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My tip: either open the relationship up or break up with that person instead of sneaking around. Imagine you do somehow catch an std and manage to pass it on to your unsuspecting partner, what a horrible thing to do to someone you claim to „love“. 

What do you crave most? Cock or loads deep in you?

cock is more what I want, but the cum is a nice extra  

Do you ever feel satisfied or are the cravings insatiable?

Satisfied after my fwb has finished beating my insides

How many loads does it take to turn you into an “any cock, any hole, any load” guy?

Don’t know

How old were you when you first realized it was about your hole/pussy/cunt and not your cock? Was it innate and there from the beginning or did you learn it over time?

22

The hottest opening line I ever heard was, “I don’t care about my cock.” Do you even think about cumming? Do you have a need to?

I usually come after being pounded for a while

When you are home alone, do you play with your hole or your dick?

both

Are you afraid of how deep your cravings are and the levels you will submit to in an effort to satisfy them?

No

Do you tell your friends about your cumdump desires or are those separate and secret?

No

What would you choose…sucking a hot guy’s huge dick or taking a taking a heavy-set Daddy’s load up your ass?

Its up to the guy. I’ll do what pleases him

Anonymous sesssions or do you prefer to see who is fucking you?

Anon can be hit or miss, so face to face is better… but anon is still quite nerve wrecking and ultimate excitement 

Is there anything mor important to you than taking loads?

of course, I can’t be lying in bed all day 🙂 

The top ultimately decides, but if he asks me how I want his seed, then I will always answer by laying on my back. Nothing beats that total surrender for me. Holding him closer, pulling him toward me as he releases.  

My exclusive bull told me he loves me on my back, looking him in the eyes and holding him  tight as he ejaculates inside me. When he pulls out he loves taking a picture or two to have something to jerk off to between sessions.

No I don’t refuse. Once they cum I’ve still helped them relieve their tension satisfied them and that’s quite nice. 

Reading this thread really makes me think about trying this out too, but having a busy life and a steady fwb isn’t bad either I guess 😉

For me it’s the moment he is satisfied from my oral and he tells me which position to get into. Most intense is the moment of initial penetration, me opening up for a dick that I know will only leave once he’s done. 

If you have gotten something in the time since being tested, then yes there is a risk. 

I would love to do so. Quite a lot of hot black men in Germany now, some sporting huge visible bulges… but don’t know if any of them are up for it. So I guess I’ll have to wait till the opportunity arises. 

22 hours ago, pussyboy82 said:

Also I don't care about people's reactions to my posts.

How would you react if someone messaged you after they'd hooked up with you and said they'd tested positive for an sti and you should get tested? Narcissistic people behave a certain way....obviously..... 🙄 

1) well you were the one claiming „discrimination“, now that you are being called out on it, you claim not to care?

2) if someone I hooked up with told me, I would be glad. I can get it checked and sorted without worry. Don’t know what narcissism is supposed to do with it. 

On 11/13/2022 at 3:06 PM, pussyboy82 said:

You shouldn't really be asking in this day and age as it's discrimination. 

 

Not everything you don’t agree with is discrimination. 

While I will change my approach to things, especially getting on prep, I do believe that if someone is offended by me asking them a normal question, I still won’t be offering my body to that person.

Had a wonderful long term fwb who I asked the same, he was open about everything, just like I was. So yeah these chill guys do exist.
 

12 minutes ago, partying.hard said:

I’m sorry.  If you think I was rude, then I apologize. That was not my intent. If you’re familiar with the concept I referenced, “am I the asshole” then you would know it’s not meant as a rude reply.

The point I was trying to make is that if you are concerned about HIV and your sexual safety, you need to take control and protect yourself without relying on others to do so or on others honesty.

Again, I apologize.

Im sorry too, I did not know the website until researching. Indeed English is not my first language, but all is well no hard feelings. 
 

I agree about the protecting yourself part though. I will first try to get on prep before playing with some dudes. 

34 minutes ago, partying.hard said:

Are you familiar with the website “am I the asshole?“  In this case, I think you were. If you were so concerned about your sexual safety, did you have an obligation to protect yourself in all ways.  Yes, a person can lie about his status. And if someone were to lie, he easily can doctor up negative test results for you. If it’s that big a concern, you never should be fucking raw.

No need to be rude

Thanks for all the replies. I haven’t got on prep yet since I only do bare with steady partners. But I guess it’s time to get on it. I know it’s not foolprof, but with my previous fwb it all worked well, because we had a trusting and honest situation.

guess I just need to keep looking for someone who will also be this honest and trustworthy. 

1 hour ago, BootmanLA said:

 

I notice, by the way, your own profile here says "Don't ask, don't tell". While that's fine as a concept if it works for you, it seems awfully hypocritical to not only ask others, but to demand proof, for something you're asking others to not discuss about you. 

It’s an old setting, I wasn’t actually ever planning on being active here, but kind of got sucked in.

and like I wrote, I offered him proof of my tests…

Had some good communication going with a dude I met online. He answered my ad in which I’m searching a long term fuck buddy if the first hookup works out.

He insisted on everything being bare, telling me he’s on prep.  I told him I’m ok with that, but for bare I would like some sort of evidence he really is on it. I told him I can provide recent test results of mine.

He then told me no and proceeded to block me. 
 

So did I dodge a bullet, or was I in the wrong for asking for too much?

Mine is pretty tame I guess.
 

I want to  to a bathhouse and take dozens of loads. Obviously Can’t do that as im in a relationship with a female and don’t want to pass things on. 

21 hours ago, Kimberley said:

Keep in mind, once you go bare you never want to go back. i did it with my virginity (before  prep) and i was addicted to bareback sex straight away. but i knew it was a big risk i take back then. got lucky not get pozzed

Oh that’s so true. Meanwhile I’ve taken dozens of his loads, and if this fwb situation ends, I’ll have to look for a new trustworthy fwb.

Might mean some sex with condoms to see if things works out (breeding me is a privilege, not a Right), but if it’s all clear then I’ll take his loads without hesitation. Because I really love semen inside me. 

On 2/3/2021 at 11:57 PM, NBBTTM said:

All the guys here are right...once you have a bare cock in your ass, you will never use a condom again...very much worth it. But be prepared for the consequences. I made my choice, now I'll never look back!

Absolutely true. Since I first took his cock and his semen inside me it’s been a wild ride. We hookup about once every week now, and I love the warm feeling only he can make inside my ass. 
 

He knows he can have me whenever he wants and I’m perfectly fine with that. This forum really helped me find the peace from what I’ve always feared...

So I can make an announcement to you guys:

I’ve been meeting him for a while now, and during this pandemic he’s been my only sexual partner. So have I for him. 
It’s Saturday morning where I am now and we Met last night for a Night of fun. 
 

Had the first round of sex with condoms, with me swallowing his cum from the condom. After a break, we started to get it on again... Then we realised that we were out of condoms. So we had a Choice of Not fucking anymore or breaking lockdown and going out to buy some. Which would also be a mood killer.

He asked me if I would take him bare and promised to pull out. I agreed. The moment he entered me I was shaking with sensation. I’ve never felt something so intense. He fucked me for what felt like hours, and I could feel him getting close. He asked if he should still pull out... no way I’d let him. I pulled him closer, hugged him tight and told him he can inseminate me. Which he did. He released such a warmth in me, and I don’t regret it one bit. 
 

Right now he’s taking a shower but I know that we’ll be doing it at least another 3 times by the time I leave in the afternoon. I’m really looking forward. 
 

Took me some time to figure it out and I’m glad I did. Now I’m sure of my decision and it’s all thanks to all the input you guys have given to me. So I’d like to thank you all again. 

Maybe I’m the exception here, but I believe incest to be wrong. There are enough potential sex partners out there. 

However I’m not going to push my view On other people, but I’m also not willing to move from my standpoint. 

7 hours ago, bluewind said:

A word of warning about tops: one of my last bare hookups before prep was this top only guy, regularly tested and all. Checked out his profile 6-8 months later and he became poz. A top only guy catching it is less obvious than a bottom, but the risk is still there. I can say I dodged a bullet and took this experience as the final warning, it was only a matter of time before I got pozzed at some point. 

I don't remember you mentioning where you're from so I don't know about how prep works in your country, just saying looking for it won't hurt.

Thanks for your insight. I’m definitely going to stay safe during Anal, as much as I’m tempted too do otherwise... not ready for possible long term consequences yet. 
 

I’ve gone looking for it, but going on it would cause quite some insurance issues here. Maybe I can find another way, but for now I guess loads are only going into my mouth. 

9 hours ago, bluewind said:

I can only add a little to the excellent answers provided so far, let's sum it up in one sentence: only you should be in charge of your own health. You cannot delegate someone else. 

If you're taking prep and getting your recommended shots, you're in charge.

If you rely on another person, you're exposing yourself to risk. You could be having sex with someone poz and doesn't know it yet, someone on prep who isn't taking it the way he's supposed to, etc etc. 

In case you need further evidence: how many people out there lie about their age? Would you trust someone who claims to be 10 years younger than he is to tell you the truth about his status?

You’re absolutely right on. That’s what has made me hesitate so far. I know he tops others and I know some of those encounters are probably bare too. 

I wish we had a monogamous trusting situation, then I’d let him cum inside me as much as he likes... for now though I’m gonna stay away from bareback anal intercourse. Maybe some day there will be an opportunity. 

Thanks very much guys for all your great and informative replies. This has given me some big thinking points.

While I really crave another mans semen inside me, I think I’ll continue to play it safe for now and keep imagining what it would feel like. Maybe someday, maybe if I were to get prep. For the time being he’ll have to be patient... or find another bottom. 
 

thanks 

So there’s this guy I regularly meet for sex. I bottom exclusively for him, but I know he does top quite a few others. We’ve been talking a lot about bareback, and I know he’s keen on breeding me... I would also love to try, but I’m still concerned about the risk.

So im asking you guys: How do I get over it? Is it worth it? 
 

Prep isn’t easily available here so that option is unfortunately off the table.