The Woods:
https://www.thewoodscampground.com
- Allows men and women (though women are a rarity, and mostly seen at the pool during day.)
- Sex in public generally discouraged in most areas.
- Restaurant
- Huge pool.
- Hot tubs
- Lake with dock.
- Flat landscape.
- Impeccably maintained facilities and grounds.
- An hour closer to Philly/NJ/NY
Hillside
Http://hillside.camp
- Men only.
- Sex in public generally okay.
- No restaurant
- Pool
- Great bonfire pit
- Has a 'rougher/more hardcore' sex vibe.
- Site is on a mountainside, so it's, well, hilly.
I've not been to Hillside for a couple of years, so bear that in mind.
The Woods is great for day trips- the pool is huge and very active, and proximity to Philly/NJ/NY is a plus. Have only attended on leather weekend at The Woods. Had a great time, but would go with Hillside if I had to choose.
There's also Oneida, which I believe is primarily women. Also Rainbow Mountain Resort. I don't know if Rainbow has campsites. They do have a hotel (and cabins?)