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  1. I almost choked on my own spit when I'm pretty sure I heard him say something about taking his poz load during a scene.... but I cannot for the life of me recall which way it was or what scene. Or maybe it was all a dream.

    but yes. him getting fucked, is sort of like seeing your dad take it.

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  2. I love the idea of a top trying to convince me to go to Raw. Which means of course, I tend to insinuates the desire to use a condom… Sometimes it backfires because the tops literally give up as soon as that insinuates, and not even flat out ask for one but even the hint of one turns them away. But the tops that slip it on, or try to tell me that are clean… That’s the most fun

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  3. On 7/13/2020 at 4:27 PM, Cumdumphouseboy said:

    Yes! I was thinking I love the smell of a filthy place that is trying to pretend to be clean. 
     

    bleach, with dried cum, and poppers. They always gets my dick hard. 

    And it’s SUCH a specific smell... musty, with a hint of the queasiness of chlorine, and it sort of lingers...let’s you know men have been naughty and indulgent I. This space 

  4. The Kristen Archives have inspired me to start writing my own. And damn, some of those stories are... ever since the assault, I've found stories where the main character is forced, to be the only ones that get me off. 

    Generally, I've been told I'm pretty darn creative when it comes to [banned word] verbal or whatever, and I can definitely tell a good story during a bate session if the other partner gives me some key pieces, such as a high level "darkest fantasy", an occupation, location, a ... tool/toy they want used.

    Sort of like going to an improv show, but with me you leave with a sub-level gutter, beneath your current gutter, that you never knew existed.

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  5. On 11/2/2019 at 9:11 AM, BlackBttmUK said:

    You broke or down well but failed to realise that what porn companies are doing is actually racist and allowing people to buy racism porn. We the consumers are just as racist (not me but we as a whole). I hardly watch porn because all the white men get the men I’m sexually attracted to. I would love to make an only fans but that cost money as well as I do not live on my own. Plus I don’t want anyone knowing it’s me. 
     

    if you’re wearing a MAGA you’re a complete racist and that’s what it is. 
     

    yes porn is a business but that means they’re only catering to a certain niche that’s reaching people and very much damaging. 

    So what is your solution? Do you have any in mind? It’s great to call things out — but bring something to the table. If you’re venting, clarify that. 
     

    as for MAGA hat wearers, chances are a large portion of those morons do not fully understand what it actually means or entails, because for them, racism is essentially “I didn’t physically assault a POC, or Lynch, or etc.” They don’t understand the nuance or the grey of what that hat or slogan represents. In addition, the white folk who do understand that nuance aren’t willing or or tired of trying to discuss or challenge them. While the responsibility of that type of work should not have to be placed on the shoulders of POC’s, it usually is.


    And when you say, “all the white men get the men I’m sexually attracted to,” does that mean you are only attracted to one type of man? And if so, if that is a “sexual preference,” does that not go against your own statement of not being racist? 
     

    For a very long time, I was only attracted to white guys. It wasn’t until I started watching porn with black me in it did I begin to really see them. Truly see black men and black bodies as hot as fuck. While we can say that sexual preferences are just “what we like,” we are definitely cultured into seeing certain physical aesthetics and attributes as desirable. Saying, “I’m only sexually attracted by white men,” as a preference, I believe definitely has racist undertones because I’m essentially excluding entire races of people based on...well, their race. 
     

    and while this is up for discussion, I don’t hate people who have preferences. I just have a preference for self-aware, Openminded people. 

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  6. I believe it is far more complicated than just saying, 'gay porn is racist'.

    You have what sells, which, historically, has been a specific type. Niches come in with alternative offerings, which while offers up some new representation, still supports and reinforces stereotypes (big black top, asian bottoms, fiery latinos, etc. including twinkly bottoms, big-dick-jocks, etc. which can create challenges for some people, I would argue is not as damaging as representation that generalizes an entire race of people). 

    There is no way that you, or I, individually, can challenge and force producers to create more porn. What we can do is find other openminded gay men who want to discuss this, and try to have healthy and sometimes awkward and angry dialogue about what turns us on. I spent the first decade of my life as a top, refusing to bottom because I didn't want to live that stereotype. I'm also an Asian guy who is not hairless, super-twinky, and 5'6. 

    In reflection, despite the rejection (where racism is not always the case) and the outright racism (which includes assumptions and rejections, too) that I've experienced, I surprised a few guys who were turned on by the fact that I was a top -- and albeit, in ten years, I can only recall three -- they acknowledge I opened their minds a little. 

    At the end of the day, porn companies are businesses. They produce what sells. If you want to make a change, there are several options to make an impact -- OnlyFans or JustForFans -- write up some articles or share content that represents what YOU want to see, etc. 

    As for the MAGA-hat wearing, anti-Cop shit -- that I feel ... while repulsive at times, is more nuanced. The difference is, are the individuals watching, able to separate the fantasy from the reality and not let it warp their perception of reality and how they operate in the world. 

    blah blah blah humans can be basic -- but they can also be really awesome, they just need help. Dialogue is a part of that, and sometimes, more often than not, the most difficult thing to get started. 

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