Naturalherb

any tips for what to expect? what kind of guys usually attend? anything to bring (or not to bring?)

same for me... though i also caught the bug shortly thereafter :-( but life goes on. did used to play with neighbors (boys and girls) way back when i was like 10 but nvr penetrated anyone or got fucked til early 20s

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Thats my bottom bitch of a boyfriend btw

wow... i agree. you 2 are freakin' smoking hot. hope you read this and go fuck yourselves (the good way ;-) and keep us informed

The Water Buddies meet every second Saturday of the month from 5 to 9pm. It is held in the back bar at Touche. Cost: $25.00--that covers all your drinks for the party and the cleanup. Clothes check available. Group size averages from 45 to 80 of all types of men. It's my favorite sex party. You need to request an invite on their website: chgowaterbuddies.com

Ty for the info, seems i've been missing out

when is this event? i'm also curious about watersports, but have no-one to play with

HungLatinDom, you got pozzed without EVER bottoming?

can't speak for someone else, but i sure did. i'm living proof that total tops that don't share needles or do anything else risky can also catch the bug. and no, i wasn't actively trying at all. only BBed a few times... guess i rolled the dice one time too many. but i agree with all others, my ex bf was neg and thank god he stayed neg. and IMHO thats very personal information that i wouldn't want made public unless someone else was put at risk somehow.

Has anyone of you ever lost a friend because you had sex with him? It happened to me. We were best friends for a long time and still very young. Neither one of us knew that the other was gay, but we used to "fake" wrestle and "accidentally" touch each other in in appropriate places. One night he spent the night at my house (as he had done many times before) and we started making playful threats. We were lying on my bed watching TV when he said, "I wonder what a dick in my ass would feel like." I thought he was kidding, so I said, "Don't tease me" which was a line I heard in the movie Top Gun with Tom Cruise.

Then my friend surprised the hell out of me when he rolled onto his side, pulled his underwear down, and aimed his butt at me. I had never seen him naked before. I thought he was kidding, so I didn't do anything for a few seconds. But when I saw that he wasn't kidding, I rolled him over and pushed my dick onto his asshole. Since it was a dry fuck (no lube), only the head went in, but then he quickly pulled away in regret. He pulled up his underwear and left. I saw him the next day and I could tell something had changed. He seemed to be annoyed to be around me. After a few days, he told me that we should not have done that. Our friendship was never the same and he eventually stopped talking to me completely. He ended up with a boyfriend who was a friend of ours, but as far as I was concerned, I didn't exist to him anymore. I cried for days and he knew it but didn't care.

Ever since then, I decided to never have sex with a close friend.

Have you lost a friend because of sex?

Nearly, Ihave a similar story. Had a friend for 15yrs now, me having a crush on him is what started our friendship. Years later, when Itell him I'm gay and like him he decides that he can't have sex with me. This is after years of us also wrestling around and touching each other. Now he's my roomie and has random guys over all the freaking time... and yet I still feel something for him and miss the wrestling. Plus get to watch him fawn all over "dates" that he's known for like 2 days before he suddenly finds someone new... long story short it can really go sour, but Iguess (least I'm hopeful) that it can also be beautiful too. And know that your not alone in this boat

As an undetectable top who'se on meds, i'd also feel horrible if I pozzed someone. I routinely tell my ex bf that I won't bred him and that he should not risk his health for a bit of happiness. Just don't understand why so,e people actually want to have a virus that can kill...

An interesting posting. While I can't condone the behavior of Tim or Tim's friend, I also think the narrator shares responsibility for this conversion: common sense says (a) guys will lie, and ( if one is bottoming and wants to remain negative, the most prudent, if not guaranteed way of remaining negative, is to insist the top use condoms. The situation for a neg top who barebacks and wants to remain negative is, of course, statistically somewhat different.

umm, i hole-heartedly disagree... tops are at the EXACT same risk as bottoms for catching HIV. particularly if the bottom has already taken load(s) Wanna know how i know... i'm a total top who is now Hiv+ from being lied too. so i empathize with the poster... i completely don't get, condon, or even understand stealthing in the slightest and have banned/blocked FAR too many who ask me to poz them or to help in conversions.

lucky dude, wish i could find a reg bud to pump