bearbandit

Looking back, I probably seroconverted in 1980, though I didn't test until 1987, which of course was positive. Of the three long term relationships I've had since then, two of them were always bareback in the belief that the first infection is the catastrophic one. The third partner dies about five years ago: he'd tested negative when we first met and we both assumed he'd picked it up along the way, as it were. Before we knew he was poz, we were both fucking with the same guy, also poz, partner used condoms, I didn't. Then came high dose ritonavir and a lengthy chemical castration... Just as I was recovering from that, my partner got sick. I nursed him and after he died I stayed away from sex until I felt I could meet guys without trailing a load of baggage behind me.

Why BB now? Well, although the early drugs kept me alive, I also got diabetes as a side effect and useful as it is, viagra does make it more difficult to cum. Skewed as my meds are (salvage therapy), I'm still maintaining an undetectable viral load, so you're more dangerous to me than I am to you. And at the end of the day I want either to feel your cum dribbling out of my well fucked arse or to feel my cum (or whoever else's) over my balls when my dick is still up your arse...

That's some assumption you're making there: bathe regularly and antiperspirants/deodorants are simply a question of the climate you live in and your natural personal odour (not to mention his personal preferences). I've been asked not to wash for a couple of days before a date and I've had meets that have started with a shower.

There's a lot to be said for personal hygiene, and antiperspirants and antideodorants serve simply to disguise the lack of it. Ride a bike a couple of hundred miles in proper leathers and of course you're going to end up sweaty as hell (in summer at least here in Wales).

For me, it's a standard part of the pre-meeting messaging to ask what level of hygiene he prefers (my arse is always going to be clean as is my dick): shower when I get there, shower before I leave or leave the shower for a few days. The one thing I won't do is smother myself in foul smelling/tasting antiperspirants or antideodorants.

soap and water are deodorants: anything else is perfume.

Seems sensible enough...

Age: 54

Location, City or County: North Powys, Wales

Sexual Orientation: Gay

Sexual Role: Versatile - don't do anything as top that I haven't at least tried as bottom...

Sexual Perversions: What are you offering? Show me something new! :-) Prefer torture over CP, but won't hesitate to use CP if necessary, piss, verbal, gob, don't go a whole load on bondage as it's your business to keep still for me: my command should be enough... Remind me of what I've forgotten.

Initial presentation: biker, usually pissed off at car drivers.

Travel or Accom: either

Other profile: see BBRT bearbandit