nu_abo

I'll be heading out that way tomorrow (Sunday) morning. Be there till wed.

I'm meeting some friends there but definitely looking to play while I'm there.

Most of your anxiety just comes from the small town complex. I was 20 when I became poz and was attending a college in a small town. It's rough starting but it gets better to deal. I know you worry about being attractive to others but honestly being poz can help weed out the bull shit people that you probably don't need to deal with.

Mr.S Leather is the main place I can think of : http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cat/48-46/blindfolds-collars-gags-collars.html

The first one you described is pretty common, the second one you probably have to be inventive with some pre made stuff.

I like the smaller straps/swimmers jocks. Particularly by activeman or papi.

I enjoy getting into sub race play. I have a regular fuck buddy who's really into it. As I encounter more guys I'm starting to learn a lot of them are secretly into it, but I can tell they're scared to bring it up cause of how taboo it is.

I found myself becoming much piggier as I get older in general. I'm also usually more of a vers bottom but this year I've pretty much been a top (anal and oral) on the regular since it seems in demand lol.

I'll be visiting NO this coming weekend (June 6-9).

Pretty familiar with the usual gay spots, so looking to maybe hook up or even just hang out with other poz/poz friendly guys who like to play raw.

Myself: 6'4/150lbs/smooth/trendy type.

Vers,very oral (sucking/rimming/kissing) open to any age or race or scene, use poppers and smokers are a +

You can message on here, A4A (nu_abo) or BBRT (jkp427).

Montgomery here. Haven't really come across too many active bama guys here.

I'm a huge fan of his. He does primarily bareback for alot of different companies. Off hand I know Machofucker, TIM, Dark Alley/RFC, Breed It Raw. For awhile I fell off of him cause he was kinda getting overexposed.

I wouldn't be shocked if he was POZ, but he's really never addressed that at all from what I know.

Day two in the hospital - update on my friend

Said it was pooing, peeing, and throwing up at the same time with losing muscle control that finally convinced him that it was bad enough to do something.

Sadly this is what it takes alot of people to take action. I have an acquaintance that I think is in the same situation as your friend. But still in his deteriorating situation it still seems like his priorities are still in the wrong place as far as figuring his condition.

Just recently experimented with some and I have to say I'm a fan now. Really helped open my ass up and I get off on head rushes anyway.

I think the idea is hot, but the movies usually run pretty basic in set-up. Formula just got old fast for me.

I remember I was scared initially after I found out my diagnosis (I was 20 at the time), but as time grew on I became comfortable with it. Like said before luckily we're in a world where it's considered a condition rather than a death sentence. Most people that I've met that have had sickness or have succumbed to death were only cause they weren't aware and failed to get proper treatment. My doctor told me I was more prone to have high blood pressure and a heart attack rather than die from AIDS/related illness. Also some occurrences in life issues have caused me to grow more comfortable with death. Change and death are two of the only things guaranteed in life.

Most people see the negative views of it, but it helped me kinda grow up and get my life together in some ways. I started to get my priorities arranged as far as school and career, and the regular doctors and visits and healthy efforts aren't bad cause it's really something that should be done regularly even if your negative.

I'm thinking about buying some poppers for the first time while I'm visiting in San Francisco next week. I've tried them a few times but never bought my own. Can anybody reccomend a good brand? Other than trail and error is there a way I can tell which one will work best for me?

He's one of the few porn stars I'd seriously wanna fuck. I hope I'd be his type if I ever got the chance lol. I started noticing him in from Machofucker. I've always assumed he was Poz since all he does is bareback from what I've seen.

Hey guys,

I'll be heading into to San Fran for this year's Folsom Street Fair.

Interested in getting together with some hot guys and take some loads on my down time.Some details about me tall, slim, very oral versatile bottom (I do play with other bottoms too). I'll be staying at the Presidio Inn Thurs night and then at the America's Best Value Inn Civic Center from then on.

You can message me on here, a4a (nu_abo) or bbrt (JKP427)

Also wanted to see what were the good spots to go to. I'm pretty new to the sex club scene but I've read about a few spots. For me I prefer to play raw and I heard some places have safe sex police. I saw that Mack Folsom's was closed so I was wondering where did everyone go instead? I'm already aware of the Steamworks/bathhouse situation so I probably won't get to make it there.

My thoughts too, but in this day and age and smartphones it's almost impossible.

I feel bad for the kid, but this a lesson learned about playing in the adult world. I've heard countless stories from guys saying how they've been fucking and even taking loads since as early as 12, and most of those were before the smartphone boom so now I imagine it's very common.

I wear flip flops. Yeah it's the boathouse but I keep the same mindset as if I were in a public/dorm shower, pool/waterpark etc.

I remember when I first came out and started having sex most guys were shamed to say they were a bottom (even worse if you were a strict one). Now it seems alot more guys, especially younger are mostly bottoms.

It's really whats got me thinking I should start topping more.

^I've been trying to figure out what exactly defines that look.

Initially I'd say face cause muscled body isn't must have for me. As long as your healthy and proportionate.

I see more white tops on black bottoms in European porn. In the bathhouse/sex party I've honestly never seen too many black guys other than myself and a friend I usually go with (both us being from the Southeast region).

Usually just depends on the other guy but I prefer kissing definitely if the chemistry/attraction is on point. Just makes the sex alot more sweaty and intense for me espcially if the top wants to fuck me for a long time.

I just started experimenting with a rubber cock ring I bought. Just jack off sessions though, no field test. It seems to have some kinda functional effect but I'm still deliberating if it's for me.

I've only had a couple of photos taken, but I think being filmed would be hot.

I really enjoy the bathhouse. Only been a handful of times but when no sex was to be had enjoying the sauna, etc was just as cool.

I like the older mature crowd that goes there. Less complications and men who know what they want and how to get it (I like the assertive type lol) Last trip was to one in San Antonio, I ran into the S&M (stand and model) types. Seems we overlooked that it was general college spring break time when we went. A kid grabbed my hand and just wanted to hold it all night. I eventually had to ditch him to find something more interesting.

I'll be visiting San Fran soon, but I'm sad to hear the closest one there isn't in the Bay Area