I agree with you completely. When I bottom, I like to know that my top is serviced to his full pleasure. A condom gets in the way of that and lessens the orgasm that I can feel in my ass as he unloads in me. At the bathhouse, tops are addicted to already wet ass and I can take a few loads from several tops making it better for my own pleasure as I hold off cumming myself until I feel I've satisfied enough tops for the night. When I top, BB is best because I can feel my trick's ass muscles more fully, I can tell he is enjoying the ride as much as me and I can better feel him milking my cock to unload. I never pull out and expect tops to push in when they cum in me.