some reason. I admit I do tend to be more the shy and reserved type in social situations, and especially somthing like this. It seems that there are options in this environment where I can be very passive and offer up myself as a submissive. There are options such as public play spaces, glory holes, and dark rooms where I might have success. Then there are also less intimidiating areas, so I could chill and just take it all in if I needed to do that. Additionally, there is the option to get a room with a bed and/or sling where I can escape or leave the door open and offer up myself to whoever chooses to enter through an open door. I am thinking that this last option may be the easiest way for me to personally start my journey as a submissive bareback slut. I must admit that I am overweight and I definately would be considered a chub. I know because I am older and a chub that I am not that desirable to a large number of those that might be at the club. I think given how shy I can be and also because these less disirable traits that the private room with a bed and/or sling is definately the best fit so that the open door will allow tops to decide if they want to use me for their enjoyment. I am not quite yet ready to make this happen. I plan on starting PrEP soon, so i need to go through that process before I decide to attend. I would be interested in hearing what more experienced guys might have to say. Do you see any issue with what I am thinking? Maybe some additional tips? When might be the best time to try and do something like this at Flex where more chance of tops being ok with older chub?