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  1. My experience may be a bit non-standard. But it worked out time and time again.

    While MisterBnB had some curious offers for the areas of my next travels, acceptable places (walking distance to transport, non-shared occupancy, in places of interest) were all in smaller numbers, more expensive, sometimes much more expensive for the discerning homo eye than plain-Jane hetero AirBnB listings. It's just economics at this point.

    When you count all expenses to get all possible lay and sex in all possible days (count your potential host only as 1 contact), transportation, door costs, location charges, time for travel from A to B, consumables, etc etc), it comes to mostly the same with much more flexibility in plans and wider range of options. I do list in my profile that I am a single homo, and I let people draw their own understanding. I am yet to get a question. And when I need to, I have a private spot with easy access. And access to whatever events I feel like going to. By all means, it's not a fully-equipped kink apartment somewhere like in the center of Schöneberg or Vauxhall or Amsterdam Centrum, but it's 2 blocks off. And I bring over along with me what I can to play with.

     

  2. Eunuchs who chose to turn that way are a fascinating mental state for modern times IMO. And I see it as something starting on as mental, just like anything else sexual - if your brain is not tickled by it, you are just not interested - by way of a regular subjective contemplation. And then from one's mental acceptance it transpires into physical as a body mod on oneself. Where most times in human tribes a body mod is attempted on as a subjective opinion of enhancement of appearance, less so of physical function - tats, piercings, skin graphs or hair removal, a bone in your nose, et al. I am not talking about it as an imposed medical need, induced chemical injury or designated criminal punishment in modern societies or recent times.

    Yet, obviously, ball removal in itself is very visual (when you get down to it naked), and, possibly, visually pleasing to some, and obviously very impactful functionally to an adult male. To a degree that takes one to an entirely new level of servitude and dedication to pleasing the bodies and senses of others - consider historical references - the same castrati, catamites, and paederasty in antiquity - a relationship between an adult and yet-undeveloped adolescent males. And it was happening all over the place in ancient human societies, not only in Rome or Greece. Brings a lot of classical undertones infused to a regular slut looking to provide and enhance his anal arts to satisfy a top and polish it up to become a reputable cum dumpster. With no major similar need for himself. Like I said, fascinating.

  3. I what I have recently found out is that winter airfares to Europe could be quite often very affordable. I have now seen below-$500 fares to Barcelona and Munich for January-February trips. Granted it's from the East Coast, but I think similar options could still be found from something like Seattle or another major hub. Because it had been a few years now since traveling NY to Europe was almost the same cost as going from NY to the West Coast. Look at where you have local last minute offers and then try manual searches on major travel engines with variables that suit your dates. Or may be take a road trip?

  4. I think you notice only guys who do the same pattern as you in this - bottoms looking for tops. I can say that I see exactly the opposite - too much roaming traffic and very few bottoms engaged in activities. And definitely not enough fucking.

    I don't believe everybody is that shy that everything happens silently and only behind a closed door so god forbid anyone notices that someone got fucked at the baths or in a booth.

  5. I can agree with most things already mentioned on here, based on my own experience and other witness' accounts. But I want to mention something else, in my opinion very related - as you might notice that you're getting more tender in sexual contexts and more accepting of things coming as a reaction towards you from others (or may be not, I can be blamed for both), one tends to forget that sex is all mental. "Brain is the biggest sex organ" (The Big Liebowski). As a younger guy I haven't even paid attention to that.

    And while I find that such self-reflection (as this thread) is generally a good thing, possibly motivational for physical and mental upkeep of oneself, the mindful side of getting older can really drive you bonkers for not good enough reason. As someone (oh horror! - straight) shared to me exactly today, it is totally upsetting that emotionally you're still seeing yourself as capable and available, but physically things are so very different. (In gay terms, you're getting judged by the cover. She is also much older than me, my parents' range older, and we've known each other for decades), so the issue at hand is a bit bigger than just being a top or a bottom, and it is common to most other humans - aging with time but against your will - however narrow you want to focus it. Effectively you're just limiting your sexual demographic to a mostly-losing scope of singular self, when it should be the main driving force going forward, just like in your younger years, - another cinematic quote - "On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero." (Fight Club)

    At this point I think it is all in your own mind, whether you agree to slow down or keep on whipping on that batter. I do enjoy taking breaks, but on the other hand I enjoy more the quality of my encounters. Yes, it is accepting a registered change in self. Granted, you get more skilled with age, both in sex and righting the situation for a more satisfactory outcome, and things may take more time than before. You enjoy wider variety of activities and entertain your body with stronger senses.

    Everything has an opposite side. It took some time for "Fight Club" to grow on me. I find the dialog in it rather motivational. If you allow someone else to impose their passing opinion of you on your own self and of your own free will doing so, you're effectively aging yourself without even looking in the mirror. I can also be blamed for that, and now I try not to do it.

  6. Bath house on a weekend night? Granted, places differ in experience, but I imagine plenty of people have shared what where is worth to visit.

    SBN night? or a Blackout event? I am sure you'd get your ass fucked - there is no such thing as a free ass getting away.

  7. Well, as a proper slut you probably have an item or two in your street gear collection with (let's say) easily suggestible messages in full display - RAW series from G-Star, Easy Ryder with a reference to motorcycles, Big Bang from TV show, etc etc. That is besides the legitimate kinkwear - leather, rubber and such. Sometimes as a fashion statement, or a conversation starter, a tongue-in-cheek pun, or otherwise a subject for easy banter of sexual kind. I confess - I have more than a few myself, with variable degrees of intentional clarity. I enjoy most of it - again, street type fashions.

    I recently came across a chance reference to a vendor site I never heard of before - and not that I've been just so looking. I have no intent of passing an endorsement for it, but sometimes new things are quite appealing. Have a look - RawTshirts.com . Some are flat out tempting to me. I appreciate all opinions shared.

  8. I imagine the material of the item also matters - stainless vs tagnsten or whatever else, ferrous/magnetic vs non-magnetic, etc. Or same for, say, chastity hardware. That choice is something that is in one's control or range of option at time of purchase. Or say 'open' (removable) shape vs 'closed' for quick removal prior to scanning. Because the type of scanner you'd be going through is outside such choice or option, and depending on the 2 common types public experience might be different. I'd be interested to see if someone can comment on those details.

    On a side note, I can say I've been 'randomly selected' for additional screening so far twice over the years when returning to the US, at Toronto and Copenhagen, and let me just say that facilities and protocols used differ significantly.

  9. I'd venture to say a plunger-based oiling gun should help, similar to the likes of a mechanic's tin oiler (but I use it for liquid lubes). An automotive store should have one. It is smaller than a common caulking gun. Just tell them for greasing up ball rollers, they'd get the gist of it. Also, a battery acid tester kit may have a similar sturdy syringe. Neither should be expensive. And all you need is about 4-5 inches in length of the tube, but a replaceable/extendable nozzle may be more difficult to find. Unless you put a piece of vinyl tube on it like a catheter. See if that works. Plus it's a conversation piece in the bedroom.

  10. Correct, Bio party issues a security wrist band attached in parallel to your clothes checked bag. Still, it is a manually-identifiable mark for in-house billing, like a hand-written shoulder/arm number at other places. But I don't believe I had ever had such thing as a 'drink card' there - you get the wrist band for that. By the looks of it you'd be the only one playing with a backpack attached for those pickpockets. I say lose the gear and play naked, the place gets packed like sardines in play areas as is. And have sturdy footware on.

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  11. It's a bare ass/ naked party. The less you wear the better, but do have sturdy footwear. White trainers/sneakers would defeat the purpose.

     

    A wrist wallet is an idea, but bar billing happens per number written on your shoulder (common German practice), so it is also not really helpful.

     

    A few will have minor fetish gear on, but it really only gets in the way when you jump down to business. ID things like wrist/arm bands to show what you are will be helpful, but not much else.

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  12. CU parties vary too much between locations in quantity and quality of demographic in attendance. As any social event, the vibe depends too much on attendance and is never consistent. And traveling that far having done it myself is not really worth it - the hype is far too greater than the catch. Plus your own fantasies are at play in your own head. If you were local, you could have hit it time after another to arrive to your own experienced opinion. And I have been to CU events at home and away - my advice is something in tune with "the grass is always greener.."

     

    Go to Berlin when they have Coffe & Cream party (spelling theirs) or Biohazard. That is hardcore. They run a group on GayRomeo with event messaging and a separate listserv on BH website. Usually it is held monthly and at Mutschmanns, on big occasions- at Connection. You will have much more fun there, guaranteed. Plus people are much more open in exhibitionist kinda way, not as puritanically fucked in the head and legislation as in all over US. Also, have a look at this thread on here - I am sure there others too - https://breeding.zone/topic/31107-bareback-berlin/

     

    Enjoy yourself.

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