tallbtm

Well  whoever it was, I hope he comes back when you've got time!

This is so hot.

Ha! I got half of them right.

Jockstrap when I'm getting fucked, unless my top wants me to take it off.

Bulldog harness or other leather/athletic gear if the guy's into it too.

Chastity cage when in sub mode. It serves as tangible reminder to both of us that the Top/Dom's cock is the only one that matters.

Or chastity cage inside a jockstrap, my ass nicely framed by the straps. And a harness to give the top a "handle" to better control me.

Pick a resort in the Warm Sands neighborhood. There are several gay resorts all clustered within a couple blocks. Some have a higher "sexual temperature" than others (E.g. All Worlds vs La Hacienda) but almost all of them are clothing-optional. Personally I'm a fan of InnDulge. It's big enough (25-30 rooms) that you'll never find yourself alone around the pool which can happen at smaller places with 6 or so room (Century). Friendly and easy to talk to other guests during the day, but can get frisky at night, especially around the hot tub.  Staff and owners are great and there's a happy hour every evening where you can very easily mingle and chat with all the other guests staying there. Some resorts offer day and night passes -- for sex, no matter where you stay, you can always go get a pass and have your fun. And if you turn on Scruff, BBRT, Grinder, etc. you'll see zillions of guys within a few hundred feet when you're in Warm Sands.

From the CDC website https://www.cdc.gov/hpv/parents/vaccine.html:

All kids who are 11 or 12 years old should get two shots of HPV vaccine six to twelve months apart. 

[...]

HPV vaccine is recommended for young women through age 26, and young men through age 21. HPV vaccine is also recommended for the following people, if they did not get vaccinated when they were younger:

* young men who have sex with men, including young men who identify as gay or bisexual or who intend to have sex with men through age 26;
* young adults who are transgender through age 26; and
* young adults with certain immunocompromising conditions (including HIV) through age 26.

Check here on the Internet Adult Film Database:  http://www.iafd.com/person.rme/perfid=britainwestbury/gender=m/britain-westbury.htm 

Choir loft of a church and middle of a crowded dancefloor

These shirts in NLbear's post are from http://ajaxx63.com.  Well made, fit great, speedy shipping.

It's awesome!  I fucking love the stretch when I've got two cocks in my hole at the same time.

And for the tops, the feeling of your wet, slick dick sliding past another cock in a nice hole feels great too.

Ditto to all your wrote. Been wondering this myself.

There's a ton of information about male chastity online that you can easily Google. You might want to do some reading.

I second that on the Holy Trainer device -- most comfortable cage for wearing more than a few days that I've ever had on.

The LockedM4M.net website is a forum for gay men into chastity devices. Lots of information there.

I've kept a personal sex log for the past few years. It's just a word processing file on my computer.  My log includes names, contact info, screen name if we met on an app, a small picture from his profile if I have one, and some comments about what we did, how we met, who came, and what I thought of the encounter.  

It's fun to go back and find guys I had a great time with but later forgot about. Maybe even reach out to them again for a repeat.

It's also been useful when I've had the occasional STI to figure out who I need to contact and tell them they should get tested.

PrEP dramatically improved my sex life. I can imagine going back to condoms ever.

Sounds like a hot encounter. At least the message the next morning lets you remember it as something that actually happened and not just an Ambien dream!

I used to find the terms pussy, cunt, etc. off-putting but have come around now to enjoy their use, especially  in Dom/sub scene of some sort. Like tallslenderguy said, it's more the guy's attitude of power and control behind it than the actual words themselves. What that works, it's a total mind-fuck turn on.

8 hours ago, justsexnowatl said:

Gilead's copay assistance is $3000 per year.  But the full cost is something like $1300 - $1400 per month.  So that would run out FAST.  My copay is 25% of the full price, so Gilead covers "most of it" for the year, but with no insurance coverage that wouldn't go far at all.  A buddy of mine was getting it through the county health department even in rural GA, but he was lower income.  I don't know if they'd cover it if not low income.  It's probably county by county.  Worth a check.  Or the generic stuff mentioned....good luck, it's been so liberating!!

I just looked at your profile more junito - looks like you've already been liberated lol!!

Small correction:  The gileadcopay.com site has been updated. They now provide up to $3,600/year for Truvada with no monthly maximum.

Good news:  the yearly total has gone up and eliminating the monthly maximum helps people with high-deductible insurance plans who pay most of their medical costs out of pocket at the start of the year.

15 hours ago, barefootboy said:

I pay very little.  Gilead offers a card for up to $4,000 a year. With my insurance, I have paid a total of $630 over the last 2 years. Go to Gilead's website and sign up for the card if you have not already.

 

The direct URL for the card is gileadcopay.com or www.gileadadvancingaccess.com.

Gileads offers co-pay assistance on Truvada, but also on Genvoya, Odefsey, Stribild, Complera, Atripla, Descovy, Viread, Emtriva, Viteka and Tybost. 

I've had pierced nips and a PA for more than decade. My jewelry is all Stainless Steel (which is non-magnetic). None has ever been detected by a walk-thru metal detector. The nip rings sometimes do show up on the back-scatter scanners. I just tell the TSA agent I have pierced nipples and he wipes down my chest with the back of his hand to confirm before sending me on my way. Never a big deal. (I'm guessing that the PA has never been detected because it is "hidden" behind the zipper or metal buttons on my jeans but that's just a guess.)

While most TSA agents are utterly unfazed when I say I've got pierced nipples, the best reaction I ever got to saying I have pierced nipples is the guy telling me "Oh Cool! So does my husband."  :-)

Go get your PA, dopey. You are now cleared to fly.

Are these the numbers you're looking for?

 http://www.poz.com/pdfs/P04-14p53.risk_transmission.pdf

A huge consideration is also the poz partner's viral load. If "undetectable" the risk of infection to the negative partner is extremely low.

No, the trip fell through and I didn't make it up there :-( 

Just fucked a guy. Found out afterwards that there was HVL cum in his ass. Anybody know my risk?

Here are some statistics comparing the risks of various sex acts.  Check it out, it may help you understand your risk.

 http://www.poz.com/pdfs/P04-14p53.risk_transmission.pdf

If you care about your "regular fuck bud" you should tell him and suggest he get tested. Otherwise if he's infected, he can pass it on to others (and back to you).

When you've got an STI, get treated yourself, then Man Up and tell the all guys you've played with recently so they can get checked out. No one is happy to get that news but they will thank you and respect you for your candor and honesty. 

Thanks for the advice everyone. I am on the 3rd and i am doing better already. The first day was rough

I had very loose bowel movements (diarrhea) for the first few days on PrEP but those side effects stopped by the 3rd or 4th day. No side effects since that (2+ years now on PrEP).

Most guys who start PrEP have no side effects; for those who do, the side effects usually end in the first few days, or at most a couple of weeks.

Glad you're already feeling better, adam4adam.  

Does the Gilead card HAVE to come through the mail?

If getting mail could be a problem for you, perhaps they can just send it to you electronically. Call them and ask.

As I recall, when I signed up online I immediately got a link to a downloadable PDF of my card that I could show to my pharmacy and then they sent a physical card by regular mail.

 

 

Information about how to apply for any of these forms of assistance can be found at www.GileadAdvancingAccess.com or by calling 1-800-226-2056 between 9:00 a.m. and 8:00 p.m. (Eastern). - See more at: http://gilead.com/responsibility/us-patient-access/us%20advancing%20access#sthash.F9QMArdx.dpuf

You also said Gilead won't pay for your other meds.  I don't know what meds you're talking about but according to this link http://gilead.com/responsibility/us-patient-access/us%20advancing%20access they have payment assistance programs for:

Atripla® (efavirenz/emtricitabine/tenofovir disoproxil fumarate);

Complera® (emtricitabine/rilpivirine/tenofovir disoproxil fumarate);

Descovy® (emtricitabine/tenofovir alafenamide );

Emtriva® (emtricitabine);

Genvoya® (elvitegravir/cobicistat/emtricitabine/tenofovir alafenamide);

Odefsey® (emtricitabine/rilpivirine/tenofovir alafenamide );

Stribild® (elvitegravir/cobicistat/emtricitabine/tenofovir disoproxil fumarate);

Truvada® (emtricitabine/tenofovir disoproxil fumarate);

Tybost® (cobicistat);

Vitekta® (elvitegravir);

Viread® (tenofovir disoproxil fumarate)

- See more at: http://gilead.com/responsibility/us-patient-access/us%20advancing%20access#sthash.F9QMArdx.dpuf

A few years ago FelchingPisser offered build-it-yourself design plans for a Fuck Bench on his blog. You might send him an email and inquire if he would share the plans with you.  

Here's his original post:  http://felchingpisser.blogspot.com/2013/07/my-playroom-fuckbench-for-you.html