transferal

I'm verse. I have some issues ejaculating much of the time due to medical stuff (trans history) but once hard staying hard isn't an issue. I am horny most of the time and when my dick is grabbing my attention I can't help but wonder what most guys I meet would feel like on it. I am not a very dominant top with most people I don't know well, so the adaptive strategies of many bottoms of being more agressive and mounting my cock quickly the moment I don't push them away or leading me away by the cock directly in their hole are fine with me so long as I am still in the mood to top. I tend to cum in the guy who has whatever it takes that night to make me cum. It's often not the guy I expect and since each guy has different energy, different good and bad things, and their holes all feel a little different on my dick I do end up trying most that I don't have some strong reason not to fuck for at least a minute or so. Occasionally I don't think I am going to get off in him but he's really fun or feels really especially good on my cock so I will fuck him specifically so he orgasms. Occasionally I cum unexpectedly when he does, otherwise I will move on at that point. Unless it's pretty vacant I almost always end up in double digits for holes my cock has been in, but I can only add my cum to one or two most night, even if there has been nights where I have fucked almost every bottom there. When I bottom I don't have much of an issue and get way more than my fair share of loads. Most guys will cum in me or they will pull out because they find it hard not to cum in me and usually will be back to breed me later. I have never been that competitive as a bottom. Admittedly, the most common response to being in me the first time is a shocked "Wow... you have an amazing ass/cunt." I enjoy thinking about all the holes a top has been in before mine. I don't delude myself that I can maintain any of the stuff I do one on one for saftey in a bathhouse and so I just enjoy it when a guy comes back with his dick prelubed with cum and lube from other bottoms asses and shoves in into to breed me. I tend to be a pretty agressive bottom. I have a trans history, I kept the extra hole because apparently I am enough of a slut my corner of the gay community was actually pissed about me having surgery back in the day (and even some of the bottoms thought I was dumb), so I often have one guy in each hole. The main reason I end up not taking a load is a top who can't play well with others. I am very happy as a group bottom and the top who is not amazing himself but runs off other tops is the worst. I love guys watching and waiting and having a cock in every available hole. I try to stay in places with the ability to watch me fuck that don't restrict whether I am an active (default) or passive bottom. The slings are for a top who wants to fuck me in one or the end of the night when usually a few guys are looking for me and having my very well bred holes on display will also get a few guys in me to breed from being ready and seeing that.

I have had one STI (that's actually normally classified as an STI) in my life and I knew I was going to get it but I was a teen and didn't feel safe backing out of sex in a disused area of my school with a pushy, irritable guy with a few too many gang tattoos 1.5x my size and weight so he fucked me anyway. I got HPV which was just found by a doctor being overly throughout (no warts, he just happened to get a sample of infected tissue on a hunch) and it cleared on its own a few months later. A dick check disguised as cock worship (it doesn't hurt that I have trouble finding a dick I don't think is great) has served me well along with vaccines and PreP, as well as serosorting with undetectable guys before PreP and back when the stupid CDC wasn't willing to say it and I was getting a lot of judgement for fucking my undetectable boyfriends and friends. (Well, I am still negative and half the guys judging me for barebacking with undetectable guys aren't, and everyone who had so much to say seems to find the celling or their feet interesting if this is brought up ever.) However, getting things that aren't normally classified as STIs through sex is absolutely my curse. If I eat a bottoms ass with five other guys, I will absolutely be the one person who is laid out flat that week with parasites or gastroenteritis. I am getting over a drug resistant staph UTI and had candida at the same time. I have some other mystery illness too, still. My doctor who normally rolls her eyes at other doctors compulsively ordering HIV tests for me this time wasn't content with six HIV tests on top of perfect PreP adherence so she ordered another one today and it's like, No, mam, you had it right before, I am not HIV+, just cursed. It's been going on long enough we're just planning to just knock out my immune system with immunosuppressants in a few days and see if that solves it or see what surfaces.

I would not be down for this top or bottom. If you're a beginner either stretch out or start on a dude with smaller hands. It's not all that uncommon for kinky guys with small hands to have a lot of experience fisting because hands are something really easy to see at all times and so we get hit on specifically for that. Pain lets you know on a scale of 1-10 how bad your about to fuck yourself up, with 1 being fine and 10 being oh yeah we fucked up ER now. Pushing it down isn't ideal. Plus the pain is supposed to give way to feel amazing rather than "meh".

Close to 100%. There’s always on occasion that one guy who didn’t read.

This isn’t accurate for the US. Being in the “MSM” category and asking for it is enough to meet prescribing guidelines. If a doctor holds out for anything other than an STI panel, that’s on them. A lot of the old guidelines were not actually final prescribing guidelines but were meant for the many years that PreP stayed in clinical trials. The expectations for being a slut were kind of set to het standards (I think one trial require like one unknown/high risk encounter a month maybe?) so even in the trials so it wasn’t that hard to qualify. Also back then an undetectable partner would’ve counted the same as one with a detectable viral load because the CDC was so damn slow to actually say U=U.

If you can afford to leave the Philippines every 6 months (where I assume you are from based on your screen name and such an asinine policy) there’s now PreP that can be done as injections that are only needed two times a year. The guys telling you to just sign that document are likely not aware which country or the political instability that makes signing a document and handing it over to the government seem very unappealing. Oraquick and similar tests are one of the least reliable ways to try to figure out his status. It has up to a three month window period where someone could be infected but not produce antibodies yet. Then for some guys like me with certain other conditions it will create a false positive result. (I’m negative, on PreP, and tested sometimes a couple times a month.) I don’t really know what the culture is like very much in your home country around queer stuff and HIV prevention. Perhaps I should know more, but I don’t. When I was still able to work, the recent immigrant clients I saw from your country I’m guessing probably would’ve agreed to this. Because your country has some policies that aren’t just homophobic but bizarre, I think that makes some requests like this seem more reasonable by comparison. A lot of us from the West would maybe not find that reasonable. But also, we didn’t just recently have to live under the rule of a dude who is now being tried for crimes against humanity. Realistically, you kind of sound like you should be using condoms. Rarely do I say that, but are you sure you aren’t going to bareback and then just be worried you got something the whole time and have mediocre access to healthcare for the same reasons you don’t want to sign up for PreP?

I have a cum fetish. I’m a versatile bottom and often play in groups with other bottoms that don’t do the whole competition thing. One thing I love is eating the loads out of eachother and making out swapping them. It’s really hot to share a kiss and pass back and fourth every load in him and mix it with every load in you until it’s gone. The last time I played with another bottom at a bathhouse he ate a few loads out of me, passed them to me while kissing me. I saw his cum drenched hole, got turned on, spat all that cum onto my dick, and then rammed my cock into him. When I was done, I ate it out of him and we made out again. He was a total bottom but a good one and used it to relube my ass when he noticed another guy coming up behind me. We went back and fourth like that all night. I got up for a while, left the cubicle, and came back with a lot of cum that had been in another bottom’s ass still on my dick and pushed it back in before having him clean off my dick and eating what was probably a mix of cum of most of the guys there that night. (I was the third or fourth guy to fuck several bottoms, I had about five loads in my ass, and about twenty in my cunt because I have a lot more control there and so once I’m tugging, milking, and massaging a cock with my fronthole he’s going to cum in me whether he intended to or not. I lost track for the bottom I was there with how many times he got bred since I was in and out (and at one point he was playing with tweakers with a bad case of crystal dick (who just pretended not to notice?) who I got bored with and I got immediately led away by the dick the moment I stepped foot outside the cubicle, so goodness knows if he got bred from that or not. The trade off for being trans male and not able to ejaculate every time is being able to stay hard and cum multiple times.) I’m can be submissive sometimes but it’s not my default setting by any means and most people who do any sort of kink play with me know that…. So my standard response to being called a brat by a Dom after sex is just playfully playing dumb, acting like I’m bored and chewing gum, and then blowing cum bubbles. (The standard response seem to be their dick jumping and the very not convincing response of “I hate you”.) I’ll use my fingers to take some cum out of my ass or my cunt, if I still want to get off I’ll use it as lube, and I’ll always taste it off my fingers or have him taste himself (or other guys who came in me before).