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To see SFVersCumBoy's original blog post click here Today I decided that it was a good one to head over to my old stomping grounds. There is a tearoom in the neighborhood that I would see people at occasionally and today I made that my destination. Taking the elevator up to the floor, I exited and it appeared that no one was around. That can be advantageous if the tearoom is occupied. I headed inside and saw a stall door closed. Well, when I tried the handle, it was unlocked and empty. Okay. Knowing it could be just a matter of time, I headed out into the main area. Sitting in a lounge chair was a young dark haired guy in a business suit. He was on the phone but I caught a glimpse as I walked out. Stopping by a doorway, I pulled out my phone and checked a few sites. Soon enough, he hung up the phone and walked into the bathroom. Not being 100% sure, I gave him time to have settled in or be on the way out. As I walked in he was at the urinals. I took one nearby and set down my backpack. I looked over and he was also looking over...and since it was long enough and he was not moving, I pulled back a bit and let him see my hard cock going back into my briefs. Right away he made a move and I could see him holding a nice cut cock. Smooth, with a nice mushroom head. He stroked a bit and I walked over to him and asked if he liked being sucked. He was not opposed but seemed nervous. I told him about the empty stall, and he said it was good at the urinal. I am not one to argue when a hard cock in right there. As he was stroking, I got down on my knees and told him that he could cum on my face. He smiled and nodded. Then he got down to really stroking out a load. At one point I had my mouth open and gave the head of his cock a quick flick. As I was watching the precum ooze and form a glistening lube on the head, I bent my neck back to give him a full canvas of beard to aim for. He started to cum and I was able to catch the first drops on my lower lip, and the rest went onto my lower lip and the sides of my mouth. Some even slid into my mouth as he was stroking out the last drop. Once he was done, I was already licking my lips and stood up to swipe the rest into my mouth. I headed to the sinks and mirror and could see that I missed a few spurts and took care of them. Before we left I made a point of thanking him for the load and he smiled. Maybe I will have to try this tearoom more often... More...

Click here to see Closet BB Cumdump's original blog post... Hey guys, after such a hot experience in LA at the hotel orgy I decided I would host one at my hotel in NYC this week. I have to say, when I do hook up with NY guys I have fun but there's soooooo much work involved in getting together. Kind of nuts sometimes. For you NY guys, let's just FUCK! OK, now that I got that out of my system I posted a party on bbrt before I got there. I wanted to keep it somewhat small since it was first attempt at hosting. I approved 15 guys to come. By the time I wrapped up at 11:30, 5 guys had come, none at the same time. It was a Tuesday night so maybe that has something to do with it? I don't know. BUT....I did have a great time anyway.I logged on and the wifi was terrible so I did my best to stay in tune with everyone. A bunch of guys sent the "won't be able to make it tonight - sorry" email. Guy number one had asked me to text him because he was going to be out at dinner and I forgot. Good things happen though.... and one of his buds who was coming too, and had to back out, sent him the info. Guy number one showed up and was tall, which I like....we got naked. He had an average bod, kind of hairy, cute face. I had some new spray to numb my throat so I can deepthroat. Figured I'd try a few new things this night. I sprayed it in my throat and started sucking his dick. It swelled up to a nice size. His profile said dick size was 'large'. I would agree! It was great. I laid back on the bed and threw my legs up. He used spit to lube his dick and pushed a little in my butt. He tried to push in and then grabbed the lube. He said 'wow, you're really tight' I told him it would go in. He asked if I bend over the end of the bed and we could do it doggy, might be easier. I did as told and took a looooong hit of Maximum Impact and I felt his dick sliding in as I started getting light headed. He said 'oh fuck yeah' and started pumping my ass slowly. He picked up the pace while grabbing my shoulders and pulling me onto his cock with each thrust. After a few minutes I asked him if I could flip over onto my back again so we could make out while he fucked me. He said sure. We both took a hit of poppers and he slid back in. We started sloppy kissing like crazy while he started plowing my ass. His face expression started to change and I knew what was next. He shot a nice load in my ass, I felt a few of the spurts. Fucking awesome start to the night! He pulled out slowly and cleaned up. I decided I wasn't going to clean up but was going to wear the experience as a badge for the rest of the night. We agreed to buddy each other and definitely fuck again. He also told me he was going to tell his friend who couldn't make it that he missed out. I emailed his bud too thanking him for giving guy number one the info and I hoped the two of them could tag team me next time I come back. About 20 minutes later, guy number 2 showed up. He was even taller, probably 6'2" or 6'3" young, hot and HUNG. His profile on bbrt said dick size is HUGE, oh my God....it is. Not as big as the massive dick that bred me in LA (still the largest I have ever taken) but not that far off. He got naked and he was not only tall but real thin. It's like all his mass went to his penis (which was great!!!) He asked to use the bathroom first and after he went in he came back out and asked if I was into water sports. I have never REALLY done it even though dabbled here and there. I asked him I'd try and asked what he wanted. He told me he wanted me to take it in my mouth. My brain instantly told me, you wanted this night, you are gonna get on your knees and try this. I got on my knees he stuck his dick in my mouth and said it would just take him a minute. Took about 30 seconds and I felt a hot, bitter (very bitter), salty piss start filling my mouth. When it got to capacity I swallowed hard. I got an INSTANT hard on because this amazing hot guy with a huge dick had just started pissing in my mouth. The stream picked up and I kept swallowing and swallowing and swallowing. It was bitter but I told myself to keep swallowing. His dick was getting so hard while I swallowed his pee that I got even more turned on about doing it. He told me how hot it was and after he was done we went to the bed. Again, I just bent over the edge and took another long hit of Max Impact. When he slid in I sure as hell felt it. He started slow for all of 30 seconds and then picked up the pace. Within a few minutes he was pounding and I mean POUNDING my ass. All I could hear was the sound of his balls slapping so hard against my butt. He did not stop once he started. I was biting a pillow and I kept taking hits of poppers. After about 10 minutes of brutal fucking he said 'oh fuck, I'm gonna cum in your hole.' Now remember I said the first load was big? It was not.....compared to this one. He FLOODED my ass. Seriously. He pulled out and I straightened up and I felt multiple streams of cum dripping out of my ass down my legs. I stepped on a patch on the floor near the bed that was wet from spurts also. I was in heaven.... I told him I would definitely give up my hole to him again. He said for sure so I hope he means it!!! Guy number three I will gloss over. He did immediately get naked. Average body, average looks but I was there for dick so I got on the bed and he pushed inside. I was ok so far but then he leaned over to kiss me. His breath was awful. I swear guys I tried. I was begging him to cum and he kept saying he wanted to enjoy it and kept coming back to kiss me. After a couple of minutes I told him I had to stop. I got up and safety came by a knock at the door. Guy number four (a fuck bud) showed up. I told guy number three I couldn't do it any more. He asked if I wanted him to stay and I said no. I felt awful but I just wished he had come and not tried to keep kissing me. I just couldn't get beyond it. After he left I actually had to brush my teeth and wash my neck off because I could still smell it. Take a lesson guys....when you hook up, check your breath. I love pits but smelly breath, ewwww. OK, so guy number four started with some oral, him blowing me and then me blowing him and the we got into the fucking...He did me on my back, my legs up. We fucked for a bit in different positions but after sniffing too many poppers he lost his erection. I tried blowing him to get it back but it wouldn't stand back up! I asked if he wanted to get fucked because it was getting near the end of the night for me and he went into the bathroom to clean up. When he came back out he said he felt bad since this was supposed to be about me getting fucked so he logged onto bbrt and was looking for more tops to breed me. We got some bites but they were too far away and it wouldn't have been too late with me having to work the next day. We decided to call it a night and he got dressed, we kissed and he left. So I am sitting there with two loads and thinking ok I guess that's it. Not so fast....I logged back onto bbrt and there was a ton of email from more guys who wanted to come to the party. There were a few still online. A couple said too late to travel but they'd host. Since my hotel room was pretty much the scene of my breedings for the night I didn't want to leave it but I found two more guys who came over. We agreed on pump and dumps since it was late. They came over together. There was no chat, no names. One was a little chunky, but good looking and a nice dick. The other was a muscle guy with an average dick. The muscle guy stuck his dick in my mouth while the chunky guy got behind me and drilled my ass. It didn't take long, they stuck to the rules of pump and dump. The chunky guy started shooting his load in my ass and just as he did the muscle guy started shooting his wad down my throat. Fuck yeah..... Then just as quick, they both got dressed and walked out. I actually think they must know each other for arriving together, spit roasting me, cumming together and leaving. Eh....I don't care, I got their loads So for a couple of hours and what seemed to be disappointing in terms of numbers, I got 4 loads, fucked by 6 guys technically, one down my throat, drank a guys piss until his bladder was empty... I am a happy man and here are a couple of pics of my freshly fucked hole.... More...

To see SFVersCumBoy's original blog post click here As many of you that have followed this blog over the years may realize it all began one year after a trip to Washington DC for a leather event. Well, we just returned from that same trip and there was some hot cum blasting fun to be had by many. On to the recap... Friday night began fairly uneventfully. We made our way up to one of the rooms with a "24/7" bottom being pimped out to whomever wanted to stop by and fill his holes. Normally those can be fun, and my husband was the first of us to walk in and begin getting undressed and prepped by one of the hands and mouths in the room. I made my way over to the middle of the room. Standing in a pair of underwear with no ass (similar to a jock) was a very hot looking young guy. Not a twink, just a young lean hot man with scruff on his face and sexy hairy ass. His cock was already in someone's mouth, but it did look mouth watering and I was hoping to get at least a taste. While I was standing near him, a few guys took slurps on my cock or stroked me for a bit. Then the cock sucker happened to move away and I made my move. Leaned in, bent over and swallowed it all. Apricot sized mushroom head, long shaft and all ending in a pair of peach fuzz covered nuts. Silky smooth skin and it just slid on my tongue. Apparently it felt good, because he did not make any motion to have me move away. I looked up and the expression on his face said it all...blissfully aware that I knew what I was doing and he was there to enjoy it. After that, I went to town as I love to when I am on a cock that I want to fill me for hours. Quickly, he leaned down and said "thanks!"....the other guy was basically trying to chew off his cock, and now I was there to do it the proper way. Now, many of you know that I pride myself on being a cock sucker that sometimes fucks. Just as there are guys that have asses made for large multiple loads, I have a hunger for cock and cum that is my priority and at this party I had found a cock made for it. My young friend asked about poppers and I brought out my bottle of Amsterdam (just my personal favorite) and gave him a hit. His eyes grew a few sizes and he had an almost ear to ear grin....his first time with that brand, and oh did he like it. The sausage wrecker was making his way back to the scene and not only did I have no plans of giving up my young friends thick, long cock but he had the same idea. He leaned down and asked if I had a room in the hotel. "Yes!", I said....and we both agreed to move our scene up there. We got our clothes and I led him to our room. On the way out of the party room, I let my husband know and he agreed to let us have some privacy. After we were in the room, the chemistry kicked up a notch. We were both turned on and ready for more. With him laying on the bed, we had tongues and hands on all parts of each others bodies. I asked him if he liked to have his ass eaten...and he said "yes, do you want to eat my ass?" FUCK yes! He rolled over and presented that sweet hairy ass to me. Oh, I just dove in and SLOWLY pulled his cheeks apart to let me see his tight puckering hole. Using the tip of my tongue to pluck and tweak it, then I would use my whole tongue spit wash the hole. Pull cheeks apart again and flick his hole until it twitched and then apply the whole tongue all over it again...and again...and again. The conversation turned towards what else we wanted to do....I told him I liked to get fucked and also fuck tight young holes. He is as versatile, and gave me permission to fuck his hole. I was to be his first PA top fuck. I grabbed the poppers and a bottle of lube. He asked about which position I wanted and doggy style was how I wanted to see him. Ass up and hole puckering for my tongue, then my cock. He got on his knees and with just a hit of poppers, I began to penetrate his ass. TIGHT, furry and spit lubed. He slowly opened up and I was soon buried to my balls. Once we both knew that his ass was fully prepared, I began to slow fuck his ass to be sure he was well stretched. More and more, he relaxed and his ass was up in the air and I was pulling out so that only the tip of the PA was left and then slam back to let him feel it hit his prostate. In the mirror I could see his young face looking back as my cock was riding up into his hole. Feeling his ass muscles gripping my shaft with each thrust soon had me on the edge of exploding. As I got nearer, I asked him if he wanted my load in his ass. Once my balls were beyond the point of no return I let out a moan and felt the first built up volley of cum gushing out of my cock and filling his hole. When the spasms died down, he leaned back into me and we started kissing again, until my cock slid out of his cum filled hole. After I was fully drained, I offered his a shower. We both went into the bathroom and just did some touch up. Then he asked if I wanted his load. Sure! I said, if he was up for it. "I could see it in your eyes that you wanted it" was his reply and I could only smile from ear to ear. We went back into the bedroom and he said it would be harder to cum standing, so he laid back down on the bed. I went down on his softened cock and coaxed him back up to full throttle. During this second round of cock sucking I worked on his balls as well. First one, then the other and then both in my mouth at the same time. He seemed to enjoy all of it. After a few more minutes he told me to work on his nipples. I moved further up to have access to those little buds of ecstasy and used my fingers, teeth, lips, and tongue to tease his load out of his balls. Well, it was not long before his breathing sped up and I knew it was moments from eruption. Suddenly I saw cum flying past my face at his nipples and it landed on his shoulder. Then two more shots of cum flew out and hit the left side of my head and more went over my head to hit his upper body. After at least six or seven huge spurts of cum had coated us, I leaned up a bit and just had to admire the array of cum splatter....and then I had to begin to lick it all up!! He asked me if it tasted sweet...and OH Fucken A, did it! Licked up a huge wad that was on his shoulder and as I savored it, I leaned in and we began kissing again with his cum mingled in our mouths. And that, gentleman, was the beginning of three days we spent with this young man. A couple more group parties where we protected our young charge and let him direct the action as he wanted it, and a few more loads of cum being drained from multiple sets of balls. More...

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To see Billy Twee's original blog post click here I've blogged before about how much I enjoy vacuum pumping and how pleased I am with the results. Yes, you can increase the size of your dick, most certainly temporarily and with religious diligence, permanently, as well. Our Puritan culture asserts that you cannot increase the size of your dick without surgery but how the hell would they know...they who pretend that a penis is merely for procreation? Just because they hate theirs, doesn't mean you can't love yours. And then they'll tell you, oh well, yes, maybe you can increase the size of your dick, but it won't be by much. Oh yeah, well, when it comes to dick, 1/4 inch is a lot, and a whole inch is possible but it will take a long time, and as I said...you must pump it up...religiously. Praying to Jesus won't help here. I like to pump up before I go out to the bars or when I'll be wearing jeans or hell, I pump it up whenever I go out. With my pump it takes about 30 minutes to get a plump fat dick, and then I'll wrap it up with a twisted black sweatband. I can't get a cockring on it after I've pumped. And then I go out. Last week I was at a popular bookstore on Market St. A regular bookstore not a dirty bookstore, there aren't any of those anymore on Market St, they're all on Polk St. or SOMA. So I'm wandering around when I notice a shortish, middle-aged Filipino guy kind of hanging around, not quite following me but always keeping within view of where I am. I spend a bit longer than I need to, looking over books that I don't care about, because he's like wanting to be teased and I was in the mood to tease...my fat cock was clearly bulging through my jeans which aren't that tight, but definitely show a good roll. When I get to a more desolate corner of this bookstore, this Filipo guy gets fairly close, crouches down and pretends to look for a book on the shelf closest to the floor. And then, after pausing for about ten seconds, reaches up and cops a feel. Just enough to squeeze my sausage. And then he's up and outta there. I walk over to the main aisle of the bookstore and can't see a sight of him. He got the hell out of there right quick. It's like maybe he thought I was going to report him to a clerk or something. In the 1950's, this is what might have happened, and the police might have been summoned. But in the new century, this is merely quaint behavior, rather charming actually in that one can find his desires satiated in such an elementary and primitive way. And did I want this to happen? I don't know and I'm not going to give it much thought. I just wanted to write that some more souls are still trapped in the last century. And some have advanced to one step beyond staring with a nose pressed up against the window. They're actually touching. I'll continue to pump, taking the lead from the late, great super pornstar and businessman Al Parker, who didn't invent but certainly popularized vacuum pumping. Old Al probably used to pump up before walking down to the local 7-11 for a pack of cigarettes. I may not be there yet but I'm getting there, getting off on those poor souls who reach, grab and run. More...

To see SFVersCumBoy's original blog post click here I do so love to give a man just what he needs. So, my thick hot buddy that helped ring in the new year and the new office works only a few blocks away. I was running an errand and sent him a text. Told him I was down the block and offered to unload his balls again. His response was "you wanna suck me in the stall?" And you know mine was a yes... He gave me directions to a far off corner bathroom in the building. It took me some time to find, but when I walked in he was ready. There were two stalls next to each other, but we shared one. From the entry you could never even tell there were stalls, so it was perfect. He was sitting there with his legs spread open and I just got down on the floor and took his cock into my mouth. As you could see from the videos, he has a nice thick shaft and I was stroking and swallowing every inch I could. During the first few minutes of giving him head, we heard the door open and a couple of guys come in. They never even made it back to where we were. After a couple of minutes more, he stood up and said "You're good, but I want to try something because it is kinda dirty"...and then he slid under the stall divider and presented his lower body to me. Well, I am all for taking a guy under the stall! I went right back to work on his shaft and head. Once we heard someone come in and he pulled back under. Once the coast was clear he slid back under. I was on hands and knees with his cock buried in my mouth. Obviously this was a huge turn on, because it was not long before he was almost yelling "yeah, suck my cock!" My slurping and fisting his cock, along with that chant made it sound like a hot early 80's porn and that was enough to get him off. I heard the grunt, and saw his balls pull in as his massive load started to unleash into my mouth. Then I started to feel the shaft enlarge and the sweet warmth of fresh cum began to fill me. Once again he shot off a good four or five volleys of cum, all into my mouth with none being wasted. Damn, that one king sized load! As we both exited our stalls and washed up he told me that he "really needed that!" and I said that it was just what I needed before heading out of town. Now that I have seen this stall, I hope to meet him there again and even bring along the video camera....I know you all would enjoy seeing that! More...

Click here to see Life In The Raw's original blog post... Profile name Barebackweho on bbrt, @rawbbseed on twitter I hit him up on BBRT last night, he had a quickie ad up that he was looking for some action. We talked, and he told me that he has wanted my poz load for a while, so tonight should be the night. I went over to his place, he was in his room undressing, I ate out his soft and wet hole, grabbed his beefy tattooed ass as I tongue fucked his butt. I slid my dick into his hole, felt fucking amazing. Didnt need any lube either, he just welcomed me in. As I pounded his hole, he just kept telling me how good it felt, how much he loved it, and wanted my poz load in his hole, that he wanted my load to be the one that converts him. I just kept fucking him harder, thrusting in deeper and making him cry out from opening his hole up. I watched his mohawked head as I drilled him from behind. I grabbed him and told him that he was mine now, that my seed was going to make him mine. He whimpered, grunted, moaned, and pleaded for my seed. For my hot load in his hole. I was close, I was at the edge, and was staying there, my dick pulsing from the inside, my balls cocked and ready to fire my sperm, I grabbed him and thrusted a few more times, firing off a deep, hard pulse of cum in his amazing ass. Another guy bred, another notch in my twitter belt. And soon, another fuck between he and I. More...

Click here to see Life In The Raw's original blog post... A twitter buddy @im_so_childish, wrote a very imformative entry on bottoming. So HERE it is! Bottoming 101 This is gonna be a LOOOOONNNNNGG post because I have a lot to say on the subject. Also I totally fucked up what passes for a normal sleeping pattern for me doing this so I hope you're all fucking grateful. All puns intended. I've been reading lots about what its like to be a bottom from all kinds of sources recently. You know how some weeks certain things just keep cropping up in your life for no obvious reason? And I take issue with a lot of what I've read. I'm a bottom. I'm a damn good bottom. I can take it hard and rough and with little lube and I enjoy every damned second of it. And I can power bottom with the best of them. So I feel myself pretty qualified to write a nice long guide to how the fuck a lot of people should be bottoming, cause a lot of people seem to get it pretty damned wrong. And some people just genuinely don't know and want to know more. I get at least one set of DMs a week to my twitter account (@im_so_childish) asking me about bottoming stuff. And I'm really happy to help those people and tell them what I know. So now I'm going to write it all down, so in future I can just refer everyone to this, and hopefully some of you learn something and discover the joy of bottoming. Some Basic Points: Bottoming does not *have* to hurt. - it probably will to start, but doesn't with experience Bottoming does not make you gay/less manly/a slut/desperate/whatever. I can't believe I even need to write that but I know I do. The bottom is not an exit hole only The bottom does not *have* to be dirty, and by and large, usually isn't depending on what you're doing and how you've prepared - more about this later Yes you may be really tight. Sphincters, i.e. your asshole, are made of muscle. Admittedly they aren't quite like biceps, but just about any muscle in the body can be trained, and improved with patience, the right technique and regular practice. You do not *have* to bottom if you don't want to for whatever reason, ever in your entire life if you so choose. But like all aspects of sex, if you're curious, it's worth seeing what happens and where it takes you. A good top will notice and appreciate a good bottom. And the bottom will get repeat fucks. Just because you bottom doesn't mean you can't top. My friends all regard me as one of the biggest power bottoms they know, but I can still nail a guy's ass if I the mood strikes me. The bottom is ALWAYS in control. Doesn't matter what's the situation is, when they've got a problem, you've got a problem. Respect your bottom, cause you're the one who wants to get inside them. An Anatomy Lesson: Right, now that that's out of the way, let's start with some basic anatomy shall we, as a friend just said, it's important to have a knowledge of this stuff and how to abuse it This shows more than I need but it's plenty useful. Here is your anus boys and girls (and your penis for the boys only). Around the point marked anus is your sphincter. This is the bit that opens and closes according to what's going in or out at any one time. Normally it stays shut. The rectum is effectively the bit you fuck. Mostly. If you've got an exceptionally large cock you might get past this bit but we'll come to deep penetration later. Much later. Right lets go over all the important things about this entire area. Your asshole is a ring of muscle called a sphincter. Actually there's two of them but don't worry about that. You should all have a basic knowledge of how this works from going to the toilet for the entirety of your life. Finer control of your sphincter we'll come to later. The rectum is the main area that concerns us. This is the bit that fills with shit, and tells you to go to the toilet. It doesn't stay full of shit all the time. It temporarily holds it and gives you the urge to go to the toilet, just like you get an urge to go for a piss; it doesn't mean there is constantly urine in your cock that you only release every so often. If you're lucky this stays clean when you're not about to go to the toilet. Most people aren't lucky. Or think they are but aren't 100% clean. You can clean this area and its one of the major marks of being a good bottom in most people's opinions. Again, more on this later. The other major important landmark is the location of the prostate. It's right next to the wall of your rectum. When you get fucked, the other guy's cock rubs against the prostate. This feels GOOD. A really talented top can do it with his fingers, and really get you writhing in pleasure. But this is a guide for bottoms, not tops. Top boys you'll have to look elsewhere for that particular technique, sorry. The final important point I want you to take away from this anatomy lesson is that the rectum is full of nerves. This is how it gives you the sensation that you need to empty it. And the sphincter is surrounded by nerves. This is what can feel good or bad about getting fucked depending on if you do it right. And even more interestingly, the body is conditioned to give you pleasureable feelings as things pass through the nerve endings of the sphincter. This is the sensation you get after having a really big shit; it's a biological incentive to do so. The happy endorphiny high. Well that's basically what you create when getting fucked. Over and over and over again as that cock pounds your hole. Starting to see the joy in bottoming? The Golden Rules of Bottoming: Okay so lets start with the sensible place to start. Getting something into your ass. Because if you can't even get a pinky in there the rest of this post is pretty much just useless theory anyway. The three golden rules of getting anything into your ass are: Lube Patience Relax FFS! If you're having problems you haven't done one of these properly. TRUST ME. Yes you might be tight, and yes you might be struggling to get a pencil up there, but with all 3 of the above you will eventually get there. In order then.... Lube. Me? I can take things with just a spit and go, but that's me, and that's cause I'm used to it, and because I don't mind a bit of pain because I'm a masochist. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume the rest of you don't like pain and need more lube than just some spit, that's not a bad thing. The rectum is a fragile area. And tearing either the rectal wall, or stretching the sphincter too far, too fast, on entry is not only potentially dangerous, it REALLY fucking hurts the next day. Even I've taken too much too quickly with not enough lube and regretted it. It heals, just like any other part of the body, but it still fucking hurts. There are a million and one different types of lubes out there, but lets start with basics. Most lubes are made of one of 3 different bases, water, oil, or silicone. They all have advantages and disadvantages. They all feel different. And each base comes in a variety of different brands and slightly different types that also feel slightly different. The trick with lube is to experiment. Find one that works for you. You can get lube trial packs with all sorts of different varieties in or you can go to a sex shop armed with about £20 and buy the little travel/cruising size packets in every kind imaginable. Water based are slick, and the most common variety that most people prefer and use. The free lubes the doctors give out are almost always water based. They're simple, easy, last a decent amount of time, wash out of anything you get them on, and totally compatible with condoms. Downside is they can get sticky, especially on your hands from where you applied it, and can need reapplying throughout fucking as they dry out through friction. Oil based lubes last a long time, they sit on the top of the skin which doesn't really absorb them so they don't tend to need reapplying. Most fisting lubes are oil based. Downside is they are not condom friendly at all. They degrade latex, and the last thing you want is a falling apart condom inside your ass. Also oil often stains a lot of things. A good wash can get it out of sheets, but perhaps not out of the wood finish desk you fucked on top of. Silicone lubes are basically an attempt to combine the best bits of both oil and water based lubes. Silicone lubes tend to last a long time and a little bit can go a long way. They are condom friendly. They stain a lot of things. Silicone lube bottles tend to leak slightly - the lube can get around the lids so in a bedroom where they stay upright you're fine, travelling with them or in your pocket is less good. Silicone lubes need soap to wash them off so it takes longer to clean up and a big stain might not wash out at all. Oil or water based tend to be better for fisting/stretching/depth play. They're also considerably more expensive than water based lubes. But personally I find that they're a bit like the fairy liquid of lubes - they last a lot longer and you need a lot less than the cheap shit. So it all works out the same in the end. Personally I prefer silicone based lubes. My ex preferred water based so whenever I fucked him we switched lubes. Find out what works for you. And don't assume it works for everyone. I have both water based and silicone lubes by my bed. N.B. There are also hybrid silicone/water based lubes. I've never found them to be any good to be honest, but again, try them, and if they work for you, go buy a big bottle and to go town on your ass. Patience. Now quite frankly, this is all down to you. You know yourself best. You're the only one who can feel what you're feeling and know what feels good, what feels bad, how much you think you can take and how far you can go etc. That said, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SLOW DOWN. A lot are really eager to get your fingers/dildo/his cock/the wine bottle or whatever it is in your ass, probably because it's feeling good. And that's admirable and kinda hot, but seriously, take your time. I'm assuming you're reading this because you're not confident in your bottoming abilities, and want to improve. So take it from someone who is confident about them. Slow down, take it easy, apply more lube. Spend an entire evening stopping and starting, or very slowly stretching further. You don't have to get it in in 5 minutes, and you're not gonna train your ass to power bottom status in 30 minutes. Take all the fucking time in the world, and dont let anything dry out. When you're getting double fucked by two 10" cocks, then you can start worrying about trying to do it faster and without using a gallon of lube to do so. Relax. Again this is really all down to you and how you're feeling, but again, most people go about this wrong. Breathe. Calm down. Taking your time will help with this. Don't try to push yourself too far. And stop worrying so much. I know you're eager, I know you really really wanna be able to get fucked, but you're gonna make yourself worse by trying so damned hard. A lot of it's in your head to be honest. You're so convinced, on a subconscious level, that it's hard for you to bottom, that you can't take whatever it is, that it'll hurt, that your body instinctively prevents you from doing so. Remember how I told you there are technically two sphincters at your asshole? Well one of them is involuntarily, so until your subconscious is happy, you ain't getting anywhere. It took me 3 years of trying to take a fist to finally get there- I only managed it for the first time about 4 months ago. And now I can take a fist relatively comfortably. Because my mind has finally learnt that I CAN do it, that I just need to breathe, and not panic, or worry, or try so damn hard, and it'll happen, suddenly everything opens up and they're inside. And it's EXACTLY the same with cock. Relax, take long deep breaths, clear your mind, and just accept if it happens AMAZING, but if it doesn't you can just try again in the future. There are a few muscle and breathing techniques I can teach you however, so onto the next section of this ridiculously long blog post... Breathing: Can you guys believe we haven't even got past the sphincter and getting whatever it is inside you yet? But seriously your hole is where so many of the issues are concerned. Once we're past all of that, it's pretty much the home straight and just a few bits of housekeeping before you'll be bottoming with the best of us. Let's start with breathing. The breathing techniques are designed to help you relax. And as you relax, so does your sphincter. There are a million and one different techniques here, and the same goes for the muscle control exercises which will follow. Like the lubes, you need to try them all and see what works best for you, because what works for you may not work for someone else, and everyone will inevitably recommend something different. When you're trying to get something in your ass, and especially if you're struggling for whatever reason, you tend to forget to breathe as you're busy concentrating your focus on achieving your goal. This is perfectly natural, we do this all the time; its one less thing for the brain to focus on and worry about whilst you quickly complete whatever it is your trying to do and then your body can get back to the job of maintaining itself. Great, but this results in everything tensing up, you feeling hotter, and everything gets that much harder, basically the complete opposite of what you need to be doing at that point in time. So make your breathing conscious. Focus on that instead. Focussing on your breathing and making that the subject of your awareness and concentration will also help to clear your head and stop you worrying about what's happening to your ass, furthering the amount your body, especially that part, relaxes. Handy huh? So how should you breathe? Well as I said it's down to you but there are two basic options that seem to work for most people - one is just the long deep controlled breaths in and out, the other is lamaze breathing. Lamaze breathing is that strange labour breathing where you exhale short-short-long. try counting out one-two-threeeeeeeeeee. with a short breath in just before one and two and a slightly longer one just before the threeeeeeee. However you breathe, you want to exhale as things are going into you. This is the same as breathing during any form of exercise, you exhale on the exertion. So as something is going inside of you and your body starts to struggle, make sure you're on your long exhale. Again, you do the same when you have a big shit. As you push out, you exhale really deeply. It helps the body, and especially your sphincter when under pressure, relax. Plus the concentration of making your breathing your brain's focus helps to distract it from the unfamiliar, and potentially slightly painful feeling of penetration. Your body, as intelligent as it is, only has so much focus, and you can actually partially distract it from a lot of sensations pretty damn easily if you know how. Muscle Control: Yes your sphincter is a muscle. Once again lets admit there are actually two of them side by side. One of them is involuntary. You don't really need to worry about this one aside from the fact if you're stressed and worried it's unlikely to be cooperative, so this is why it's important to be relaxed. The other one is voluntary. This is the one you use to shit with. Or rather, the one you use to stop yourself from shitting your pants with. You should all know how this works in terms of a basic opening/closing kind of deal unless you've had a colostomy, but then you've had part of your colon removed and you have bigger issues. Like breathing, the first thing to do is make yourself aware of this muscle. Don't just try and open up your ass. Actually think about what muscle you're using, and don't focus on getting anything in you, focus more on slowly, steadily, and comfortably, relaxing that muscle. Yes it's all a bit hippie-ish with visualizing and "don't just feel the muscle, see the muscle", but I'm actually kinda serious. This shit works, because once again it gives you something to focus on that isn't trying to get whatever it is in your ass. Focus on the muscle and what it's doing, and WHY is it clamping shut, and which bit of it feels tensest, and concentrating on slowly relaxing that, and eventually whatever you've got probing your hole will naturally follow. Now of course you just have to combine this with the breathing, focussing on achieving both of them together rather than what's going into you and WHY you're doing this (which will only set your brain off worrying about whether you can do it again), and you're practically done. And now, for some advanced teaching! (oooooh, aaaaaaah...) Okay hands up who in the blog has heard of Kegel muscles, or Kegel exercises? This is pretty much what I've been writing about above anyway. Though if you identify the right sets of muscles you'll find they're slightly different by funnily enough the distance between your asshole and your cock, that's when you know you've got the right respective set. So Kegel exercises work on your pelvic floor muscles. They're REALLY simple. To identify your pelvic floor muscles, stop pissing half way through. Notice which muscles you're tensing. Also notice your hole has tensed up and tightened. And now start pissing again. And notice how everything relaxes. Including your ass. Okay now stop start stop start stop start until such time as you've finished pissing or got bored. It's pretty much that simple. Oh sure you can get it more complex, it's a set of muscles, like other muscle training exercises you can tense and hold, do quick reps, long reps etc etc. But the whole start stop pissing thing is simple, obvious, and easy. But you don't have to do it whilst on the loo, you can do it sitting at the pc, on the tube, wherever (I'm totally doing them right now ). Why? Because it'll give you REALLY good control over your hole. You know the bottoms that can basically suck in a guy's cock with their ass? This is what they're doing. They relax all the right muscles and bingo. The bottoms that can practically milk a guy's cock just with their ass? Again, this is it, tense, relax, tense, relax, etc whilst he's inside you, and bingo your top is going crazy for your ass and will be begging to fuck you again. And as an added bonus, studies show it prevents and/or solves erectile dysfunction, strengthens orgasms, and increases sexual pleasure. GET CLENCHING PEOPLE Penetration: OH MY GOD PEOPLE WE'RE HERE. PENETRATION! ACTUAL ENTRY! It's taken me more than 3,200 words to get to this point but finally we're here, together. Savour this moment. It's beautiful. So hopefully you all paid attention to my earlier section on lube, patience, and relaxing, and together with the breathing and muscle focus you've managed to get something just about to open you up and into your ass. This is the all important "push out like you're taking a shit" moment, except it'll feel nothing like taking a shit because things are going in rather than out. The principle still stays the same. Push out with those pelvic floor and sphincter muscles you've been learning about. And remember to exhale as whatever it is enters you. If you're lucky, and you've taken your time, and got your body comfortable the idea, whatever it is will slide all the way into you in one go. It might feel like you're actually going to shit but you're not. The body has some sense, it's just the same biology and anatomy in use, so it can get confusing. Once in leave it there, focus on your breathing, and let your body start to adjust. That might take anywhere from 30 seconds to 15 minutes, and that's starting to adjust, not completely adjusted. If you're not used to this it's gonna take time. Like I said people, patience. Focus on breathing, focus on relaxing your mind and your entire body at this point. Don't focus just on the anal muscles anymore, relax your whole body and let it calm down from the intrusion. If you feel pain at any point in the insertion. Stop right where you are. Don't go back to square one. That's the mistake. Stop pushing out, but resist the body's urge to totally close up. Hold your sphincter muscles open at the point that they are but no further, and obviously, stop pushing whatever it is in. Stop with it half way into you or wherever it is. Take a deep breath to help with relaxation and pain endurance and SLOWLY pull it out until it's bearable again. This should hopefully not be all the way out. Breathe in, focus on relaxing muscles again, and wait. Wait 5, 10 minutes however long you need to, and then try insertion again. And hopefully you get a bit further. Or maybe that's as far as you get that night. But try the next night, and you'll probably find you do get that little bit further then, and after 2 weeks or so, you'll hopefully be inside. Once you're in and relatively comfortable and your hole has started to relax of its own accord and accept there's something holding it slightly open, slowly pull out. It shouldn't feel rough or stuck in any way, if it does, you didn't use enough lube when you went in. Don't pull out, don't pull past the sphincter, once you've travelled an inch or so, push back in slowly. Get your hole used to the sensation of being open and something going in and out of it and over time you can increase the length of the stroke. Get your hole comfortable with the idea. Once it learns to do this without any pain or huge struggles on your part you're pretty much done. At that point you can pull all the way out, and try reinsertion. And you'll probably find it a lot easier than the first time. Another trick is to rotate whatever it is - dildo, finger, obviously a cock doesn't really operate like that, whilst keeping it at the same depth. This will stimulate the sphincter without actually changing how open it is, or how deep you are etc. Enjoy the sensation. If something feels a little painful, try and focus on what feels good. The sphincter nerves as discussed earlier are designed to give the brain pleasure when stimulated, so the strokes or rotations should hopefully give you *some* pleasure. Focus on that and how good it feels. Over time that sensation will improve, and the pain sensation will lessen. Congratulations, you have been penetrated. With time, practice, and bigger things being put into you, you'll be taking cocks no problem. When finished up breath a nice big sigh of relief and put a big smug grin on your face that you achieved it. Cleaning Out: And now you have something inside your ass. This means we should cover the all important area of cleaning and douching your ass. This is the area I get messaged with questions about more than any other. And it's really important. It's definitely a mark of a good bottom to be clean inside every time they get fucked; only a small subset of people enjoy shit as part of their sexual activities, but the majority of us don't. The deeper you get penetrated the higher the chance of the guy coming out with shit on his cock, or whatever it is. But yes, you can clean the inside of your ass! (Just don't use soap, really really don't, it'll cause problems, plain water does the job fine) It's called douching and its something a LOT more guys should be doing. Read and learn... Douching (Bulb Douches) If you don't know what a douche is, go look one up. It's basically a giant pipette with a spray nozzle on the end rather than a dropper. You can get them for about £10 in any sex shop or online. Now follow this guide: Fill sink with lukewarm water. Not hot. Not cold. A nice 37 degrees centigrade would be about ideal considering it's going to go in your body. Fill douche with said water Lube up douche and your hole and insert douche (i.e. you need to be used to having things in your ass a little by this point) Depress bulb SLOWLY and your ass will fill with water - you'll very quickly notice if the water is too hot or cold at this point and if it is, stop and restart the whole procedure. DO NOT let go of the bulb once its fully depressed. (last thing you want to feel is suction inside your ass trust me) Carefully pull the douche out of your ass, trying to keep your hole as tight as possible to stop water escaping. Wait. It'll be mildly uncomfortable and your intestines will probably make a fair bit of noise. Try and hold it for 5 minutes if you can but if it gets really uncomfortable or painful don't worry about it and skip to step 8. Expel into toilet. You probably want to flush at this point. Repeat procedure until the water comes out near enough the same colour as it went in. Done, simple. Clean the douche, flush it through with clean water several times. You should probably jump in the shower at this point and clean the lube and douche water off your ass too. Bulb douches are cheap, simple, easy, and great if you have a grindr fuck due in 20 minutes. They keep you clean for about an hour or so. They are not good for long sessions, cleaning before going out at 8pm on the pull with a view to dragging a guy into your bed at 2am at the end of the night, or for deep penetration by big toys, fists, or large cocked men. And so we come to... Deep Cleaning Bulb douches clean out the lower portion of your ass only, if you're gonna need the stuff further up cleaned up, you need a deeper cleaning douche. Check out the shower shot. There's a million and one similar cheaper versions on sale in your local sex shop or online. It's basically a dildo attachment to a shower hose that can have water coming out the end of it. For this you're gonna need a shower with adjustable pressure. If your shower only has a fixed pressure, or the lowest pressure is still pretty decent, you'll do damage to your ass if you use water that basically jet blasts your insides. That's not the aim here. If your shower isn't suitable you can find mixer tap shower hose types that have the same attachment at the end. And here we go... N.B. You may want to have cleaned out once or twice with a bulb douche first before doing this. Connect the attachment to the end of your shower hose (this may involve taking off your shower head ) Adjust your shower to output lukewarm water and a fairly light pressure. Your attachment may have an on/off valve for the water to make insertion easier, if so turn it off at this point. Lie down in your bath (so the first step should really be making sure your shower hose is long enough, if not buy a longer one and swap!) You shouldn't do this standing up or squatting. When you lie down your entire intestinal region relaxes a lot of muscles and you're gonna want that here. If you're sqautting you it'll still work, but the effect wont be as great or long lasting. Insert attachment as deep as you can. Turn valve if present to on. You should feel a steady trickle of water into your ass. Again pull out and adjust temperature if necessary. And make sure pressure is light. You are slowly filling your intestines with water, not jet washing them. Once full (this may take a minute or two) pull attachment out, keeping hole tight as possible again. Again keep held in for 5 minutes or as long as is comfortable. Expel. Witness the difference between deep cleaning and bulb douching and realise just how much bulb douching doesn't get to. Repeat procedure until water runs pretty much clear again. Wait 20 minutes. Go to toilet again, sometimes it takes that 20 minutes or so for some of the really deep water to work itself out of you. If it's dirty you may want to repeat everything all over again. Depending on your body and what you've eaten etc, this usually lasts between 4 - 8 hours before you're at risk of anything getting dirty again. You can go out, find a boy, bring him home, and get fucked by him in the safe knowledge you'll be clean and sparkly. Or you can start taking fists to the elbows, or get fucked non stop all night. Regardless, you'll be clean. Whatever you do, remember to put your normal shower head back on, especially if you have flatmates. I'm not being held responsible for that conversation. Over-douching Douching is amazingly handy. Deep cleaning is awesome. But a word of caution. The intestines contain lots of helpful things in them designed to help digestion, stop us getting ill, all sorts of stuff really. Yakult and Activia ads can tell you all about it I'm sure. Douching, and especially deep cleaning, can wash these out, making our bodies less effective. As a result, try not to over douche. I'm not sure on exact specifics, but I probably don't recommend deep cleaning more than 2 or 3 times a week, and if you're getting fucked all night long more often than that, you don't deserve sympathy from the rest of us when your body doesn't work right you lucky bastard Be sensible kids. Bath cleaning This isn't really douching, but it is a way of making life a little easier if you are super tight, have IBS or something that makes it hard to douche etc. Get in a deep bath with no soap products in it. Get some silicone lube (which doesn't wash out in water alone so will work underwater), and start playing with your hole. Work yourself open. You'll get a bit of water in your hole and it'll clean maybe the first inch or so of your sphincter. It's not much, but it'll make playing with yourself a little easier and nicer. Forward Planning So if you've been paying attention you've probably noticed that cleaning out can take a fair amount of your time. Tops really do have it easy, they just turn up and fuck. A good bottom has to plan ahead. Bulb douching tends to take around half an hour. Deep cleaning can take up to an hour and a half. As you learn how your body responds to things and how to judge it etc you'll get quicker and maybe shave off a bit of time, but yeah, cleaning out, it takes time. A good bottom actually can't just come straight over in 5 minutes with no warning whatsoever unless he by chances has already prepared. (Though equally, a good bottom will prepare before he starts cruising). You should also think about what you eat. Whatever you put in your mouth is gonna end up somewhere near your ass several hours later even when deep cleaning. How long it takes to be a problem depends on how well you cleaned out and what you're doing, but it's just something to be aware of. Some greedy bottom boys don't eat at all if they're going to a sex club that day, or some go on liquid only diets for the day. Again it all comes down to being aware of your body and how it works and thinking about what you're doing with it. Fin: That's pretty much your basic guide to bottoming people. I've covered all the important details, but that in no way means I'm done. I've come this far, I might as well go all the way and talk to you about all sorts of other things relevant to bottoming, starting with three housekeeping issues: Grooming: Now this is all down to personal preference, both of you, and the guy fucking you. Some guys like completely smooth, some guys like trimmed, some guys like hairy, some guys like full on gorilla, whatever works for you. If you do wanna remove hair there are many ways - trimming is good for getting rid of long hair or keeping it tidy. You can buy body trimmers from just about anywhere these days for £25 or so. Shaving is the most obvious method of full hair removal. Yes it is possible to shave your own ass, yes it takes practice. LOTS of practice. And yes you will end up with shaving bumps and the occasional cut. Just like shaving your face. It grows back thicker stubble and requires very regular upkeep to stop from getting itchy and uncomfortable whether on your ass or crotch. GO SLOWLY, the skin in your entire pelvic area is rather sensitive and rather fragile (though I probably don't need to tell that to any guy sticking a blade in the viciinty of his cock). Creams are a good way of getting rid of hair and require less regular maintenance than shaving. Always buy the sensitive skin version. And don't leave on too long. Either way you may still find they burn, if so stop using them. Creams burn me so I shave. It's a hassle, but better than chemical burns on my balls thanks. Waxing is as effective as cream and also long lasting, but usually requires someone else to do it for you. You can even get laser hair removal in such areas. The people I know who've had it done swear by it. Though it does involve putting your ass and cock in the path of a laser.... Condoms: I've made very little mention in this post of whether condoms are involved or not. I leave you to make your own decisions. You're all adults. You should all know the risks. I don't want to lecture you and I don't want lectures from for you. The principle of how to get fucked is exactly the same whether you use them or not. You tend to need more lube with condoms and they do increase discomfort to varying degrees for the bottom, but they stop the spread of STIs and are good practice, especially if you're picking up random shags. Like lubes, you can get trial packs with all sorts of different kinds of condoms in, find what works for you, both as a bottom and as a top, and stock up on them. Whatever you do be sensible about it, and respectful of others. Time Frames:: A lot of people when I started talking about writing this sent me messages saying they were interested because they'd like to bottom but always had problems. I firmly believe anyone can bottom with enough determination and patience. But how long it might take you varies from person to person. I've always been good at taking cock. But I know not everyone is. Some people have to work really fucking hard at it. No pun intended. You're almost definitely gonna need to take time playing with yourself before you move onto toys, or playing with others. If necessary just tease your hole with some lubed up fingers, not going in at all, just getting your hole comfortable with the sensation of something on it, over the course of an entire evening go from hardly touching to the amount of pressure you use to to push a tablet out of a blister pack. And I mean take the entire fucking evening to build up to that if you need to. Your body gets used to sensations, but different people get used to them at different rates. If you really struggle to take anything, it's gonna take you a while to get anything inside you, but if you keep trying, and keep practising, and easing your body into the sensations associated with it, you'll get there eventually. Bottoming is a skill like any other in the world, if you want to get really good at it you have to practice. Regularly. As in 3 or more times a week. And if you are charcoal into diamond style tight that might even involve gritting through a bit of pain here and there. Not too much, please don't damage yourselves. But sometimes you have to push yourself through things in life if you really wanna try it and do it. If you're lucky you're born into the world as a natural bottom, just like some are born as natural tops, natural athletes, natural scholars, whatever it may be. Everyone else has to work at it, just like they have to work at most things in the world. Don't expect sex to be any different. Advanced Bottoming: There are so many places to go once you've learnt how to bottom well. That doesn't have to mean you bottom all the time, or even regularly, but knowing how to bottom and being capable of doing so when you want to is a trait practically every guy's gonna appreciate about you. I'm not gonna do how to guides here, just some comments on various areas. Stretching The anus is surprisingly elastic. If treated well, again by relaxing properly and with patience, you won't do it any damage, and given time to recover it will return to whatever sort of states your body considers normal. Getting fisted doesn't make you incontinent. Getting fisted to the elbow every night might very well do, but the occasional heavy play session isn't gonna do you any damage if done right. You may find after heavy sessions doing whatever you need to give your ass a day or two off following. Treat your ass well and it'll let you do practically anything to it. Poppers Some people called poppers, also called room odorizers, video head cleaner, all sorts of things. You inhale them people. They provide a slight high during inhalation and for a brief period after and they act as a muscle relaxant. They can help you to take a little bit more or supress the initial pain of penetration and they can be fun in their own right during sex. If you're not a confident bottom, I recommend trying the stuff in my post WITHOUT them first, once you're properly aware of what you're trying to do and how to go about it, then throw poppers into the mix if you want 'em Analgesic Sprays These are the lubes and sprays that slightly numb the skin around the ass. Like poppers they're designed to aid penetration for people who find it difficult. Frankly, I don't recommend them. Pain is your body telling you something's wrong, it's telling you you're doing damage, you're going too fast, stretching too much, and need to stop or slow down. Yes it's frustrating and it takes longer to work through the pain naturally, but personally I don't think you should be suppressing the body's natural reactions - they're there for a reason people Size Issues and Training I've written all this assuming you're using something vaguely appropriate to your ability to bottom in terms of size. Don't try and take too much, you can work up to it later. You can get dildos smaller than a little finger, and buttplugs that are only an inch in girth so even if you're really tight, don't lose hope. There is a toy for you. And they increase in size all the way up to full traffic cone sized door stops. The trick to taking more is again, more patience, more lube, start small, with what you can do, and over a long period of time, work onto slowly bigger things. As I said above, the anus is fairly elastic and can adjust itself pretty impressively, but it needs the chance to do so. Positions Like with the condoms and lube, try every position imaginable, try being on top, underneath, on your side, find a gay kama sutra online and try everything you can do in it. Different positions work differently for each person. You might find being on your back with your legs in the air incredibly painful, but taking it doggy style might have you moaning so loud the neighbours complain. I can't cum when I have a guy riding me (that's not to say I don't enjoy it). You get different sensations from all these different positions because they put pressure on each of your bodies in slightly different ways and tense different sets of muscles and mean whatever's going into you at slight different angles. Find the one that works for you. Curved Cocks On the subject of angles, some guys have really curved cocks, this can present a problem when being penetrated because it may mean your rectum is being pushed into your bladder, abdominal cavity, wherever as the guy thrusts into you and this can make it painful or simply uncomfortable. This is where different positions can really help. What way does the guy's cock curve? Think about what that's gonna be like when it's inside you, and adjust for the straightest and most comfortable fuck. That said, sometimes a guy with a really curved cock can hit the right spot in a way a guy with a straight cock can't hope to. A curved cock isn't a bad thing... Depth Play Deep Cleaning is really the trick here, but neither you nor the top should be too surprised if the end of whatever it is inside you does get covered in something. It's unfortunate and embarrassing, but it's an occupational hazard, even just from normal fucking with the best preparation. Sometimes it happens. Deal with it, move on. Be a fucking grown up. Fisting Cut your nails when fisting a guy, you don't wanna cause any bleeding by scratching something, however minor. It's incredibly uncomfortable for the bottom. If using gloves make sure your lube is compatible with them. Oil degrades latex. Most fisting lubes are oil based. Most gloves are latex based. Do the math. You can get water based fisting lubes, they're just not as common. Let the bottom control the pace, depth, etc. He's trusting you a hell of a lot when your fist is buried in his ass even if he only met you 10 minutes ago. Double Penetration Very possible, very fun. Same principles apply just twice over. Lots more lube. Lots more patience and trying. You might have to adjust to get the angles right. Easiest one is bottom riding one guy, other one comes up behind him. Less Lube Over time if you bottom regularly you'll probably find you need less lube as your body gets used to things. There's not really any huge advantage to using less lube, aside from maybe some cost savings and a little less mess to clear up. If in doubt, add extra lube. It's fun to just spit and shove, but most guys can't take that. Body Awareness Practically everything I've written in the more than 7000 words above should have given you the impression that basically it all comes down to being aware about your body. What it's doing, how it works, why it responds to certain things in certain ways, how to get desired responses out of it, how to train it into particular things and what you can expect from it. I have learnt over the years most people do not know their own bodies very well, especially when it comes to sex. And extra especially when it comes to anal sex. If you take the time to learn these things, everything becomes SO much easier. Caveat You don't have to do everything on this list. You may just wanna get fucked by your boyfriend occasionally rather than become some pnp fisting power bottom. I get a lot of questions from a lot of different people, so I've tried to cover all bases on some levels. The basic cleaning and penetration techniques are good knowledge for everyone, but as I've repeatedly stated throughout this post. Find what works for you, what you're comfortable with, and go with that. Not whatever other people, or me, or the internet, or whoever says. Go with what you like and you're interested in. A Word for Bottoms: It's fun, it's amazing, it's awesome, we love it. Don't wreck yourselves, don't hurt yourselves, and never ever forget you are in charge. No matter what. It becomes rape the second you withdraw consent, no matter how much "you were clearly gagging for it". If it hurts, if its not working for you, if something's wrong. Change it. Some of you like it to hurt a bit, some of you like to be used and not get that much pleasure out of it. That's fine, because in doing that it IS working for you. But whatever you do, make sure it's something you're happy and comfortable with. Your ass will thank you in the long run. A Word for All of You: Repost, retweet, reblog, share, educate. Let me know if you have any thoughts or comments on it. Let me know if you think I should talk about something I haven't. Let me know if you have something you think I could include. Credit me please. I spent my time and energy writing all this up, and I'm happy to share it, but at least credit where you actually got it from. Also feel free to read the rest of my blog, it's very self involved and totally crazy and not actually to do with sex at all, mostly. But people seem to enjoy it. Posted by Konstantine at 05:51 Labels: Bottoming, Condoms, Douching, DP, Fisting, Fucking, Lube, Sex More...

Click here to see Bare Sqwhirl's original blog post... I'm pretty new to being tied up. It's only happened twice 1. time I was tied to the bed and fucked. 2nd time I was wrapped up in plastic wrap, then a slit was cut on my back side so he could fuck my tight hole. I wasn't able to touch myself and could barely move he bred one more time before freeing me. Ask me anything! Sexual, random questions, would you rather, seriously anything! nodu246dego@post.wordpress.com More...

Click here to see Sperm Pig's original post... Last night I got my butthole absolutely destroyed by a huge black cock. It was awesome! It being a full moon and all, I was fairly horny all weekend. But all my looking online turned up nothing— until about 9*pm last night. I had just about resigned myself to jacking off when a guy contacts me on BBRT. He’s fucked me before and he says he’d like to get in there again. I invited him over, and 25 minutes later he’s on my couch. This guy is in his early 50’s— a shorter, well-built, black guy. And his cock is amazing! Not the longest— he comes in right at 8.5 inches when fully erect. But he’s uncut— and motherfucking THICK! Near the base of his cock, it’s thicker than my wrist. I can’t come close to getting my fingers around it. I also can only fit about half of his shaft in my mouth before I can’t stretch my mouth any wider. The first time he fucked me, I secretly videoed it. It took like 3 tries and lots of poppers before he got up my ass. He also wasn’t able to cum that time— do I’ve always wanted a rematch. Well, last night he strips an presents that massive uncut black anaconda to me and I sucked it for all I was worth. He tried to force me down on it, but it just kept gagging me. It’s just far too thick to swallow! After 10 minutes when he was at max hardness, he asked me if my ass was ready. Fuck yeah it was! I got on all fours and lubed us both up good. Then he brought out a new can of spray poppers and had me do some. While I was soaring, he slowly shoved into my butt. It still hurt like a motherfucker, but damn if he didn’t bottom out on the first try. I think it was a combination of the poppers, my horniness level, and the fact that I knew I could take it from last time. He slowly pulled out and pushed back in until I was opening and relaxing to his full girth. Then he started humping me. He doggy fucked me like the bitch I am. And my ass took it. Then suddenly he pulled out and I was surprised by the emptiness in my ass. He turned me around and fucked my mouth some more— getting off on having me suck him again. Then we relubed and repoppered up, and he shoved all the way inside me again. This time, it didn’t hurt at all. Only pleasure. I pushed my hips back to meet his thrusts and kept a steady stream of poppers going. His massive cock was getting even harder and thicker inside me, and I knew he was getting close to blowing his wad. So I started begging for his load. Telling him to use me as his dirty cum dump whore. Asking him to put his DNA in my ass. A few hard thrusts later and he’s spunking my guts. It was amazing because his whole cock would swell like an additional 1/2 inch in thickness with every spurt. I found myself counting the swells because I could feel them so acutely. The last big one was at 11. There were a few aftershocks, but mostly he was done… … Until I begged him to keep fucking me. He had a cockring on and he was still working at near full hardness so he fucked me for 10 more minutes. Hard. I just kept telling him to work that cumload into my guts— to churn it around and massage it in. He obliged. Eventually I jacked off and blew my load all over the fuck towel. Then he collapsed on top of me and we lay there til his cock slimed it’s way out of my hole. Feeling his cumslicked cock head plop onto my nutsack was intense. When he left, he agreed to start using my ass more frequently. And maybe get some friends to join in sometime. More...

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Click here to see Suave Knight's original blog post... Back in the US now after a not-so-fun trip over the holidays (family drama, as many of you probably experience yourselves, so not going to bore you with someone else's). On my way back to the US, I did get a stop-over in London, and stayed at a shitty hotel near Clapham Common just so I could walk over for some boning whenever I wanted throughout the night...and I got 3 pieces of ass (2 mediocre, but one TOP Quality). The week I got back, I decided to go to the Underwear party in SF since I hadn't been in over a year. So...here's the thing: I fucked 3 guys there, ALL hot...but it took me all night. The first dude was some 30-something "twink", meaning he said he was 21, which he obviously was not, so he was either drugged-out beyond his ability to distinguish reality or just living on another planet or both. Still, he was hot and told me by chance he'd be at the party and I should look for him and just guide him by the hand someplace dark and fuck him. I did find him, and tried to take him somewhere, but he started giggling and said, "It's too early. I'm not ready yet. Maybe later." Now, it's not that this guy was overwhelmingly hot or anything; tall, lanky, nice ass in a jockstrap, but I felt like I was owed his ass for some reason. And as much of tweaker as he was, I knew someone else would get to him eventually and I was determined not to be the beneficiary of sloppy seconds. So, I casually followed him at a distance like a stealthy predator until about 1/2 hour later he was locking lips with some equally twinky looking guy in the corner (who I could guarantee was not packing the 8" gift I had in my speedos). I watched as their heavy-petting got gropey, and at that moment the long-ranger took over-- I wrapped-up got right behind the tall twink, and just positioned my cock at his hole. He didn't struggle or push me away, so I pushed harder, then it just popped in. He was standing straight up lip-wrestling with the other dude, so I couldn't even bend him over. But I was so horned up I didn't care and just fucked him right there only to get my dick off...which I did in probably less than a minute. After that I just pulled out, threw the condom in the corner and walked away to wash in the bathroom. The punch-line is he passed-by me a couple more times and with a huge grin asked, "when are you gonna fuck me again?" I just smiled the first time, and scowled and rolled my eyes the second (there were much better opportunities afoot now). I ended up fucking a VERY cute blond kid with a 7"+ uncut dick in the bathroom, and a bubble-butt black bottom with some butt-out underwear (a few guys were wearing those at the party; they look kind of like wrestling singlets with the ass cut out. kinda odd-looking). I was half-tempted to bring my phone to the event just to snap some pics, but thought better of it. So, here are my first attempts at the "fruit-basket" shots of the dudes I've fucked since I been back home (I know I'm not very good at it, but hopefully I'll get better): This last dude was a 20-something kid I met on facebook and had fucked once last year (he was in a "committed relationship", yet I was lucky enough to bag him). He finally let me fuck him again this week, and did NOT disappoint. You can't really tell, but he has an incredible bubble-butt. His hole fits my cock like a glove in every respect. He also likes it rough, so I gave him a very long spanking before mounting him from behind and prison-raping him. I told him I wanted to cum while fucking him missionary, and he just looked at me with huge cute brown puppy-dog eyes and said, "you don't have to tell me, just take it". And...I did. As you can tell, he has a very big dick on him (fatter than mine, but I still have an inch over him). So, enjoy this first post of the year. This coming weekend I'll be back in Orlando. Not planning on hooking up with the Puertorican kid tho as I'll most likely be hosting a small group/orgy of my own and get some more fresh meat. Will be catching up soon... More...

To see My Load Deep In You's original blog post click here Just got back from a VERY convenient, nearby gh. This guy sucks like a champ. He got a six day load from me. I plan on going back regularly. More...

To see Billy Twee's original blog post click here I wanted to call this a tri-racial threeway but that doesn't quite make sense in today's parlance. It gives the wrong impression: biologists, or at least bureaucrats, stop at 'bi-racial,' any more races makes it 'multi-racial,' eventhough this three-way involved men of three races, and as far as I know, none of us is multi-racial. So I'm settling for an interracial three-way. I had been chatting with this Filipino guy on barebackrt for around a year but we couldn't make it happen, as he lives out in the 'suburbs.' For those of you who know San Francisco, anything, west of Van Ness Avenue and south of 13th Street, qualifies as the suburbs in my book. This guy was just too hard for me to get to; but he seemed nice and so we kept on trying. Yesterday, Friday, it worked out...he was able to drive to me for a morning rendezvous. This daddy is into getting his tits handled, pinched and chewed on. I'm always afraid to overdo this stuff but he seemed to want more and more. I'm still feeling my way around this nipple freak but we learn fast, and eventually I figured out I could sit on his throbbing dick while I gnawed at his tits. He's about 5 inches taller than I am so it worked out; if he'd been taller it would have been ever better and I would have learned something new to add to my repertoire of sex. We'd been going at it for about half an hour when my fuckbud Dr. Hook showed up at the door. 'I've got somebody here. Is that OK?' This should have been a rhetorical question but I had to ask anyway. It may be just sex, but that doesn't mean you forget good manners. Both guys were into it. Well, what followed was a 'first' for me: getting fucked by an Asian top and a Afro-American-Caribbean top, both taking turns on my ravaged butthole. My black buddy filled me up with usual generous load. More toxic juice to keep me charged up. Something new for me: interracial, three ways. Awesome. More...

To see Bike Guy's original blog post click here 6'2", 210, bald. Save him being almost 30 lbs heavier, he rivaled me when it came to stats. Well, his cock was about one inch shorter, but other than that......... Oh, and he was about 10 years younger than me. But that's it. We chatted via Manhunt - he lived all of 4 miles from me. We never connected. And then we did. The MH chat was vague at first - and then he was quite clear: "I want to breed you" Well, you can't fight a tidal wave. Confusion on where we were doing this was high. He kept telling me abouts where he lived. When pressed it was: "Oh, I can't host". Well, then why the fuck do I care where you live? But by this point, I was in heat and invited him over. He arrived in 10 minutes. Whiter than his pics made him look, as I had assumed he was of mixed race, I guess it was just lighting. He wanted to kiss, which normally I can take or leave. He was an ok kisser, but nothing to write home about, just blog about, I guess. I did drop to my knees to show him my oral skills. He seemed impressed, but that's not why he came over - on either of our parts, so that demonstration lasted only a few minutes. He showed me his skills do, which I was not expecting. Oral talents were highly rated, for as much as I even bother getting that done. Again, I had no desire to get off that way....if at all. I had put out lube, and while he saw it, he looked down at his cock and drooled a nice wad of spit onto it. Nice. With me on my back, he then positioned the head of his cock in my crack. After a few attempts and insertion, I guided his dick about a half an inch south to where it found the opening. He pushed in. I accepted it. No time for adjustment, he just plunged. I was ok. His 7" fit nicely. And that man could plunge. Over and over. Hitting sides of my inner walls that made me feel each push. While he asked if felt alright, it is not like he stopped doing what he was doing to really care about my pleasure. Yes, there is a certain mental satisfaction in that - for both of us. I get that mindset does not work for all of us. It does for me. It seemed to for him. After 15 minutes, he couldn't seem to keep erect. He wanted to wash up a little and I took him to the bathroom. There I got a better idea. I turned on the shower and stepped in, then invited him to join. He did. I was wicked erect still, painfully so. He played with my nipples and I had to tell him to stop. I was afraid of shooting. I was afraid to tell him that, thinking he'd play with them to get me to shoot. I turned around, ass towards him but he didn't think he could fuck again. Didn't think he'd get hard again. Hard enough, anyways. With soap in my hand, I got a good lather up and worked his dick. I soaped my ass too and his fingers found it. With the my hand, and his playing with my nipples and ass, we were good to go again in a few minutes. He turned me toward the far wall and told me to bend over. In his soapy cock went up my ass. He POUNDED for another good five minutes as hot water poured over his body. I got some sprinkles of water, and the open air was cool on my skin. He gave it like man, I took it like one. He asked those words I've heard so often, "do you want my load?". What I wanted to say was, "duh!", as he told me he wanted to breed me, which got him the fucking invite in the first place. And he didn't ask in a way which was rhetorical and hot at the same time - and I think you know how I mean. He phrased it like it was all new to him and was asking if I wanted more potatoes with my meal. Of course, I answered in the affirmative - in almost a pleading way, "yes! yes, I want it all". His groans echoed off the tile walls. His cum hit my inner ones. A five day load. We stood in the water has he rinsed off. He asked if I was going to cum. I considered it, but opted to let my now abused, painful dick, stay that way and go limp. It wasn't time to cum. I was there to take it, not shoot it. More...

To see iBLASTinside's original blog post, click here... Posted in barebackCastrocumfuckgayghettoGuideNightclubNightlifeSan FranciscoSan JoseSilicon ValleyTravel Diary Watch out San Francisco! This weekend will be the first time I’ll be wandering around the city since I was in my twenties. Mark Bentson in his twenties is significantly different than Mark Bentson in his forties. Yes, I barebacked then. But then, I tended not to be “out” about it. And, well, a little bashful. When I was there, it was only a few hours. I fucked this guy for about two hours, breeding him three times. We went to dinner with some of his friends then I went to a hotel near the airport where I bred someone else. The next morning I went home. I’m not sure what I’ll be up to while I’m in town this weekend, but I’ll probably do something touristy. Cross the Golden Gate. Hit the Fish Market. Fuck someone. If you want to be a host, let me know… Fucking is touristy, right? * * * Getting in touch with Mark is easy. Just visit the Contact page or check out the links on the top right of every page on this site… Related posts: Fifteen Things I think I'm having a mid-life crisis. I guess you're allowed at 43, although it seems to me it's a little beyond midlife beca... Distorted View Posts Full Interview with Me on Sideshow Subscriber Feed I'm a Freak. (Notice I spell that with a capital "F.")For more than four years, I've been listening to a podcas... Taking Suggestions for My Next Bay Area Trip If you read my Travel Diary from my last journey to the San Francisco Bay area (Day 1, Day 2, Day 3 and Day 4), you'll notice... More...

To see Bike Guy's original blog post click here Fuck - he's young enough to be my son. Granted, I would have been a father senior year of high school for him to be my son, but it might have been the biggest age difference - older to younger - that I have ever done. Sure, I was happy being the 'son' to many older men when I was 15 years younger than this kid. Kid is a strong word. He's 30. He looks younger. Much younger. Nary a hair on him that isn't atop his head or at his bush. Not necessarily my style at all. And he's cute as hell. The Kid (never got a name), contacted me on Manhunt. 6'1", maybe 160 and 8". His messaged had been on and off ,back and forth for months. Him to me. I'd never pursue him for a number of reasons - for the most part I do like older than that, I do like men with hair, but then again, there was something about his cuteness. A slight cockiness in his face. That appeals to me. I am past my partying days and I know that hooking up with young can cause a conflict in these regards. So, we had texted back and forth for a few days and at 10:30a one day he was just getting up. I'd been up for hours at this point, but opted to swing by his place. The Kid was not quite out of bed when I showed up but prepped enough to have a bottle of poppers at his bedside (probably from the night before) and both a TV and laptop playing porn. A nice touch, but unnecessary. He dropped his shorts and I felt his hardening boner. It grew quickly, and to its full advertised inches. Oddly enough it is not what I went after first. The boy had such a nice, albeit, hairless body, I just felt his chest and abs and then around to his globes. I started from the back with my tongue. I bent him over the bed and at his unshowered ass. I dove in between his cheeks and ate that crack and hole of his. He responded in kind - or in the manner to which I expected for an ass eating. He took it well, but we both knew that wasn't what I was at his place for. He really wanted to fuck me, but I wasn't prepared for it and I don't think he was either - not that just waking up is a detriment to sticking a cock up a guy's ass. I had him turn over on his bed, sitting on the edge and lowered my head to his erection. The sinking of my mouth down his shaft to his bush elicited a nice long moan. The boy was a moaner. I like moaners. It lets me know I'm doing something correct - at least for that one person. Each feeder is different and has their own likes. At one point, he scooted himself back onto the bed and propped himself with pillows. I got between his legs and took his rod all the way down my throat. All 8". I worked that dick for a good more 10 minutes before he couldn't hold back. I would have loved to suck longer, but truth be told, I had a deadline and things to do. I was already going out of my way to be there in the first place. I went for it. With vigor, I went for it. The dick. His load. I got both. Telling a buddy later, he asked what the load was like. It was plentiful, the way a 30 year old can shoot, but it was thin and lacked taste. I like a thicker more tasty load, but really that's not what it's about for a guy who sinks to his knees - is it? It's a plus, but that's not the main objective. It's not mine anyways. He showed me to the door and realized he was up way too late, as the trash had already been picked up.....and one piece getting in my car and leaving. More...

Click here to see Closet BB Cumdump's original blog post... I did have one more before I left town. After the fuckfest on Sunday night I felt horny on Monday morning. My ass was soooooo sore but I was in that gotta have it mood. So thanks again to looking4ewe on bbrt for turning me onto Scruff. I found a lot of good looking guys close by. I ended up hooking up with a guy. He had a FAT dick. I got down and blew him for a bit and he was ramming his dick in my throat. Then he decided it was time to fuck me. I saw immediately how fat his dick was. I decided the big guns were necessary so I pulled out the Maximum Impact and took a loooong hit. He slowly pushed in. My hole puckered to let him in and then after his head pushed through it clamped down on his dick and biting down on the facecloth I was getting high from I screamed in pain. Holy shit my ass was sore. He asked if I was ok and if I wanted him to stop. I told him I was ok and not to stop. So he sprayed more Max Impact on the cloth and stuck it back in my face and started going to town. I was in so much pain but I wanted his dick so I wasn't about to say I couldn't take it. I felt light headed and told myself to be a good pig and just take it. It took him forever but he finally came. HARD. Then he pulled out and told me I was bleeding pretty bad. I told him it was ok. Best part is he is from NYC and was visiting also so the next time I'm in the city he wants to fuck. Woohoooooo!!! I WANT COCK!!!!! More...

To see iBLASTinside's original blog post, click here... Posted in bicontactCraigslistMassagemuscleporn starSan FranciscoSan JoseSilicon ValleystraightStrippersTravel Diary Okay. All this traveling has my neck and back out of whack. I need a massage therapist. I’ll probably post something on Craigslist, which will net me the usual suspects. But you locals will know folks who are real and those who are good. Yes, I’d love those who give happy endings. Yes, it would be nice if they’re really hot, with a terrific body and they massage nude or at least shirtless. But neither is a requirement. What is a requirement is the ability to connect with another human being and get “in tune” with what’s going on. And they must be a massage therapist… a CMT (“certified massage therapist”) or LMT (“licensed massage therapist”) or at least well experienced. No hacks (“people tell me I’m really good”), escorts, porn stars or strippers (at least for this, although I don’t mind them for other fun… hint, hint!). I’ve had two really good massage therapists in my life. One was a hottie who would totally get me off at the end of every session (grape seed oil always makes me think of him). The other was a straight man who almost screamed like a little girl if I happened to get hard under the towel. Know one? Let me know. * * * Getting in touch with Mark is easy. Just visit the Contact page or check out the links on the top right of every page on this site… Related posts: Dark Passenger, The Return: How Should I Feel? Tonight I sit with a weird feeling creeping up my spine. I find myself reduced back to a boy, curled up in guilt and a little... Birthday Bash, Here I Cum! I'm about to head out to dinner (looks like a little Asian for me tonight) then I'm off to Swinging Richards. I know, mostly ... Travel Diary, Day #4: The Party that Wasn't I thought to improve my chances at a bareback lay required something a bit more creative. A party, surely, would attract a fe... More...

To see Billy Twee's original blog post click here My plans for New Year's Eve are almost always the same: a couple of drinks or more at various bars in the Castro, and taking my buzz with me to an annual fisting party in the Castro. I was a little ambivalent about New Year's Eve 2010 because I had enjoyed a rousing good and unexpected fuck from my Dr. Hook the day before, Friday, leaving me full of toxic semen and a sense of fulfillment. But then, on Saturday, the 31st, I got a call from the very same Dr. Hook who had planted his seed deep in my ass only the day before: was I ready for another load? Well, hell yeah! I immediately forgot about whatever I had been planning to do and got down serious about making myself ready. Dr. Hook's visits have to be short and sweet because he's on his lunch hour and he's about a 5 minute walk away, so that's 10 minutes right there, and it's a good thing he's a fast and furious dedicated top, because he makes every minute count. Saturday's fuck was a bit more stylized; I mean he likes to work his dick around at various angles and since it's a crank dick that practically turns with a 90 degree bend, I get an anal massage like none elsewhere. But when he shot his load deep in my butt like he always does, this time he just kept his dick in my hole for a longer time, like 5 minutes or so, moving it around slightly, but still keeping deep within. I'm crouched on my knees with my butt up and he's resting his full body weight on my back...he's a shorty, 5-5 maybe and a lean, very lean, muscular 130 lbs. or so...ideal. And of course, the whole time he's in there, I'm squeezing his dick with all I'm good for...needless to say he likes that a lot. After he left, it was hard to get up to go out, drinking and even fisting seemed like too much bother. I was one happy dude, and so I just went to bed early thinking about that rich poz load of cum marinating in its well. But it didn't end with that. On New Year's Day, I was at the gymn when I got a text message from Hook: how about another go? Ah...hell yeah. Three poz loads in three successive days, makes for a lot of recharging up...I'm ready for 2012, so let's hope 2012's ready for me. More...

Click here to see Life In The Raw's original blog post... I hit up a fuckbuddy of mine on BBRT, he told me that he had a top headed over to fuck his hole. I was turned on by that, when I hit him up later, he told me that his hole was filled with cum from this big dicked bottom guy, he asked me if I wanted to come over. I got to him and quickly as I could. He was naked and stroking himself when I got there, I went to kiss him, touched his hole and I was instantly hard. I slid my dick into his wrecked hole, it was the loosest and wettest that I have ever felt him, I rammed him hard and I kissed him. I flipped him over and nailed him hard, he was pulling for the pillows and I slam fucked his hole. I pinned him down and drilled him, cum flying out of his hole and frothing up on my dick. He cried out for more as I rammed his cunt, I fired off a huge load in his hole. I laid my sweaty body on top of his, he whispered... "Everytime you fuck me that rough, I get so hard" I left to get lunch, I then got a text from him that said "I just ate your cum from my hole, such a huge and sweet, creamy load" More...

To see iBLASTinside's original blog post, click here... Posted in barebackeventEvents Wanted to thank all the readers for helping this blog be as successful as it is… or sort of is. I’ve surpassed 400 entries so there’s plenty to read, from sex to opinion on sex. Related posts: A Top Mentor to a Young Top His request came bluntly*— the best kind in my opinion. He wanted me to teach him how to be a better bottom. At 21 years old ... Guest post: Cowboy Rides Me Bareback for My First Raw Fuck A Note from Mark:*Not too long ago, I got a note from a guy on Twitter. He informed me after some contemplation, he'd final... Northern California! There's Gold in Them Silicon Boards! This time will be different.I'm returning to Northern California this week.(There's no use linking to the Travel Diaries ... More...

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To see My Load Deep In You's original blog post click here I didn't waste anytime giving people New Year's loads. Got sucked off by a regular yesterday, and went to a party today. Bottom had a nice hole, but I didn't unload in him. He was sucking my cock as he was getting fucked, and I pulled out since I knew I was close. It was too late; I erupted on the carpet, and as I was shooting, so began the guy standing next to me who had the thickest cock I've ever seen. He fucked the bottom and pulled out so I could have a go, and he was wide open. I know it was from the girth, because the second time I slid in, an average cock had just slid out, and his hole was noticeably tighter. As an aside, this party had 20 people signed up to go, but only three showed. WTF? Why do guys flake like that? More...

To see iBLASTinside's original blog post, click here... Posted in adult bookstoreAnonymousAsianAtlantaattackbarebackbathhousebathroomBDSMbiblowjobcheatingcrushcumcuriousfuckgaygeekglory holegloryholehomophobiaLatinomarriedmuscleMusingporn starQuestion and AnswerRantreal feelingsSan FranciscoSilicon ValleystealthingstraightTravel DiaryTwitter 12. Porn Star Fuck… Surely 2012 is finally my year to get some porn star ass, don’t you think? Hint hint porn stars. You know who you are. And I know you read me. So offer it up to me. 11. Meet My Meat Looks like I’ll be doing my share of traveling in 2012, not just to Northern California. While I’m around, I want so make sure some of the people out there who read me (and who I read or follow) meet my meat. No particular number. Just a goal to make sure that I spread my DNA wide and far. 10. More Asian Invasions I love Asians. Well, let me be specific. I love fucking Asians. I want to fuck more Asians. My goal is to make that happen. More. A lot more. Here’s the thing… if I’m lucky, I could get resolution 12, 11 and 10 in one shot. But I doubt it. I only know one half-Asian porn star. But I’d fuck and breed him twice to make it count. 9. Shape It Up I’ve been doing good but I need to get started back at the gym. I will. More work to do. More muscles to gain. 8. Something Kinky I need to shock myself. If anyone can come up with something that will shock me (and in the process, turn me the fuck on), hit me up. 7. Tattoo Time I know, I promised myself last year. But the tattoo I want requires a good artist. Okay, not just a good artist. A great one. And someone with that talent isn’t just someone you find at the corner shot. You have to find the right one. I hope I find him or her this year. 6. Curb the Curmudgeon Perhaps a reader*has a point. I know there’s exceptions to every rule. Fuck, I know straight men take cock. I need to start believing more men. So maybe they will drive to meet me. Interestingly enough, I like to consider this part of myself a pragmatist and not a curmudgeon or pessimist. I’ve been told I was a pessimist, most recently by an 18-year-old who really, really was just curious to know my age. This Grindr cutie claimed he would still very much be interested in me, no matter my age. Of course, the oldest man he’d ever dated was two years my youth*— and a doctor. We’ll see if he follows through in the new year. Okay, so in curbing… I HOPE he follows through… 5. Roll on them Rollercoasters I have a passion for rollercoasters but the past few years has kept me away from amusement parks. Not this year. I’m hitting them and going for a ride. 4. Occupy the Obvious The Occupy moment had its moment and, at times, my support. Not always. As the movement said they were the 99 percent, I suggested that I was the 9 percent*— the 9 percent unemployed who simply couldn’t find a job. That story goes further. I could find the most basic work. Even Target or other hourly positions turned me down. I just wanted a chance. I finally got that chance and got a job. I got two job offers. However, one job offer came with stipulations. It came with a three-month trial to determine whether or not I was “compatible with the culture” in the company. With both companies, I’d been forth coming about my sexuality*— not in an obvious way, but inquiring about support of same-gender partner benefits. One answered my questions professionally and neutrally. The other —*well —*needed time to figure it out. Then questioned whether I would “fit with the corporate culture.” This was later in the process, so as not to look homophobic. But it didn’t fool me. Fuck fit. I didn’t occupy the job, especially when I left them know that I recognized their homophobia, no matter the subtly. I called them out on it. They*backpedaled*and tried to get me to take the job, but emotionally, I just knew I couldn’t commit myself there. Which leads me to my next resolution. 3. Punch Back Look, as much as we like to suggest, IT DOES NOT GET BETTER. We just learn to deal with the crap better. And after the last couple of years, with “FAG” carved into the side of my car, my shit stolen, bullied at work and eventually fired by a homophobic boss and the hatred I confront from the Gay community, I’m done being Mr. Passive. I’m punching first, asking for clarification later. 2. Mentoring a Man-Boy I have hoped for a while to find someone worthy of learning what I know. Occasionally I find someone who has promise and I begin speaking with him. But as with most of these young’uns, they fall off the planet when it means a little work. This includes the Seattle bottom who’s cheating on his boyfriend and learning to be a cum-loving slut, the Midwest Asian frat boy who thinks he’s not all that hot but he breaks all the molds with a big cock and the big-dicked black Florida Military boy who keeps skipping around on me like a fairy. If you’re worthy and will truly dedicated yourself without being a flake, hit me up: iblastinside@gmail.com. And include a fucking photo. 1. Connect Vague as it sounds, I know what it means. I have been sans a best bud, a wing man, a co-conspirator for a little more than a year now. I have good friends but when friendship is tested, few pass the test. I wouldn’t mind it if someone just starts out and we don’t test anything other than whether we can get a good drink on together and travel some. I’ve even had buds who have been straight and with whom I’ve never fucked. Used to go with one to pro hockey games, getting drunk before and after. 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