peterdavidson1973

On 2/21/2020 at 4:01 PM, concerned1 said:

Are we living in a post-condom age now?

I live in the UK and I hook up with guys for fun very often. Almost every single week. At the very, very least I'll have fun with one guy in a week and it's usually more. And 9 out of 10 will do BB, without even having a discussion about it first. In fact I would say it has been 10 out of 10 doing BB until very recently when a guy I hooked up with insisted on me wearing a condom ... and that was the first time I had ever had anyone even mention "safer sex" to me in many months if not a couple of years. I would definitely say most gay/bi guys in the UK now are doing BB as routine sex, very few are using condoms anymore.

If I meet up with a guy from Grindr, in a bar, in a sex club or in a sauna (bathhouse), I know that I am almost guaranteed to be fucking him BB before we actually start fucking. Most times there is not even any discussion about it.... I don't even need to ask, I just turn them around and stick my cock inside their ass BB and this is how it is with me almost EVERY SINGLE TIME.

How is it elsewhere? I know this is an American site and that most members of this website are from the States, so I want to know how is it for you guys over there? Are most gay/bi guys now back to fucking raw as was the case before HIV started making itself known in the early 1980s? Or do lots of guys over there still use condoms?

I had a holiday relatively recently in Berlin, Germany and I went to a sauna and fucked quite a few guys also NONE of whom asked me to wear a condom.

Are gay men the world over in a post-condom age?

 

Using Grindr The area where i stay is a such a waste of time because far to many guys behind the profiles are blatent time wasters , Pic collectors and simply want to know who you are and surreal fantasists  . It has got to the point i have blocked more guys than i have met . Hardly a soul is ever interested in Casual Sex  .  Fabguys  is the only site i have had more success on even at that it also has it's fair share pretenders . 

And BBRTS  is just as awful you could post a qik connect add and never get a reply If i do the message arrives a day later

Because i much prefer sex without having to stop to put on a condom . But trying to hook up with guys for bb is another thing hardly anyone meets ..

I recently got banned from Grindr  unsure why but in general the guys around me wouldn't meet only interested in what you looked like . Too many were only interested in dates whilst others pretended  looking when all they were was just down right liars and timewasters .  bbrts  is just awful .. been on it for like 5yrs .. only met 2 guys .  I've had more success on fab .  But recently not getting any luck just having my time wasted .

Might start going to a local sauna

Curiousity .. more than anything

Never done darkroom before . Don't know the decorum of how do i know a guy ether wants to fuck me or vice versa

At the present i use 3 sites and the success of regular BB meets is frankly a massive let down .To many timewasters pic collectors etc not enough guys who like NSA  encounters . Prefer dates n drinks  to Sex . What on earth has happend to the Gay scene

I recently hook up with a Bttm player the other week . He never tried or gone  top before as he is BI a local guy who stays not far from me .  As he was lying on the  bed so made the move  to straddle him  his expression said it all . He loved it . He enjoyed it that much  moved to laying face down for him to fuck me  . Then i  returned the favour not long after ,  .

like to hook up i can accom and travel if need be

Not enough , Am finding it rather hard to find guys online who want to fuck BB , unfortunately most of the online cruise sites are filled with guys looking for dates , timewasters  / pic collectors - nosey guys who have no intention of meeting just want to collect pics etc

They are making it more harder for free users of the site by limiting you're access even more . TBH the rewards overall  is dreadful .  I've been on that site for a wee while and have only ever met one guy from it ..

I Haven't taken a load since October

She is so full of crap it's unreal BS

Where is the best place in Edinburgh to hook up for BB  [ Sauna Wise ]

My first BB experience was with a TS Escort  from Brazil was a late night encounter  it was a fantastic experience . I fucked her bare and came inside her . She fucked me but she never came inside me .

Then as time went by i delved into the gay scene purely to feed my addiction for sex . Met 2  guys through a gay site  both fucked me bare but never came inside me . Went on holiday met 2 local guys both topped me and gave me what i always wanted , to experience the feel of it 

Many sites are a haven for endless timewasters and pic collectors . Many are a waste of a membership fee

I presently use 3 known websites and one app Grinder.

I actually thought it would be easier said than done  getting regular bb sex with guys .. but to my amazement I have encountered nothing but  time wasters pic collectors and liars .

And when i see profiles that have BB listed on a known site . majority aren't willing to BB or just never reply . on a whole it's very fustrating

Any BB  top looking to fill me

I recently joined a gay site in hoping to meet with guys who do BB and there is good few on the site in and around Glasgow  but trying to get any hook up's sorted is fast becoming a joke on that site  . Maybe if i stayed down in England somewhere i might get more success lol.

Would just like to experience what it feel's like to have a guy cum inside me ..  

Anyone here from Glasgow looking to meet up  

??? Looking to hook up

If you can accomodate i'll take your load