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  1. 9 hours ago, Justaholeff said:

    Good ol' Vaseline for me...it's cheap and you can buy that shit about anywhere....been in love with Vaseline since I was kid jerking off and keeping the jar under my bed!

    Agree, also good for prepping your hole for any encounter. My only complaint is how it builds up in the shower or can stain sheets..

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  2. I'm quite kinky and actively like WS, FF, A2M (especially to clean off the top's cock), sweaty feet, rimming sweaty holes, used condoms for lube, etc. I think I would do anything as long as I trusted my top enough - I always tell my partner I am OK to do anything as long as you will still kiss me after. 

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  3. 14 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

    Again, incorrect. I don't stalk individuals - I do monitor certain topics, and I downvote (or upvote, or give thanks) to express my opinion of the posting, not the person.

    As for sociopathy: No, not all cheating is sociopathic. I do believe that someone bragging about wanting to have him and his female partner kidnapped, her gang-raped and infected with sexually-transmissible diseases, while he watches and masturbates, pretty comfortably falls within the meaning of that word. Your mileage, of course, may vary.

    As I have said elsewhere: cheating is sometimes the "least bad" option - the one you turn to when (a) you've agreed to a monogamous relationship, (b) you have very good, solid reasons to not leave a relationship, (c) you're not being sexually satisfied within the relationship, AND (d) your partner refuses to either do anything to meet your sexual needs him/herself AND refuses to allow an open relationship that allows you to meet your needs.

    But all three of those things need to be met.

    If you didn't agree to be monogamous, it's not cheating. Just be sure that you didn't convey to HIM that it's monogamous while having no intention of honoring that.

    if you're just staying with the guy because you wouldn't live as comfortable a life on your own, well boo fucking hoo. Be a fucking man, leave the guy, and go be on your own unrestricted by a relationship that isn't enough for you.

    If your partner is ready and willing to have sex with you to meet your needs but you just want more variety and don't want to negotiate openness, then again, boo fucking hoo. You made your bed; now lie in it, or leave it, but don't fucking lie and cheat because you want different dick or ass.

    And finally, if your partner IS willing to open the relationship, but under terms you find too onerous (like, you want to fuck all your joint friends and he thinks outside fucks should be outside your social circle; or you want to fuck them at home and he wants your joint home reserved for the two of you; or he wants all outside play to involve you both, and you want to have sex without him present), then again, break up.

    I simply do not understand people who think it's okay to make a promise to someone - and we are talking strictly about relationships where there's an understanding of a set of rules both are going to follow - and then break those rules with impunity. Fucking grow up, break up, and go live your best and happiest slut life as a single man.

    But if the whole enjoyment is in cheating - if you get off on breaking your word, in a way that is bound to hurt this person you're in a relationship with, if he finds out - then you're just a fucking shit person. 100%, completely, totally shit.

    Hey there, I've noticed the two of your opinions on cheating differ - everyone's entitled to their perspective. However, constantly downvoting can come across as a bit intense - it's equivalent to going into a topic on barebacking and downvoting because you believe in condoms - or taking it to an extreme, telling a CIS woman to not have an abortion because your beliefs differ.

    Can the two of you agree to disagree without making it a constant thing to downvote each other - I think your opinion BootmanLA has been heard by now. I agree with you on this topic  - but that is between myself and my partner and I don't want to tell someone else what their morality should be if I am neither a friend or in a relationship with them.

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  4. 1 hour ago, KylerIsTrash said:

    Viewing from an outside perspective, I think emptying used condoms in my ass is hella fucked up. It doesn’t require fucking. It’s pretty high risk for catching something. You don’t always know where it came from or what’s in it. With enough used rubbers I could go for a long time sexually satisfied without actually having sex.  

    I've always wanted a top to do this to lube me up, don't bother even telling me...  I get the kink totally, and have been looking for places to harvest them myself. 🤤

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  5. Depends what better is... but it was designed to be as minimally traceable as possible. from their website:

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    Conversations in Session are end-to-end encrypted, just as in most private messengers. However, when you use Session, the identities of the people communicating are also protected. Session keeps your communication private, secure, and anonymous.

    When using Session, your messages are sent to their destinations through a decentralised onion routing network similar to Tor (with a few key differences), using a system we call onion requests. Onion requests protect user privacy by ensuring that no single server ever knows a message’s origin and destination. For more on this, check out What is an onion routing network? below. For more technical details, read our blog on onion requests.

    Session’s code is open-source and can be independently audited at any time. Session is a project of the Oxen Privacy Tech Foundation, a not-for-profit organisation whose mission is to provide the world with better access to digital privacy technologies.

    Session has also undergone a security audit by Quarkslab, the results of which can be found here.

     

     

  6. Its an anonymous group chat that doesn't require a phone # for a unique id.  Its quite nice, includes group chat but not as feature rich as telegram (but more anonymous)

     

    My ID: 059082f9439ee7f9db6c8be9d0ae93614ef0463fadd43bf9a333d2d4403235550a

  7. On 5/18/2023 at 12:30 PM, SamCummyCunt said:

    Love going to bathhouses.  Last time was in SF but it wasn't too active so I left but I miss going to the one in SJ that closed due to COVID. I had the best times in the steam room there and it helped me get over my personal hang ups when hot guys would approach me and lo and behold I found my mouth stuffed w/their cocks. 

    If anyone has any information about one in Reno, please let me know because I plan on visiting and I would like to check it out.  Last time I was there I was still in my early 20's and I left with a couple truckers' loads in my belly but none in my ass.  I think I blew 4 or 5 guys but not all of them wanted to let me swallow their load.  Blue collar dick fresh from work or driving a truck route is my favorite. 

    I hope you guys find some fun when/if you eventually go.

     

     

    The Watergarden?

  8. 2 hours ago, JimInWisc said:

    A hot story, even though I am not a fan of stealthing.  I don't see Jake sticking around much longer though after this.  

    Hrmm... If you take Prep after being HIV+ it can make the strain med resistant... He can just then blame getting infected on Matt... the stupid guy took nothing.

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  9. 12 hours ago, FFun2BB said:

    @drscorpio what joy it would be to continue this story ..... BUT from various other stories here, where someone did exactly that to all our satisfaction and delight - after months and years some guy appears as the original author, who starts a verbal fight here ... abusing those who picked up where he left us hanging ... 

    I personally feel that there should be a list of UNFINISHED stories and FINISHED stories ... as often one gets all excited ... to find that the author never came back to finish what he had started ..... 

    It should be accepted by authors, unless they finished, concluded their story, within a timeframe, that someone else is allowed to pick up on it and finish it - and is listed as co-author....

    These stories could be in the UNFINISHED category - and when an author ignored for a year the story - let someone else finish it.

    Like this the library wouldn't end up with so many "cold fish" ... 

    I also wouldn't allow unfinished stories to move to the top any longer through comments like "wish you would finish the story" - some disappointing stories constantly reappear, with page after page, members begging the author to finish the story ... 

     

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    This is a great point.  An easy way to get around the management would be to include any rules in updated terms of services / community guidelines.  

    This way the community can address the hanging chads (too soon to bring up the Bush / Gore election?).

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