hairytop90069

When I was younger and less experienced, I would sometimes find sex boring because the guy was either too inhibited/vanilla or he was into what I call scripted sex where things have to go a certain way for that person to get off. What I came to realize was that boring sex for me really meant disconnected sex.

Nowadays I always chat with a guy to make sure our sexual interests are compatible before agreeing to meet up. If we seem to have a connection, then I find that when we meet in person we are both mentally present. And when both of us are paying attention to what's turning each other on, good sex unfolds organically and passionately. 

I always tell guys upfront that if they're welcome to check their phones as long as I get to see who they are chatting with and they can show me guys they find attractive or have played with... and vice versa. I also love asking a guy to show me what kind of porn turns him on (and i'll do the same). 

The best sex for me is always that kind of connected sex that is both passionate and piggy/pervy. Never boring.

There's a lot of great BB porn guys. If I had to choose:

James Roscoe - vers bottom

Drew Sebastian - top

Adam Russo - vers

Damien Silver - for his piggy verbal

James Roscoe is my favorite bottom currently; I love the way he cums - sometimes more than once - while he's getting plowed. I'd love to see him get spit-roast and gang-fucked by 5 or more hung, bearded tops. In my dreams, all or most of the cumshots would be internal, and at the end he would be on all fours, unable to hold all the cum in as it pours out of his hole and runs down the back of his ballsack.

I agree, DirtyBruin. James Roscoe is damn hot and probably one of my all time favorite hairy, tatted bottom pigs. I particularly love the scene he filmed with his bf Brad McGuire. It's passionate & piggy - how I love my raw sex to be. And the fact that James is poz and Brd is neg... well that just gets my neg cock rock hard.

One of my hottest fucks was from a guy with a five incher. It is technique more than size. My worst fuck ever was from a guy with an eight incher.

Glad to hear some of you guys have experienced hot raw sex with smaller dicked tops. I am a total top with a 5" cut cock & I use it well. I honestly think that being smaller forced me to pay attention to how to breed and seed with what I got. I get turned down by size queens, but there are so many other hot bareback bottom pigs who don't get hung up (pun intended) onmy size and enjoy how i fuck them. I'm also a multi-cummer. So I also get to dump my loads in a guy and see them leak out. As a raw pig top, it really is so hot to connect with guys who appreciate what I give them.

Hell yes! Feels great as lube.

I love getting into hot piggy verbal with my bottom man or boy. Love hearing my guy moan & beg for my bare cock and seed. Awesome when a guy tells me he can feel my loads shooting deep inside him. And as a neg breeder, I really enjoy kinky poz talk as I breed a poz ass bareback. twisted poz verbal can guarantee that I shoot at least 3-4 loads deep in his raw ass. And finally, I love when a guy tells me about all the raw sex he's had recently.

Total Top Bear guy here who gets out to NNJ often- ridgewood area in bergen county. i can't usually host, but i do have a play bud that can often host me and others. hit me up if interested. I lvoe to breed and seed. And I am a multiple cummer.

So fuckin' hot! Made my cock rock hard.

Awesome. Thanks, man. And he's gay, correct? So he should be comfortable talking about HIV & PrEP without judgments?

Anyone use Dr. Hitzeman? If so, I'd love to hear your thoughts. Feel free to private message me if you prefer. Thanks!

Didn't know that... I know they struggle with funding and with keeping staff.

Yes, they said they just have too many patients for the current number of doctors. They plan to hire additional staff, however they told me the soonest they envisioned taking new clients was in September. So, my search continues.

I called Callen-Lorde & they are not taking new patients unfortunately. They will only see new patients if they are under 21 and/or HIV Poz (they test you before they provide any additional services). I left a message for their screening nurses to see if they could recommend any other NYC doctors but have not heard back.

I'm at square one again. So, if anyone knows of a good gay-friendly HIV/PrEP knowledgeable doctor in NYC outside of Callen-Lorde, please let me know. Any help is appreciated. Thanks!

Taking PrEP has been completely uneventful. No side effects. It's nice knowing I've got the protection. I can be an even bigger pig and not worry about the risks I'm taking.

Great. That's exactly why I'd like to start taking it myself.

I'm going to see if I can schedule an appointment with Victor since he is familiar with it. Obviously he is a gay-friendly doctor. But was also comfortable talking about barebacking?

Thanks, rawTOP. This is really helpful. I definitely want to investigate PreP as an option for myself as well. I'm looking forward to hearing more about your experience as you move forward with it. Thanks again.

I've recently taken a job in NYC & I need to find a good doctor (general practitioner) here in New York. I'm hoping to find a gay-friendly doctor who's also sex-positive. Additionally, I'm very interested in finding a doctor who is open to prescribing PreP to his HIV Neg patients.

If you have any recommendations, please send me a private message. Thanks, guys!

the cutie who wrote 'milk' had bareback photos leaked onto the web a while ago.

Yes, that's right! Dustin Lance Black.

Over the years, some celebrities have been revealed to be barebackers. (In this case, I use the term celebrity to describe ANYONE in the public eye who are not porn stars). I'd love to hear from you guys if you know of any "celebrity" types are rumored or known to bareback. Here's a modest list I've come up with so far.

Colin Farrell (actor) - fucked a woman bareback in a sex tape that was leaked

Fred Durst (singer) - also fucked bareback with a woman in a sex tape

Clay Aiken (singer from American Idol) - had a guy claim Clay fucked him bareback after meeting online before Clay had come out. His name is John Paulus, a former Green Beret, who revealed this in an interview with Howard Stern

Andrew Sullivan (writer) - someone revealed he had an ad on barebackcity.com. If you google it you will find the ad preserved. His screen name was RAWMUSLGLUTES.

I find it kinda hot that these guys bareback. Any other folks to ad to the list?

Here's one of my favorites. Bottom picks up a stranger & they talk throughout their play. Part 1 is decent, but Part 2 is really hot. At one point the bottom asks the anonymous top if he's clean, you'll see what happens right after that.

Part 1: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=z9v3l-S849-

Part 2: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=ctN2O-S749-

Enjoy!

About 12 years ago, I like to brag that I "dated" Zak Spears for about 6 months, but I'm sure he'd say we were just FBs! :-)

Dawson twice. Not only a hot fuck, but a sweet man you'd want to marry and take home to Mom

Brad McGuire -- nasty fuck

Paul (I think he went by both P"Town Paul and Paul Allen) -- also a nasTy fuck and hot in bed

Mike Perriera - Mr IML leather

Jay Taylor -- who lives only two blocks from my home!

And several other guys whose names I can't remember

Zak Spears is pretty sexy. Did you guys fuck bareback or with condoms?

I'm glad to hear that about Dawson. He seems like a great bottom. Nice guy with a nasty cum pig side is damn hot to me.

Absolutely! I LOVE dad/son roleplay. Although, I guess I'm in a minority here (at least from what I can read from the previous posts in this thread) as a top "son". Nothing I love more than sliding my cock deep up daddy's hole. I've heard a few guys say that there's really no such thing as a "bottom daddy", but I've got more than a few daddy friends that would beg to differ. One of my favorite things to hear is a hot bear/chub telling me to "fuck your daddy's ass boy!!" DANG! I swear that makes me shoot some of the biggest loads ever.

I'm with you, man. Some of the hottest sex I've had has been me fucking some hot daddy ass. I had a play bud for years who used to let me come over & role play. I would come home to find "dad" passed out in bed. Then, he'd wake up to find his son's cock deep inside him.

Here's what I think. We're lucky to live in a time where STDs including HIV either have cures of really good treatments. I am neg, but from what it seems like, you can be poz and still live a totally normal life. So what is so risky about HIV?

Barebacking is natural and healthy. It is primal and after all, we humans are just animals too. And unlike heteros, we don't actually get pregnant from raw sex. We're lucky. We can fuck raw all day and night have see no consequence.

I say fuck raw as much as you can. If you become poz, get your ass on treatment and fuck more. 'Nuf said.

I hear you, slutboy30. Have you always felt this way? Or did you once have reservations/conflict about it like I do? I will say however that some Poz men have cautioned me that HIV is manageable but still life altering, even today. I think that is a bit of a hang up for me.

Thanks to all you guys. It's great to have a place to have this discussion without judgment from others. I tend to be less impulsive and more analytical - I think that's why I've had to wrestle with the issue. Helps me to talk it through with guys who understand & have experience around it.

Was the same, barebacking is primal, intimate n connects sexual partners in everyday... I was ok till someone I thought was a boyfriend kindly omitted to telling me he was not only pox, but also scrubbing his ass up deliberately to convert me as a vers top... In short, you could get away with it forever, but itll only take one fuck up or someone else who's fucked up to spoil the party... That said, it's not the end of the world, just means you've got to be more careful with your choices...

That's unfortunate, bed10. Your point is taken. It's always a gamble each & every time. So, are you Poz now? And if so, for how long? How has that been for you?

An answer to you by way of a few questions, hairytop90069..

You are neg and don't want to become poz. (I've been poz since 1985..)

OK..

The question. Are you an exclusive top, or do you bottom also?

Hey Versastud-

I am an exclusive top. I don't enjoy bottoming (from the few times I tried it years ago), so I never do it. Just doesn't get me off.

Great to hear your POV since you have been Poz since 1985. How has your journey been?

I'm top guy who has been barebacking for awhile now, but I'm still not fully comfortable with the risk of becoming HIV Poz. Up until now, I have not tested Poz, but I am aware (intellectually) that there is a likely risk of HIV even if I only top (which is the case for me). Emotionally however, I feel very drawn to barebacking. It feels primal to me. It really turns me on & I have taken those risks because of that.

I am reaching out to you other men who might have had this similar conflict. How did it resolve for you? What advice if any do you have regarding this kind of conflict?

I appreciate any discussion with guys who have been in this place. I think I need to figure it for myself so there's no longer a conflict about it.

Thanks