find91

Foot fisted as a top. Seems more like a fisting bottoms bucket list thing than actually being pleasurable. Also have to get in the right position or very uncomfortable

6 hours ago, GoingEasy said:

Dr. Scorpio, I'll disagree with you here. Back when I was in graduate school, ( yes before the earth was completely cool). There was this incredibly handsome tall blonde, chiseled, porn star hot colleague of ours , ( he like 50% of us was gay),  and he dated only men over 70. And maybe the rest of us weren't 'hot guys" , but we were in our 20's. When you are in your 20's  you  are a defacto hot guy.

My point:  We were in awe  of him, and even met one of his 70 y/o fuckbuds ( who held a dinner in our honor in his home), and we never thought less of him, because of his preference in  much older men.

Sadly this view is not common in the LGBTQX community. They are extremely shallow. 

Glad you were not judgmental

2 hours ago, mikeboi1 said:

I have no race preference, as a total submissive bottom i have been fucked by Asians, but never been by a black male, I admit I fear his big cock and he will stretch me but I would love to be dominated and fucked by black men. My desire is bigger men and stronger then me making. Men who like smaller bottoms as a bottom I like bigger men then me and use and dominate me.

Just a word of experience. It takes a lot to stretch a hole out beyond repair. The colon naturally wants to tighten. So taking big dick won't do that unless it's literally fucking you everyday. So no need to fear big cock hehe  

1 hour ago, neg4charged said:

I know what you meant, and I agree 100%.  I had a lot more to say on the matter and stepped back because it felt like appropriation.  better to model positive behavior. 

the kind of crap your talking about is racism in its purist form - and people think that fabricating a power imbalance for the purposes of gratifying their fantasy is the same thing as respecting someone of a different color.  It's not the same thing at all.  

Thank you

It's not really a second sphincter but the sigmoid bend. Very difficult to navigate without hitting the walls causing pain, but once straighten out feels amazing for both top and bottom. 

I've opened it up for enough bottoms. Some get an intense feeling they need to piss, just let go 

15 minutes ago, neg4charged said:

I met a graduate student whose family immigrated from Nigeria.  He told me he wouldn't have sex with American Black men "because they were descended from slaves".  As awful as that sounds to my ears, I'm a white boy - I have no idea what it's like to walk in his shoes, and I have no idea what kind of mental gymnastics that might induce.  Worth noting that with the white boys that he did play with, he liked to thoroughly dominate them.  I'm thinking there are some issues going on for him.   

Anyone who says "I want to limit the number of potential bedmates because of some random characteristic" I don't understand.  For me, it should always be about discovering more.  

When I was younger, I had no exposure to much other than other white people, and as a Mediterranean kind of guy, I had a thing for blond & blue.  Then I grew up and met people, and my tastes have evolved.   Do we all absorb cultural clichés about race (such as BBC, mandingo porn, black = hung = top, or Asian = femme = bottom)?  I'm certain of it.  I feel bad for every hung bottom who's expected for service everyone else with their big dick, but imagine being expected to have a big dick (and therefore top) just  because of the color of your skin?  What a load of bullshit.  Do I allow cultural input to cloud my thinking?  I'd like to think I'm grown up enough to self-check using the brain in my head.  But I do like racial aesthetics - I like to see guys who look different, I think variety is sexy and interesting and fun.  For me, originally, blond and blue was as far from me as one gets.  Now there's a whole world to pick from.  (find91, cover your eyes for a moment).  Look at find91's skin - it's beautiful, deep mahogany wrapped over a ripped muscular frame.  I don't care whether he's of African, or South Asian (Tamils get quite dark, too) origin, he's got a gorgeous tone (and it happens to look photograph really well with relatively pale kinda furry buttcheeks kind of like mine (just saying)). 

Bring on variety.  And stay mindful of your stereotypes, or you might miss the fuck of the decade from a sexy Asian top guy.  😉

First of all sandly many Africans and Asians have swallowed the propaganda from the States that black Americans are violent and no good. They see American television and how erroneously black people are portrayed and they think it's reality. I knew a Somali friend who use to think like this until she started living in the states and experienced the racial discrimination there for himself.

I'm not talking about cultural biases. I am referring to real experiences. POC get treated differently in LGBTQ community. I myself get masseges from guys talking about how they fantasize about getting fucked by a big black cock and this is all in the opening message no Hi or hello, as if that is all that we are. Or they proceed to go on about their fantasy of being dominanted by a black man all without asking if that is what I'm into. Once you reject them then the racial slurs come out. It's made me reconsider but I choose to remain still open. That type of harassment is real and hurtful. So I don't condone people excluding races, I can understand it in that situation where you don't want to go though a potentially harmful encounter.

Some racial preferences is because is a result of racism and being a racial fetish. A lot of brothers will only hookup with other black men because they are tired of dealing with racist, the harrassement and just being boiled down to BBC, by other races.

Personally, I despise being treated or considered a fetish.

2 hours ago, daemien said:

I have a regular anonymous top that likes my hole stuffed with my largest dildo, currently Rocco Steele, when he comes over to fuck my hole.

He's always greeted by me naked and blindfolded on my ottoman, by request.  He likes to play with the toy, loosening my hole even more, which is great because after he loads me I invite as many sloppy hole fuckers as I can. 🐷 

Sloppy holes are the best

When topping love pegging a bottom with large dildos. Then fucking them

Agree with the guys above. It's too soon. It's better you get yourself a Master or a vers cumdump friend that can school you and teach you the ancient practices of being a gangbang cumdump. Their is no rush

Bacchus is very patient

Damien Crosse, would make a perfect cumdump that ass is really looking like a pussy

On 12/18/2016 at 1:52 PM, Guest bbbearlover1 said:

Sean Storm is a cumdump I love watching in action.  I would love to see Marco Paris more too

Marco Paris is more top now

30 minutes ago, PARTYPIGBEAR said:

That needs to be highlighted. I’ve seen the videos where he bottoms. (Getting fucked and fisted). If you think he is Hot when a top, just take a look at a Fisting Central video where Drew gets fisted in the back of a traveling van. It is something to be experienced. 

Totally agree.He is hot versatile and that hole is just as hot as his dick

3 hours ago, hungandmean said:

When I read about them it reminded me of two total tops I knew who were in an open relationship and solved that issue by only playing together, but finding a bottom.

Although in this case I wonder if Drew just might be vers. I don't think he's ever filmed scenes as a bottom though. 

Drew is totally vers. He even takes fist. He's got a big cock and a big hole. The way he fucks you can tell he likes loose holes.

On 2/2/2021 at 3:15 AM, hungandmean said:

As far as I knew he was dating, and has been for a very long time, Cutler X.

Read it on on a blog ages ago. That's why they do a lot of scenes together. 

Cutler is married to Dyn0. Didn't know he dated Drew. 

Not a turn on or turn on. As long as they stick to what we agree to, definitely down to play. 

4 hours ago, 6Demon6Seed6 said:

I would not say a turn off, but just to be practical here having sex/playing with a versatile guy for me would not work, at all, unless he was able to tap into his inner sub that he is not aware of yet and completely and wholeheartedly submit to my desires and needs. I cannot see that ever materialising.

I NEVER get fucked nor do I ever touch or look at a dick let alone suck it.

As a Dom I am in charge the entire time a pig is in my company, and that includes ME doing the fucking when I am INSIDE of his cunt; that means he does not move his hips at all. Greedy bottoms yes please, power bottoms, no thanks.

The older I have become I realise that even someone who is 100% bottom no longer does it for me, I NEED someone who is a true sub, then I can have the FUN that I really need! 

Switch is the equivalent of vers when dealing with Dom/sub dynamics. 

2 hours ago, Dane said:

I remember Eduardo from Titan - just curious here if you and he barebacked?

Yes it was bare

On 1/25/2021 at 5:28 AM, BruxoCub said:

Does anyone get dry down there after douching too much?

Any recommends?

Omega, cod liver oil or chia  helps

On 11/2/2020 at 7:58 AM, subpig00 said:

One thing I'm very curious about is: What do people do when they have a boyfriend? Do you douche every single day for him? Do you together decide on certain days? Or does a relationship mean he doesn't get very turned off with undouched anymore and goes in whenever he feels like it? I mean, even though 1 hour on average is ok, I can't spend the rest of my life douching for an hour everyday if I had a husband or something

It depends on the relationship and how "into" scat your partner is into. Most will wait for you to douch or make it just oral night. Fucking in scat is not ( appealing to me) it can irritated the bottom and the top. Let alone the smell and mess. 

Changing your diet can reduce how long you douch.

On 1/16/2021 at 11:18 PM, ErosWired said:

Caverject (alprostadil) is injected directly into the cock shaft (corpus cavernosum) and begins to work after about 10 minutes, in my experience. You get hard - but not rock-hard - and you stay that way until the medication wears off. It’s very important to get the dosage right so that you don’t suffer from being erect for longer than four hours, which can cause tissue damage. More is not always better in this case.

The injection doesn’t hurt the way you might imagine, but you are sticking a needle into your cock. You have to be very careful not to hit a significant blood vessel - it’s not meant to be injected into the bloodstream. Don’t try to use it in conjunction with viagra, as the two may interact to lower your blood pressure to an unsafe level.

There may be other means of applying alprostadil, such as a cream, or intra-urethrally, but I only have experience with the injectable. Haven’t used Trimix.

True, being erect for too long is bloody painful. 

8 hours ago, bbzh said:

^^^This^^^

I have run into too many tops who feel that the moment you bend over, you have no say in how you're fucked. These guys I try to avoid. I've had them pretend to be frustrated or act like I'm being dramatic. Just like I've been around the block, these hung tops have too...they have fucked enough bottoms to know they are hung and that most struggle to take their dicks. To me it's sadistic (and rapey) for a hung (or any ) top to plunge into and rough fuck a bottom when it's clear the bottom is struggling and in pain. That hole has a day job. No, I don't treat tops like dildoes. Where did that come from? 😅  

I asked because I wanted clarification some bottoms love to control from the bottom. 

A lot of guys confuse topping with being a selfish bully. It's the furthers from the truth. Thank you for the clarification.

1 hour ago, bbzh said:

I need a hung guy to show his willingness to be patient and let me control the start of the fuck. I've got a couple of really hung guys in my phone right now who I won't let fuck me because they are too aggressive and rough. If that's your thing, tell me upfront so I can curve you. Every hung guy that has let me dictate insertion has ended up being pleased with the outcome. I don't subscribe to the notion that to be a good bottom you have to be willing to get your hole destroyed in the name of service. I've had to go to a doctor after rough fucking and ended up stressed for weeks when taking a dump so guess what? I'm calling the shots when it comes to how my hole is handled. If I can't damage his dick for my pleasure, he can't damage my hole for his.

What do you mean exactly by control the start of the fuck? I totally understand and  agree with a bottom controlling the rhythm and the depth at the begin until you are fully dilated. However if you are referring to Dominating the top and using them as a dildo at the beginning, then you're practically doing the samething the tops that you hate are doing.

1 hour ago, RawPlug said:

That’s a really interesting point because in my experience, the really hung guys I’ve been with - and possibly because of the rejection you speak of - have always been aware of it and been considerate. 

Ya you have to be if you want a sex life and from personal experience actually hurting a bottom. I mean intentional tearing a hole can be a big turn off and does nothing for our ego. When someone truly appreciate and accepts you and what you have to offer is 1000x more better feeling.

For all those that have refused cocks because it was too big, it is totally understandable and we respect that, but I hope you let the top down nicely. People treat hung tops as if we have no feelings and that isn't the case especially for the really monstrous hung guys that get rejected often.

53 minutes ago, lj1987 said:

Thanks... my second question is how can I prepare myself for fisting? I am struggling with even medium-sized fists... 

Everyday or 3days shove something up your as and slowly increase the girth. Doesn't have to be long 20-30min will do. Plugs are your friend. Plug up before a session will help opening you up.