Thanks for the reply's...but I have to assume that most people who "care" about not being infected probably don't say anything, I think reporting is very rare. I mean all the shit I see on CL, BBRT, etc none of these guys seem to care (who claim they are neg) so I find it odd they would complain after the fact. I say keep all E-Mails, texts, etc, just in case. I can understand if you are poz and don't tell someone to a certain degree but if two consenting adults are honest with each other and both parties know what they are getting themselves into, I don't see how someone could still be prosecuted after disclosing their poz status and having proof to back it up.
I would think it's much more the exception rather than the rule (with regards to people whining to the police.) BTW...I'm in Virginia, where would I find the laws at? I've searched Google but come up with the usual (nothing you can trust.)