So I'm 22, in-shape, active, healthy, a uni student, pretty happy and unstressed in life right now.
In the past getting an erection was never a problem, in fact it was the opposite, I was always hard, I'd stay hard after sex for ages, if anything I was too hard...
Suddenly in December I lost my erection mid way through sex, I was pretty freaked out as it had never happened before and I was pretty embarrassed.
Same thing happened in February, again, embarrased.
Mentioned it to my doctor who said I was probably just stressed
In March I was fine, managed to stay hard the entire time and thought, phew, must have been a phase, then in April again happened again, then it didn't, then it did.
I can get hard when jerking fine, and I get hard during foreplay, rock hard, but then guaranteed after a few minutes of topping it goes completely soft.
I've been having sex for years with absolutely no problems whatsoever so I'm at a complete loss as to where this has come from - condoms make no difference.
Another thing I've noticed is that occasionally when i'm jerking I cum suddenly with no orgasm, cum just oozes out with no force, no pleasure, and then I go soft - could this be related?
I only jerk a few times a week, which is the same amount as always, maybe a bit less even.
Open to any suggestions and help here guys. Really want to get back to power topping asap.
