I am usually a top, but every once in a while I crave a my boyfriend's hard dick and cum in my ass. The problem is it takes way too long to get his dick in. He has a pretty thick cock so once its in its great, but it hurts for the first few minutes. I'm looking for advice on how to loosen my hole so I can get fucked more easily. This seems like the perfect place to get advice.
When I fuck him he just lets it slide in. He says it hurts but then pulls me all the way in. But then again I fuck him on a regular basis. When he fucks me he has to put it in a little, take it out, put it in a little more, take it out. By the time it starts to feel loose and good he is about ready to cum inside me.
I'm not into using poppers or anything. No problem with them. Just don't want to. Any advice regarding toys, stretching, and butt plugs?