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If he's into porn, get him a DVD he hasn't yet viewed, depicting the genre of porrn he likes. Non-sexually oriented gifts are good too. For example, a new shirt or other article of clothing. Once at Christmas a man I was involved with gave me one of those radios which only broadcast weather news. It would also set off an alarm if a tornado watch or warning had been issued...a recurring threat here in North Texas...

I used to cruise in bars & that generally worked for me; i.e., I'd get some hole to fuck. Especially when some guy would ask me, "what brings you out tonight?" and I'd reply, in my usual direct manner, "I'm lookin' for some ass to fuck"...since I don't drink anymore and also since a lot of the men in the bars are on their iPhones, etc.,; thus physically present but mentally absent, that approach no longer works well for me.

I have been labeled a "vibe-boy" and it's true: I emit some mighty strong ones and lotsa guys pick up on them...

Feeling the throbs of a man's cock in my mouth and tasting/savoring/swallowing his cream is GREAT! I can't say it's as pleasurable as getting fucked in the ass because, altho I've tried it, I didn't much care for getting fucked in the ass. But I sure do love sucking cock...

Now, when it cums to ME fucking a hot man in the ass: yeah, that's great, too. To put it mildly.

From my own experiences, the short answer to this question is "yes". But then I'm told I have a moderately thick cock; and so far holes that are too loose have never been much of an issue for me.

the 1st time I ever fucked without a condom was in 1995. I had been attending a 3-day convention/training session in Montreal for professional translators; on the final day a banquet (?) was to take place but I betook myself to the Gay Village instead 'cause I felt like eating something else. (!!) So I was at the Aigle noir (leather bar) - met this very attractive guy abt. 5 yrs. my junior and we got to conversing and before long we went off to his nearby hotel - while I was in the middle of fucking him, the condom came off and I continued to fuck him without one. Felt so good I thought I'd pass out.

Tant pis: never saw him again- he was a cook on a laker - but the experience with him left an indelible mark on my memory.

Maybe you're not fucked in the head at all but just temporarily stuck at the sexual corner of WALK and DON'T WALK.

You can't judge a book by its cover.

FINALLY someone with some common sense and a sense of decency. I find a lot of this site appalling-- the notion that a top should force or trick a bottom into taking a load "because he wants it" -- same logic a rapist would use. And the apparent eroticising of STDs, gross. Really? You want puss coming out of your dick? You want to actually spread a disease that killed so many? Or try desperately to get access to very expensive meds if you live in one of the many states that doesn't really feel it necessary to finance ADAP? to me, the goal is to sero-sort and actually prevent illness, death or at best a lifetime on over-priced pharmaceuticals with awful side effects.

Well as my nickname suggests I ain't no bottom but I have been on here since 1 yr. ago exactly today...in my profile I say I'm here to learn; and believe me, I have learned a lot. I learned some things I'd just as soon not have known. However awareness of the multi-faceted ways in which lotsa gay men rhapsodise over their sexual behaviours has given me plenty of food for thought. I, too, wonder about the mental well-being of people who are apparently devoted to what are in effect slow suicides. It alarms me that some guys derive some kinda malicious delight in aiming acts of violence against other gay men and exploiting their vulnerabilities. I call that selfishness and irresponsibility.

And please don't attack or dismiss what I express by asking me "who the hell do I think I am, to judge others?" We all judge situations and behaviours all the time. Another word for that is "evaluation". Once i said on this forum my grandmother taught me strictly never to judge anyone's inner moral stature. But objective behaviours? They're fair game.

Some stuff on here is downright alarming. I freely admit I have a hypocritical side to me about a mile wide. I'm working on that. I plan to stay on here and continue observing and reflecting on what other members have to say. It can't hurt me. Every individual on this site is unique and irrepeatable. If that observation were shown more consideration and recognition then I think we all of us might be moving in healthier, safer and untimately more fulfilling directions.

Ramybe mums. (Lithuanian for "tranquility be with us")

Colby Keller gets quite a hand-job from Morgan Black (I'd do them BOTH in a heartbeat) in the recent T.I.M. release entitled "Milk It" - does his appearance there presage other things to cum?

Nobody ever tells me such a thing & if anyone did, I wouldn't believe it but I would wonder why I'm being told that...I'm told I throw a fierce fuck but I don't harbour the irrational fantasy that I'm the fuck-master of the world - LOL!

I don't think lack of balls or intact legs would make any difference to me. Since I really like to fuck masculine men, I don't think lack of legs or nuts would have any effect on desirability or enjoyment of the man's fuckhole. It might mean being limited to fucking in just one position... I'm not sure how I'd be sexual with a paralyzed man; I guess it would largely depend on what part of him was paralyzed. I'm sure any such man would clue me in on what's possible.

Someone said the brain is the principal sex organ. As long as it's intact and in reasonably good working order, orgasms would probably still be great.

If I'm going to give a man his first fist, I'd like him to enjoy it. To help him relax and to reassure him, there'll be lotsa kissing/cuddling/cock-sucking (and I'll eat his hole good, too) to begin with; I always fuck first, then fist...and go easy on his hole. Something crucial for me as a fisting top is that the bottom be in control. So I'm wary of agreeing to fist guys I don't know; and won't do it at all with men I think are drunk and/or act like they're on judgement-impairing recreational drugs.

Fisting done wrong can result in serious injury for the bottom. Gotta be careful.

Fisting done crorrectly can result in stunning, all-consuming and unforgettable orgasms.

It's ironic and kinda quirky that during fuck sessions, both bottoms and tops often become devoutly religious and pray more than perhaps usual: " o God, baby, fuck me, o God fuck my hole, fuck me, fuck me; o God, fuck my hole...o God what a sweet fuckin' hole; o God that hole feels so fucking great..."

Mute bottoms bewilder me. The ones who yell and holler for more cock: deeper, harder, faster...I understand this kind of feedback and am quite compliant with it. I tend to be very verbal and start asking questions if all I hear is silence out of the man I'm fucking (or sucking off, as the case may be).

When I cum I tend to yell, cuss and holler a lot - and not always in English. I like being as deep in the bottom's hole as possible and I NEVER pull out until I've delivered every last drop of my mancream.

I often experience extremely deep orgasms which tend to leave me a bit breathless & mildly, momentarily disoriented.

I like to fuck.

ANY bj without teeth is better than no bj at all.

To keep cocksuckers motivated I like to urge them to think about how my good my 8.5" is gonna feel pounding away at their fuckholes. It usually works.

I'm into fucking hairy, snug holes. Men capable of sucking my cock with their buttholes, go to the head of the line, please. Since I almost always eat 'em out first, they're never tough or rough. After I've bred 'em, those holes ain't gonna be dry in any sense of the word.

One of those masterkane people sent me a pm in which he said he wanted to fuck me. I thought about telling him, "how flattering but maybe you oughtta go back & re-read my profile, this time more attentively"...but I decided not to bother.

You've gotten sound advice and insights from other posters here, and you realise it. Carrying it out, however, might prove to be more difficult than at first glance it may seem. Getting the man out of your heart and affections might turn out to be a challenge. You might find yourself angry with him and feeling humiliated/ashamed because you allowed yourself to be used, And I think those are normal reactions AND that, with time, they'll evaporate altogether.

I hope you'll go easy on yourself as you adjust to life without the kind of relationship you used to have with him. I bet he has some good qualities, too. You wouldn't have gotten involved with him if he hadn't. You're not foolish; like everyone else, you are vulnerable but also seem resilient. I bet things will work well out for you sooner than you may think.

I'm in your corner, so to speak.

Wellsir, I suspect the reason you crave dick as you do is maybe/probably 'cause you're relatively young, intensely horny and gay from a socially conservative background - and by "conservative" I understand "repressive".

From the picture on yr profile looks like you are endowed with a spectacular cock and from what you say, also a vivid imagination.

Me, I applaud that particular combination. It'll probably get you a lot of mind-shattering orgasms.

I hope so. if I were there I'd like to help you achieve that.

Yep. Sure would.

Well, Mr. Wetmore, I do believe I'd be quite pleased if you wanted to milk and squeeze MY cock with your awesome fuckhole like there's no tomorrow.

As to fisting, I discovered my experience of it is better when I fuck and breed first; THEN fist and all the better if I get to suck the bottom's cock dry in the process.

I don't care if a bottom strokes himself - whatever it takes for him to nut hard will make me nut hard deep inside his hole. The muscles spasms as he cums stimulate me beyond words.

If the bottom doesn't cum I'll sometimes pull out after dumping my load in him and suck him off. Skanaus!

Vivid story. Maybe for me the best line from it is (and it's quotable): "Sex is always confusing at the best of times."

I really, really do see that & believe it, even if I can't explain it. I believe in lotsa things I can't fully understand. Oh well.

The more hairy, the better.

I come equipped with a moderately substantial (not gigantic) 'stache & bottoms seem to like taking what I call a "mustache ride" on it.

And I like 'em to like it! I can suck/rim/tongue-fuck/slobber on a man's hole till he cums. And if he still wants cock, well, I got that, too. Hop on, buddy!

So satisfying when I can fuck a man into orgasm. That being the case & it being also that several replies on this thread indicate enjoyment of riding cock - well, there you have it, why I like my bottoms on top, raping the hell outta my fuck-stalk with their hot, creamy and snug fuckholes. The position enables the bottom to rotate his ass around and get cock from the angle (-s) he wants it. It enables him to lean forward so I can jack-hammer-fuck his hole.

I just love it.