AlwaysOpen

I  am definitely in the no shit in the playground sector. Maybe it has something to do with coming of age in the early 70's when there was "old guard" rules and expectations of what a bottom was supposed to be, maybe it was just the smell and ick factor. But it imprinted on my sex play that my hole had to be spotless and ready, anything else was a lack of consideration towards the top.  Perhaps smell weighs  in a bit higher- and one of several reasons I do not care to rim either.  I recall one couple I played with, both fun, but the one had evidently worn his leather cock ring while hosing his hole out prior to me getting there, and every time I would start sucking his cock, all I could focus on was the smell of shit each time I got closer to the base of his cock. 

And I may have a different sensory function in my ass, but if my hole  is not as clean as I thought, and I am playing solo with a dildo, it is not a comfortable feel as it almost gives a sandy or gritty feeling. One last semi related train of thought- not sure about you guys, but I can hose out crystal clear water for hours and go deep with the longest test toy before play- but if the top pisses up my ass during play, or at the end as he wraps up play- it is almost like doing the prep for a colonoscopy - my hole- will cramp and within minutes the foulest muddiest mess is racing for a speedy exit. 

On 4/26/2024 at 3:15 AM, bareback-flipflop said:

I wish I lived in your neighbourhood 😜🥵

Heck, I just wish his technician showed up at my door. All I ever seem to have show up are older married guys who never show the slightest glimmer of needing to get off. From their general physical condition, I wonder if their glimmer burned out 10 years prior lol

Dildo on the ride seat has sort of been a fantasy of mine- except it would be in my ass and my ass on the back of a motorcycle with some hot leathered biker taking me for a long ride on every bumpy road he could find, with frequent rest stops for another fuck and the dildo pushed back in and then back on the bike and more vibration and bumps. 

So, from the OP, I am reading between the lines that the bartender in question is a racist, and does the tip up on racial groups he wants to feel superior to. FUCK HIM !! As a gay man, he should be overly sensitive to what discrimination is like, to practice it upon another gay man is shit, but also a reflection of his character.

You absolutely should approach the bar OWNER, and lay it out to him that you are not happy being treated like that in a business that is for the gay community and supposedly a safe place. Based then on the owners reaction, you can accept his reply, whatever it may be, and have to keep avoiding the bar on days that douche is working ( but why should you have to??) if he does nothing. If he fires the guy, then you can go whenever you want, but is this guy like the alpha bartender- or do the other guys hate him? If he was the alpha, I would stick to bottled beers for a while, and avoid the chance of half pour shots when buying a cocktail.  And if they all hated the guy ( he likely was not just a douche to certain customers; but to his co-workers as well)  you might be the hero of the month, with some even showing their appreciation with a free drink or an after the bar closes hook up lol

But no matter- let the owner know. If they call you the problem, then do you really want to support that business? If it means not going back to that bar, so be it. But spread the word to friends and fucks you know about what the deal is in that bar- 

YPB your English is perfectly fine- maybe even better than some who only speak English lol. I don't think you need to apologize for not producing 10 chapters a day- but definitely do keep writing and posting! Your story is erotic, and nothing worse than a story that starts hot and gets hotter- and then suddenly the writer stops creating leaving us all with half hard dicks hanging, waiting. 

I hate all the sub folders we create when in fact I assume we would be pretty open to fucking around with any man who interests us- or at least makes us take a few extra looks at them be it at the beach the mall or the doctors office. 

That said, in my head, ANY man who has settled into a more domestic life and has a spouse and/or rug rats , and devotes his energy and attention to his family is in the realm of a DILF. Age wise, they could be 21 or 61; but the concept that they are grounded and have responsibilities makes the man more alluring. Not that I wouldn't bend over for the 18 year old skateboarder who knows the latest video game but cannot figure out how to have any money in his pocket is a fuck, but not a particularly "attractive"  hook up, even if he is smoking sexy. 

Hey Miraclebox, and others- not sure about the links- may be when he went inactive the site disables links.BUTT- if you type his screen name into the search box and then when his profile cums up, click on the his activity tab, it will bring up 13 pages of results- skipping to page 12 or 13 will take you back to his earlier writings- Dr Mike is on page 12 of the search returns- but by going to the last return, 13, you can work back forward thru his woven storylines. 

And just for story authenticity- many of the settings he writes into his stories are actual Washington DC places. I cannot vouch for the basement bathroom at the library, but I have been to DC and know the Layfayette Square park is real and has many of the very types of guys he writes into his story. And out east by the Arboretum , there IS a seedy motel just as he describes. Not that I have actually gotten a room there, or wandered around the property- but it exists, trust me lol. 

Anyway- I hope for new guys, his writing will provide great stroking material, and for long time guys on here, a revisit to a good writer you may have lost track of. 

Another WhtHole4U story to reawaken this storyline from the early onset, with Dr Mike. Seems the links in the previous story I reposted to don't link, so if that happens to be the case, just type in WhtHole4U in the search box, then on the profile page click on all posts, and drop deep to like page 12 of the search and much of his beginning story plots are back there, circa 2012  or so

Hey guys- posting here to re up this story for all the new guys on here in 2024. Whthole4U is an amazing writer, and contributed heavily to the site up till 2016 or 17 , when a story got him timed out, and his pride and feelings built up an anger and resentment, and he left the site. BUT- the stories on here from him are def good for getting you hard and cum flying- so check out all of his  writings by searching his name in the search box,upper right of the forum. There is one with an index of the Dr Mike series , with links, that is probably the wisest starting point

Not to take money away from your local gay sex shop, but I am finding more and more Amazon has some pretty amazing prices on dildo's, especially the extra large to huge ones. The search word I have found that "usually" gets the best return on Amazon is  - "huge dildo anal"  Just a heads up- there are some on there still that are PVC, versus silicon, so def be sure to read thru the description. If you are working on depth, there is a 17.5 inch dildo by FOSSETTE they sell that is ranked #97 ( as of Feb 2024) in the Amazon dildo reviews. Great suction base, the head taper and the material make working all the way up to and thru the 3rd ring possible. I bought it to replace a Dick Rambone dildo that had just gotten too old, and was getting too hard material wise to be safe to use, and I really have fallen in love with it. Oh, and at the current price of $39 USD , it is cheaper than an evening out at the bar, and is always up for play! 

Hey Rick, not sure if you have seen any of the Ft Lauderdale  related posts on various topics. Ramrod clamped down on all play in the bar several months ago,tho word is some action is being overlooked after the night gets closer to midnight. But, that is likely dependent on the day of the week, the  mood of the staff, or insider tips the owners have been alerted to. 

The 3 sex venues you may recall, 321, The Club, and ClubHouse II are all still in business. A new place called Wilton Social has opened and seems to be some sort of a hybrid /cross between 321 and ClubHouse II. If you recall ( or ever saw) the Lowes on Oakland Park Blvd, it is near there.

Our winter has not been typical, so you may need to pack a few warm clothes- while not sub zero like the rest of the country, we have been in the low 60's overnight and not out of the low 70's several times, and the clouds seem to have taken up permanent residence. Ahh, El Nino! 

SFGN, the local weekly gay paper when you were here last has now become OUTSFL, you might do the old Google search and read up on what is happening there for more , current info

A friend went there for a special theme night play event and thanks to some Fellow Friends he had an OK time. He did tell me there were some flyers up about a late late night party supposedly from 4 a.m. till 10 a.m.  on the weekend when the place is open 24 hours. Maybe for the after bar crowd, or those who cannot get to sleep.... or something. Def curious what others have to say ( I suspect  what  gets posted on the Sniffies app for that location are being owner or employee generated, but again, who knows for sure )

23 hours ago, fieldofbeing said:

Not sure where this story is coming from, I've never written anything like this before... anyway, seem to be on a roll with it now!

 

Fuck, don't worry where this is coming from, just keep it cumming and coming on! Great writing and very good storyline! ( And I am perpetually jealous of everyone who can write these stories so well, and/or strike gold with service/repairmen.  I just had to have a plumber fix a few things, and there was zero signs of interest from him, even tho one of the repairs was in the bathroom next to my sling!)

I would never have guessed this was the first time for you writing  here-  this is already off to a great start and nothing about it needs to be changed- I am already eagerly anticipating the next chapter(s)

Well guys, for what it's worth- I honestly do not care if the guy fists me with gloves on or not. I am just thankful someone is fisting me. Now, that said, a bare hand does not worry me in the least... UNLESS the guy is a tradesman or works in an industry where his hands are calloused, rough and have jagged little bits of  cuts and scrapes with dried out skin bits. I do not want my hole being rubbed raw or getting tears and cuts  that might stop the play or prevent play for a few days while the damaged hole heals. Another time I would almost prefer the top wear gloves is when he leaves a bracelet on the arm he is using to fist me. Again, for pretty much the same reason as mentioned, I don't want his jewelry involved; or him suddenly realizing he is able to get in deeper but has to stop and wash up so he can remove the item. If a glove was on that hand, I could help work the glove up and over it and the risk of the bracelet tearing my hole, or breaking and dropping into the hole un noticed  is not going to be on my mind when I need to be focused on relaxing and opening for him. 

I have always been a bottom, so it wasn't until the last 10 years or so I have broken my "cherry" and been versatile at fisting. But I am not thrilled at the smell of shit, and definitely not aroused by someone else's giving my hand a mud pack, so when I do fist someone, I prefer to wear gloves "just in case" things are not really as well prepped as the other guy thought. I can quickly invert the dirty glove  off and knot the cuff end to reduce the smell, and after he touches up, and is OK, get back into the scene.

Ho! Hoe! Hole!

Another reason a lot of the dark rooms are gone is we spoiled things. Too many guys would head to a bar with a dark or play area  and slide around the bar like they were in need of the toilet, and then never even buy a fukkin cheap ass bottle of water- instead bolting  straight to the dark area and setting up camp like they were the featured show for the night.  Just a purchase or two by everyone might have made bar owners more tolerant of the daily mess they had to clean up from those areas, and the paltry take in the cash register at the end of the night. 

The pandemic killed many too, not just the dark area, but the entire bar. There used to be a spectacular one in Miami, small, a bit run down in slowly gentrifying area. Good music and reasonable beer or soda prices ( no hard liquor) . And an outdoor area out the back door of the main bar with no lights, no limitations. When all the bars were forced to close in the early days of Covid tho, this place didn't have the cash reserves to meet Miami rent prices and never reopened as things loosened up. But even this place, as much of a jewel as it was- suffered from guys who would show up 10 minutes before the cover charge began, would stay out in back all night chasing cock or hole, and never stop and buy another drink ( the door and the bar were in a line, so the bartender could nab each new person for at least A drink sale , but really- too many took advantage of the place. 

(Jamboree, I still wish you would be like the phoenix and rise from the ashes , and recreate-reopen a bar somewhere in the area)

Man, I hope you made it over to LABoratory a few times too.  It is almost like a Gay Disney land with all sorts of exciting things happening lol

When I posted the previous msg I was on the laptop and could not pull up the picture of the clamps, with some luck it will be on this post

I have been using clamps for a long time on mine , in addition to SupplNips and tit cylinders /vacuum pumping. But a few years ago, I came across Tarp Shark tarp clamps, a pack of 4 were $10 back then, and neither Lowes or Home Depot carry them. I have since found them on Amazon, now a pack of 4, as of todays pricing, is $7.79 and they are now described as ProGrip907040 Shark Clip with Screw. These will grab and hold onto your tit, even during some messier/sloppier play. They have the adjustable jaws to clamp down on your tit or any other body part (foreskin, earlobe, ball sack) and at the opposite end the clamp has a built in hole designed to run a rope thru. I have adapted a couple of 10 oz fishing weights with  S Hooks to hang from them, adding to the stretch and tugging with each move. As they settle in on where ever you have put them, a quarter turn of the thumb screw every 5 or 10 minutes will close them down tighter,but not to the point of unbearable  pain. The best part is after using them and then removing, the nipple skin is not torn or broken, so going back to tit torture after a little break  is doable. 

A follow up to my post above. I lost track of the guy in 2019- no idea if he moved, got married, arrested or died. And in the course of the beginning of 2019, I got a new phone and while most of the phone numbers and contacts transferred, his did not- as I realized mid summer. And then, of course, 2020 and the whole lock down happened, one casualty of the lock down was the little gay bar with the playful patio never reopened, further blocking any hope of bumping into him there again. But damn, his embracing of watersports, and the shape and size of his cock, were absolutely the ideal piss delivery device I have encountered. 

( And hey, on the outside chance you are reading this F , I'd love to share a 12 pack with you. And with any luck, one of your clients will have tipped you the same way he did the last time we connected. )

Damn, just stumbled across this old post- and it made me nostalgic for the better days in Toronto when the ToolBox was still functioning (and Muthers Guesthouse upstairs) and during the " warmer" weather one Saturday a month Ernie would host a wet party out on the patio  with all the beer soda or water you wanted  for 4 hours, followed by a really good buffet to end the play. Even when it wasn't the piss party, the back patio did have a bathtub ( or two??)  in the back corners of the space, and on several visits I was grateful to be staying upstairs and not having to use a taxi or bus to get back to the Gay Village reeking of piss, not to mention being soaking wet lol

On 11/5/2023 at 8:20 PM, Raunchyfag said:

There's even CBD suppositories. 

I can vouch for the CBD suppositories relaxing and helping open , prolong hole play time. I have seen a gay sex based company advertise them for about $15 each, however if you embrace dear Google, and type in 100 mg CBD suppository, you will get results. I get mine from Pacific Roots, at $6 per suppository. Quick shipping, never have had an issue in the several orders I have placed- and every so often there are sales, so you can score them for about $5 per suppository. 

Just be sure before using one you have really done a good job of douching out. Nothing worse than thinking the hole is clear and ready, testing it with a toy and some water based lube ( so you don't grease the anal lining before the CBD gets in there) and believe all is good, so you shove the CBD in and 3 minutes later you discover you were still holding water or crap up thee, and out flushes a partially melted CBD suppository !

I am going to be a bit of an opposite here I guess. 

To: Younger me- You have a wealth and value you may not even see today. Don't give away your body time and time again to people who do not care the least bit about you. If they won't give a name, a number, invite you to do non sexual things with them, or want to meet for lunch or to just catch a movie, don't give in to your sexual cravings and their sexual pressure. They are only there for the sex, they will never be a friend or available to help you, no matter how often they may have hit you up for , and expected you to be ready for, sex now. As you get older, you will discover , on reflection, how many of the sex hook ups were only because you had a place, had the poppers, and were essentially a free bathhouse for the married, partnered or closeted guys who would reach out to you. Once they cum, they will be out the door, and you will have the mess to clean up, the  supplies used your expense to replenish- be it water or snacks or lube or something else. Older you can tell younger you- there will be a few good men in the mix, and smoking hot sex will be a part of your connection to them initially, but the real foundation and value of your life will be doing things with that man or men, to build solid memories, and deep friendships. Some may not last, but the few that do will stay in your head long after the carnal sweat of countless others has evaporated from your brain cells.

Time to send this story back up to the surface, for all the guys who have joined since whtHole4U  first wrote this epic!