Late in responding, obviously, but I'm curious to know what study you are on that asks you to inquire of your HIV+ partners their CD4 count and VL and then, apparently, report that back to study staff on your next visit. It strikes me as a very unorthodox data collection method (amounting to unverified hearsay). I'm also curious to know if they want you to ask your positive partners the date of their last VL/CD4 count. Are you being asked to inquire about their meds and most recent administration of such?
Frankly, I think you're wanting to inquire about their CD4 count and VL for your own purposes -- based upon their responses to those questions, you will be decided who gets to f*ck you bare and breed you deep. If I'm wrong, the name of your study and the principal investigator and his/her research institution will give me enough information to ferret out whether you're telling us the truth or making things up.