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Thank you for a really hot, erotic storyline and for taking us from start to finish. Too many guys begin to write a story, get us hooked on the action- and then leave, leaving us half hard and waiting. I applaud you for giving us that final orgasm !

Hey Billy88666- thanks for the kind words. I am technically prostate cancer" free" as of the Jan and April labs, tho monitoring will always need to be done. As for speaking up- gay men used to have a saying at the darkest point of the AIDS crisis [Silence = Death] I was like a TV tele evangelist after my diagnosis talking openly and frankly to the guys I hang out with for coffee or in other forums. As a result, the husband of one man approached me and asked me to talk with his husband, who had just gotten diagnosed. Another man came up a couple months into my journey and began asking questions , he had just failed a PSA test. I believe all people can share and educate each other in so many aspects of living, and in our sharing we not only help, but also grow . as for men getting checked- for fucks sake guys- DO IT! At least once a year after you get past 45 . Keep a log year to year of the PSA number and IF you suddenly see a jump, but it is still below 4, realize riding a bike, or a hard cock, or dildo(s) ( or any other anal insertable item ) or jacking off or even a workout at the gym the day or two before the blood draw can elevate your PSA without it being due to cancer cells. Now for the sad/bad news- the one bright spot for all of us bottoms and a prostate exam- the " physicians handshake" , or the doc digging his finger up your ass for a rub on the prostate, is a fading method of diagnosis. Most docs try to get it over with quickly to spare the man embarrassment or " distress" and can easily miss even a raised bump if they don't happen to press on the spot. PSA test and a follow up MRI if anything seems out of the norm is the newer standard of investigation.

I was introduced to pumping ( cock_later cock and balls, and nipples_) way back in the late 1980's. From my initial experience, through the years since, I can tell you newbie pump sessions can and will cause skin blisters if you pull too much vacuum, or hold it for too long ( and in the first few times you will have tender skin that has never been pumped, and you can blister easily. There is nothing worse than getting a blister on the head of your cock from pumping- not only will it knock sex out of the question until the blister breaks on it own and the very tender skin underneath gets a chance to "firm" up and heal. In that same line of thought- I would never try to pump the ass lips. IF you have any sort of hemorrhoid or weakened skin, you run the risk as you pump the lips into the vacuum tube of ballooning the hemorrhoid vein or drawing up a blister on the rectal lining of the lips. NOT a place you want an open wound as who knows what is crapped out your hole during healing. And yes, you can certainly irritate a "roid or cause friction to the anal lining and rub a raw spot with fingers and toys- but doing it under vacuum pressure can amplify the problem- and since often some sensation is dulled by the pressure where the vacuum tube is making the seal with the skin, you can do harm even when you think you are fine.

Hey all- this is an older topic, and I may have even replied to it at some point ages ago. Times change tho- so if you can indulge me - read on. I was a pig/slut/open manhole/etc from age 15 on up to about 18 months ago. Or, about for about 52 years. I explored some S&M, Dom/sub, "Master"/slave, and lots of random, one and done play. Even had a semi stable relationship for 19 years with a great man. But about 18 months ago I failed my PSA test, for the 1st time. After educating myself as much as possible and learning the various options, I wanted to do nothing and just monitor the PSA level, and a wiser radiation oncologist agreed, as long as I did 2 more things. Some of the biopsy material went off for RNA testing, and I went off for a PSMA Pet scan. Luckily, there was no signs of and metastatic spread in my body, and unfortunately the RNA sample indicated I was at the top most range for the sample to metasticise throughout my body if not arrested quickly. I had to have immediate treatment , waiting was not an option. The beginning of the long treatment began Sept 1 with me taking a one a day pill that would essentially "castrate" me- no testosterone being produced meant the cancer cells had no food to divide and spread new cells. At day 20, I saw my urologist who injected a product called Trellstar- a 3 month dose of injectable testosterone inhibitor (TIP, in case I need to refer to it again) I was able to get erect and had "dry orgasms " - no cum but def the sensation, for another 10 days or so, and then as my nuts basically stopped working, not only did I lose all sex urges and libido, but my muscle tone went to shit, my metabolism was off and I began having a gut ( I have never had one up to now) On top of all that "joy" fatigue was a regular event, and like a menopausal woman, hot flashes struck over and over for no apparent reason- other than the TIP and the fact I did not have any testosterone in my system. The 28 days of radiation were not bad- other than having to drink 28 ounces of water and hour ahead of the 4 minute treatment ( and if you have prostate issues, let me tell you, holding any amount of liquid can be a challenge, holding that much water was a real " water torture" OK- so the history is behind- the point is this- you might think in your kink head being castrated or Nullo is exciting - but the sex drive and urges you have today driving that thinking will be totally gone should you actually follow thru with it. And even tho all traces of the TIP should have ended in my system about 3 months ago, since I was getting it 90 days apart, I still do not have the urge- or arousal back, tho my testosterone has at least gone from less than 3 to 34- still a far cry from the 790 range it used to be. I would never want to tell you what to do or not do, but from where I have been recently- no T is not the way to go if you want to still have a sex life- even in a slave role- you have to have some arousal or it becomes a major roadblock. And if you have read this far, and IF you are also about to enter the world of prostate cancer patient- feel free to msg me privately- there is an EXCELLENT YT channel that is in layman's terms and covers just about any topic regarding PC and options.

I love reading porn that is from my hometown. Now every time I am on the Drive in Wilton Manors or hanging out at Starbucks or other coffee shops, I am going to be curious who is a part of this family lol

To the original question regarding people voting for tRump again after his 1st run through the White House. History is a great place for learning, and can predict future behavior. Travel back to Germany in the early 1930's, and how a guy named Adolph, who had already tried politics and got the boot, came back espousing hatred for a group of people , blaming them for every issue the general population was experiencing. He demonized a segment of the population, and the rest of the population either stood silent , perhaps out of fear of his retribution, or eagerly jumped in behind him. Back then, it was the Jewish, the intellectuals , gays, gypsies. They were the problem, they were all thieves and less than humans. Fast forward to today, and the same demonization of people of brown skin coming into this country labels all of them as drug dealers and murderers. In the 1930's that guy Adolph promised a new Germania, of pure genetic Germans, wealth and power. And he had his brown shirts and SS to intimidate, coerce, and violate human rights and dignity. Todays version, we have ICE agents who seize not the " worst of the worst" but the people who fled here and were trying to make a living. But the SS, err, ICE agents, were not enough, so under direct pressure, now damned near every state police, county sheriff, or local police department has become modern day brown shirts violating rights and the rule of law in order to appease a leader who demands total subservience and punishes anyone or any organization that does not do as he says- even when it is illegal. This dude Adolph didn't like people reading newspapers or books, so he burned the books and shut down the presses, allowing only his own brand of journalism to be printed. Senor TACO has been doing the same thing for ten years or more, casting doubt about media being fake, suing networks for hundreds of millions and threatening their license to operate, while at the same time embracing alleged truth social media platforms run by his order, or television media who willingly broadcast what he wants, even as behind the camera they acknowledge it is a crock of shit. We should all know what Hitler attempted, seizing country after country in the war for Germany, and stripping the assets of those countries to support himself and his empire. In todays version, we have someone who greedily takes ownership of bodies of water as his own, intimidates neighboring countries with threats of take overs, and even challenges distant countries to surrender their provinces to him. And all the whole, he attempts to cause worldwide instability and financial destruction with unprecedented threats to their industry and commerce. And just as the Reichstag stood by and let things go absolutely out of control, of THEIR control, the US Congress and Senate members, who should be railing against the unchecked craziness, instead are sucking up to the dictator wanna be, hoping to save themselves from any personal attacks from the White House, while letting the balance of power fall away. I hope we never move to the next step Adolph took, the " ultimate solution", but if history is any sort of prediction of what may come next....

Well, after the year I have had, I should meet your doc. I began getting fucked more than half a century ago and have been a bottom the whole time. The 70's in NYC, and countless ( well, OK, at least 10,000 ) men since, some repeats but many one shot wonders. And I failed the PSA test last year, doubling from a 3.8 the prior years test. And the ordeal began. MRI, needle biopsy, cancer diagnosis, lots of internet reading ( I do have a great source for reliable, accurate and UNBIASED prostate cancer info, but reach out and ask me privately) . Meeting with a radiology oncologist, and ultimately settling on a course of action that unfortunately required a period of testosterone suppression/ blocking as well as radiation treatments ( 28) . I gave up saliva for DNA research testing- and while I tested negative for the BRCA1 and BRCA2 gene, which predispose a prostate cancer risk, damned if I didn't have it anyway. Here is one thing as to the original post- after getting fucked, your prostate has ( hopefully) had a lot of pounding and stimulation, and like any part of your body, it responds to that, and will be slightly swollen and puffy for a bit And that can contribute to an issue pissing, since the urethra runs right thru the core of the prostate. FYI, bike riding can also cause similar issues, since the urethra and prostate are getting squeezed and impacted by the bike seat and bumps. Anyone getting a PSA test should refrain from sex and strenuous exercise, including bike riding- even stationary bikes in the gym, for 2 or 3 days prior to the exam. If you are having issues pissing even when not active, then you should see a urologist. And while you might be on the receiving end of the " physicians handshake" ( digital rectal exam) that practice is fading from modern practice as PSA test results are much better at identifying actual tumor activity. BTW- Cialis was originally created to treat frequent urination and bladder urge- until they discovered in trials how much better it was at giving men a boost getting erections- and while a lot of guys develop leakage and frequency issues, the bigger bucks were in the boner business. Most insurance will not pay for Cialis, until you have tried Tamsulosin, and when that fails, Finesteride ( both of which have a side effect of killing libido!) If you can get your doc to write a 90 script for 5mg once a day dosing, and use something like GoodRx and pay out of pocket, you can usually get 3 months worth for roughly $30.

Search back through the many great stories WhtHole contributed to this site back around the date of the original posting of the Bad Santa story. When he wrote, many of his stories intertwined and fed into other stories, I know some of his thug stories were centered on a trap house or similar set up. Since this hit Dec 2015 , I think, he may have extended the next adventure early 2016 with these 3 characters.

Well guys, as a 60+ man, I can tell you the urinary incontinence is a real pain. Mine came about with a failed prostate exam a year ago. After biopsies, the frequency and urgency got worse, and then post fiducial pellets jammed into the prostate and 6 weeks of radiation, I spend about 2 hours of the beginning of the night in a decent sleep, to be awakened by a sudden need to piss. And about a shot glass of piss comes out. Back to bed and toss and turn another hour or 90 minutes and back to the bathroom. This goes on all night. I have been doing meds for the issue, but they are not touching it. And just recently, I was prescribed a recently released drug for overactive bladder ( the urologist feels this is the issue- and a "temp" result of the radiation nearby on the prostate . A 90 day supply of the new drug is $1730 , luckily I have passed the point of having to pay for any meds in 2024. And, I am 10 days into the new drug and still getting up all night long. I have to wear male maxi pads when going out to anyplace in public, since a cough or bending to pick up something can release another shot glass size ooze of piss. That night time bathroom routine has also forced me to wear underwear to bed ( I have slept in the nude ever since my college days, so not a fan of not being naked in bed) The urgency has mostly been manageable at night, however the never empty urethra is an issue. I can sit in there for 5 minutes, with the feeling of being drained, only to have another spurt erupt as I begin to stand up. And the motion of sliding back in bed often sends a small piss pulse out,. So now, at least for the time being, I have to wear underwear with a piss pad 24 /7 . I understand fetishes, and I have done some that tricks and friends have just looked at me with a stunned look. But guys, I am experiencing what you fantasize about, and I can tell you from this side of the fence it is not what you envision it to be.

Just a casual thought- unless you are a very social butterfly, or already have a solid circle of friends where you might retire to- you might want to reconsider picking up and relocating. A vacation here or there for a week may be better suited once you have stopped working, versus a move. You already ought to have your favorite places to eat, shop, play , doctors and friends where you are currently. You know your way around, and know the culture. When you just abandon your established ties at any age is a challenge, but the younger you are the easier it is to hangout and make a whole new circle of contacts. Hanging out at a club and/or party till 4 AM is a LOT easier when you are 40, versus 65. And as much as gay men like to believe they are sensitive and open-minded, lets be honest- the pulse and focus is directed at the younger market in general. Are you in perfect health? Can you find reliable doctors who can get up to speed on you and your body, and any issues you have dealt with for 40 years? What perils and risks exist where you think you want to move {hint- real estate agents will not be bragging about mud slides, wildfire dangers, tornado risk, hurricanes or flooding as they show you around. And they might not be too upfront about infrastructure issues you never thought to ask about- like are the water pipes in the city lead based, or is there a huge issue with cast iron pipes decaying in the area, is the city you are looking to live in in fiscal distress and behind on essential services upkeep?) And remember something else- just because a place is a gay mecca today, and you would be walking distance to the popular bar{s} and coffee shops, in 5 years that might not be the case anymore- either the economy killed them; or the boys all moved to the next town away; cashing in for a huge profit on their property where you just settled in, scooping up depressed houses for next to nothing in the new hot spot and doing what we do best- breathing new life into a dead area. And as has been pointed out- what you think the cost of living will be may not even be close to reality. If you moved to Ft Lauderdale for example, in 2000, you could buy a decent house for a little over $100,000 and taxes would have been $700 or so. Now, quadruple that. And that doesn't touch on what others have pointed out- insurance rates have broken a lot of peoples bank accounts- to the point many are having to dump and run. This is not just a FL issue either- but every part of the globe has it's inherent surprise costs. And ,on a sad but realistic point- if you and a partner move here , and in a year the partner dies- do you think there is going to be the support in the new location that you may have had established in the old place?

Sure hope we start getting some more details of what else came of this weekend- we are just in the early hours of Saturday so far !

Sadly WhtHole encountered an issue on here with a chapter of one of his stories, and left the site some years ago angry and hurt. BUT most of the stories- he did write he did finish- actually most had an intertwined thread to the other stories or at least a character from other stories in them. If you search his profile name ( case sensitive) his writings go way back to like 2010 or so, and there were many stories he wrote for us.

Hey men- I failed 2 PSA tests earlier this year- not massive numbers- 7.8 and the one the urologist ran 3 months later was 7.02 , but when the urologist did the "doctors handshake" and felt the prostate, and based on the PSA going from mid 3's last year to 7, twice, this year, I was sent for an MRI, which indicated an ill defined lesion and a shadow. Within a couple weeks I was being seen by a surgical oncologist and 13 biopsy needles were drawn . Out of the 13, 5 had activity. (Gleason 3+4=7 for those who understand ) When I met with him for the results, he gave me the big C diagnosis, and advised me he could remove the prostate and the problem would be gone. I walked out numb, and very dumb about prostate issues. IF ANY OF YOU are newly diagnosed, I can whole heatedly recommend ONE YouTube channel- Dr Mark Scholz . This man and his partner discuss all things prostate in a very humble, straightforward and plain speak way. I even bought his book on Amazon ( used) When I had more info to work with, I decided surgery was the least favorable path, and met with a radiology oncologist, who not only was patient, but also understood I had done my homework and was able to speak about what he felt needed to be done based on my understanding the various methods. The "prostate grabber" surgeon was all about jumping in and cutting, no other pre planning. The radiation doc sent one of my biopsy samples out for mRNA testing, which came back at the top of the scale for probability of spread elsewhere. A psma PET scan of my body was next, to see if there were tumors elsewhere (thankfully, none) Now that we know what is, and is not going on, a plan is in place to treat this, and hopefully it will be gentle on my prostate and deadly to the cancer within, giving me a little hope for a sex life in a few months.

I tend to think of height /cock more along weight/cock. From the memory files of the men I have been able to do research on over the last 52 years, IF they were heavy to obese, without fail there was very little cock for supper. But the guys who were more on the lean muscle/tight abs quite often were above statistical average cock wise. Along the same process of examinations, I also have felt like taller guys seemed to be more on the average size, and short (not overweight) men showed more soft, and often hard. In my anal-litic mind, I figure it is like the concept of the old Contadina canned tomato ads of the 60's, where the guy was pounding 10 great tomatoes in an 8 tomato can. Taller or heavier guys have more cavity space for their internal organs, and so less gets squeezed out, as in long and pendulous cockmeat. The shorter, or especially tight and toned guys, are more compact but with just as many feet of intestine and organs to pack, and so the crowding is relieved a bit by extending the cock structure further out of the body. No matter how illogical this seems, it has always been my expectation of what will spring forth when I am hooking up with a stranger. Sometimes my hypothesis holds true and is validated. ( and other times, as long as the cock exceeds my hopes, who cares lol)

Not to beat this topic to keyboard dust, but if it is really a secret, how would the people you are trying to reach out to know,? You say you and your wife will know, but don't you already each know the others desires? So you still will have to do some sort of reaching out and expressing your interest, and maybe at some point explain what that tattoo means. So then he tells a few of his friends, and one of them who is DL goes home and mentions it to her.She posts it to her social media account in rage or shock or bemusement, but in a week, there is no secret left.