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Taxi drivers, when they were more common I remember taking cabs late at night just to offer BJ's to the driver. Only once or twice did it work out.

In the past few months I feel like I've been experiencing a decrease in libido. Dick and ass work perfectly fine, but I haven't had an inkling to top in I don't know how long. Not sure the best way to describe it other than my libido going down. I've tried things like less frequent jerking, eating healthier etc. but haven't had any luck. Anyone else experience this? If so anything work to get the mojo back?

Oh that twist at the end 🥵

Hopefully not off topic, but anyone remember a story on here about a dad figuring out his son was posting for gloryhole sex on craigslist, sets up a meet anon and while getting sucked his phone rings identifying him? I think it was taken down, but if not would love to read it again was fucking hot.

Have a fuckbud I see every now and then. He's got a condo downtown and home with the wife and kids in the city. Profile says he's looking for safe sex with condom but he's bred me every time we meet. 

I'm not sure how truthful people are anymore. People who were either poz or undetectable on BBRT when I joined years ago have magically become negative or on PrEP in recent times so I only talk about it when brought up anymore

Haven't had a good last load story for a while, but tonight changed all that. Around dinner time I got hit up by one of my fuckbuds. He's a mid-twenties black twink that likes fucking hairy ass. He's told me before that he wants me sloppy seconds, but every time I had a load for him he wasn't in the mood or it didn't work out otherwise. Tonight when he messaged me he asked if I had any loads yet. Honestly, I was thinking I was going to have a low key night and get to bed early seeing I have work tomorrow morning. I told him the truth, i wasn't really looking. He was very persuasive in his messages so I took a peak at some options. I hit up a neighbor I've played with before, no response. Checked another app and a bud that also likes sloppy seconds was on. I've probably written about him before, he's a vers/top average build & cock but he shoots some damn good loads.

I messaged this fuckbud, really fuckbud prime, and told him the situation. He seemed down for it. I had some back and forth on text with the twink, and back and forth on scruff with fuck bud prime and eventually fuckbud prime shows up at my place to prime my ass. The twink wants video of this, and both these guys love taking some vids. I told Prime this, and when he walks in he turns my phone cam on and records the entire fuck. He was on a tight schedule so the fuck only lasted 6:31 or at least that was the length of the video. As per usual, his cum was phenom. I send the vid off to twink and then get no response, FUCK! When I told him fuck bud prime was on way, he told me he was going to stroke a bit and have a drink so I figured he was backing out. A few minutes after I sent the video, he finally responds and tells me he has to wait a bit to cum, but gives me a time. 40 minutes later I'm ass up waiting for him to walk in. We've NEVER done ass up waiting. I was wearing a glow in the dark jock and a blindfold so my other senses were escalated. The twink pounded me for 45 minutes with his 9" cock. My hole felt so wet and full when he was done I was in cumdump heaven. Checking the phone, he took 4 videos of his cock in my ass at different points. Of course I had to share with fuck bud prime since he gave me some starter seed at the beginning of the night.

Can't wait to repeat this!

Interesting, cant' reach at all unless I go off wi-fi. Oh well, not sure what the issue is on my end. 

Curious if squirt is no longer a thing? Tried checking it out a couple days ago and then today and keep getting server not found. 

None of those fit, I wanted to have more sex and bottoming was kind of the final frontier. When I discovered I enjoyed it with poppers and raw the rest became history

Had a bit of a dry spell most of May. Broke that tonight. A fuckbud I hadn't seen in a while was on. He's a twink, 22 year old that loves bears and guys a bit older than him. He came by, we made out, kissing, hugging (he felt and smelled so good). Eventually I sat on his 7.5" curved uncut cock and rode him a few minutes before he blasted in me. We cuddled in bed some more in the afterglow. About 20 minutes later he pushes me on my back, lubes up and slides in for round two. After a few minutes he pulls out has me get into doggy, he slams his dick in me so fast, the curve hits my prostate and I shoot a load all over the blanket. A few minutes later he dumps load 2 in me. All in all a good night.

4 hours ago, topblkmale said:

One aspect of tearooms I remember from my youth is the timing factor.

Usually the best tea rooms were located down a LONG hallway where you could hear footsteps approaching as well as a noisy entry door that was around a corner from the stalls. I remember my local mall Sears had a double door entrance which gave extra time.

 

As far as agents of social control, I remember my first tearoom had a cleaner who would 'clean' the restroom for long periods of time but actually just watch the action. Never participate.

I was in a tearoom on a business trip last year that was totally insane. At one point one of the cleaners came in and stood watching the action, didn't participate but didn't do anything to stop. One of the players was full on jacking his huge uncut cock in view of the guy too.

Wow! In process of reading up on medical research and came across a reference to Tearoom Trade in relation to ethics etc. 

One thing I'd throw out there is if you're asked a question on topics listed above, have the courtesy to be curious about the same with the guy your out with. My last date was with a guy that is a little narcissistic and likes to talk about himself. I walked away knowing far more than I should about him and I think he knows my name. If he wasn't hung I probably would have walked away earlier...

On 5/10/2023 at 4:00 PM, funpozbottom said:

On a certain level I find it hilarious that members of a sex forum either don't know or won't describe how understall sex is initiated, and instead site a 50 year old book based on a student dissertation written by a priest who tracked his 'research participants' via license plate numbers and police connections. Is that really the perfect study guide on the subject of tea room sex? Has nothing changed in the intervening half-century? If not, should I search e-bay for a polyester Neru jacket and platform shoes so I can cruise like it's 1973.

You're totally right about the book, yet it is funny to me how relevant the information is today. I own a copy, and read most of it. I remember going looking for it in the Chicago Public Library because I had heard about the book online, and was having issues "cracking the code" to be an effective cruiser as this thread discusses in some replies. The book was supposedly always in the library, yet I never found it on the shelf. 

Thinking back not much has changed in spite of the apps. If you find an active tearoom in the wild, or just meeting there some of the "roles & rules" are still there. The author coined or stole the term "Watchqueens" for those that are the lookouts. He breaks that down even further, see attached.

I can't help but thinking the longevity of the book being in circulation is that it shows how little certain aspects of cruising have changed in spite of the apps. The other thing is whether or not someone is actually studying this behavior with modern inventions such as the cell phone etc being taken into consideration. Unless another major, lethal, STI outbreak such as AIDS comes along I doubt much attention would be paid to the subject beyond those of us that participate or want to. 

Haven't posted in a while. Took two loads today. First was from a guy in one of the gayborhoods. Was cute, colombian, short (like me) muscular, and had a gorgeous uncut cock he slid in me. Pounded my hole a few minutes before unloading. When I got home a guy I'd been chatting with wanted to drop by. He's a tall, thin black guy with a nice big cock. Added his load to the mix. Wasn't expecting two today so it was a very pleasant surrpise

I'd probably still be a total top if I didn't start taking cock raw 😁

Politely told a guy on one of the apps tonight that I want raw, immediately got an a question about PrEP. Kid you not, the chat had the same time stamp for my raw comment his PrEP comment. Found it too funny. Needless to say we did not hookup in the end.

As I've begun my transition into my daddy stage, I find more often that it's hard to find guys that I'm interested in that aren't hustling. I get why they won't outright say they're hustling, maybe it's they don't want to admit, or maybe they're worried if they say it on the app/site that they'll get kicked off or something.

Recently a guy I met up with a couple times said it was his kink. I bought into that after finding out what his full-time job was (good-paying for sure.) He got very annoying texting me a couple times a week trying to get me to donate to him etc. We did fool around a couple of times, he always wanted to wear a condom. When he went bare at our last meeting (he apparently expected me to bring condoms over) the entire fuck he kept saying he was 'scared' but the tone in his voice gave away the game. I know the voice was fake for sure since he kept breaking condoms on our first meet, and at one point he said something about trying my hole bare before going in for a few minutes. In any event, after the last 'scared' time I finally blocked him. 

Likewise, what about PNP? I've had guys ask if I party which is a big no for me, sometimes I've asked what they meant and have gotten a range from pot/poppers to meth etc.

On 1/14/2023 at 12:54 PM, hungry_hole said:

I've used Squirt.org for decades and I really like their Cruising Area listings.

However, I wish Squirt.org suggested rules to people posting on any of the Listings, say, a sauna in Toronto. I would say that more than 70% of the postings are "I'll be there after 5pm", "Thinking of dropping by later on", and on and on.

What's missing and would be of value, are personal accounts of guys who've been to the place. "I was there last night, such and such day, wasn't very busy..." Or, "I had fun in the darkroom but after 11pm when it got very busy". Instead of guys announcing their visit,

I used to share your frustration about the replies to postings on squirt. What I've come to realize over time is it gives me a better idea if the location is dead or not. If I'm seeing postings about what action happened, I see it more as jack off material. If I see postings that people are going to it, and even stating times, I have a better idea of whether or not to go, and if it'll be worthwhile. 

Havent' posted in a while, last 4! loads from the same guy. Tonight, after I got home from family events I messaged him. He's a early 20's black guy with a smooth twinkish build that's into bears. Has a nice downward curve on his cock. He came by last week and I swallowed a load of his, then he bred me after. Tonight I sat on his cock right away and got load 1 in my ass. After we cuddled a bit and chatted some, he was up and running for fuck 2 (ah to be young again) and I got a second load in my ass. I'm very thankful for the loads!

14 hours ago, Shotsfired said:

I'm wondering if 1 or 2 of the guys that you were blowing happened to be small time dealers, because that will also get you on the radar for local police.

They like to follow little birds back to the nest.

Little birds 😁

Are we trying to get a GOT Lord Varys tag on this thread as well? 

2 hours ago, PERVERSATILE said:

Well just dip me in Cotton Candy and Rainbow Unicorn Farts. This is the Way Gayest recommendation you'll ever see. From Me. On BZ (that doesn't involve my Penis).  Sorry Not Sorry 

 

How entertaining, this thread has been a delight in so many ways! To cocksucker that brought us together for this moment! Cheers! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

On 10/11/2022 at 10:24 AM, Kayne said:

Those are better left on private. I don't want to vilate any of the rules here.

Curious to know as well