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16 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

June - NYC Sex Party Calendar

 

[think before following links] [think before following links] https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/embed?src=nycgaysexparty@gmail.com&ctz=America/Chicago

 

This is a great resource put together by some selfless person with more time on their hands than I have. Gotta hand it to them for this community service. 😅

The thing I'd warn people about with this is that many of the parties on that calendar (maybe even the majority) are parties run by the same people, just with different names at different times. They sort of came out of nowhere recently with TONS of parties each week, and -- in my opinion -- oversaturated the sex party scene. So now each party is more sparsely attended because there are too many options. And a newbie will go to one party, see how sparsely attended it is, and decide never to go back. (The organizers probably know more than I do, considering I know nothing, but it seems like a self-defeating business plan.)

The parties that are tried and true, outside of that group of oversaturated events, are: GBU, MaleBox, and Pighaus. CumUnion is usually pretty good, and it should be great on Pride weekend. The fetish-focused parties run by that big conglomerate are exceptions and I think they're safe bets (like Manhole, the fisting party). 

East Side Club is the only "bathhouse" option left. The main focus here is private, ticketed sex parties: 

• gbuparty .com
• malebox .com
• pighausleather .com
• lodgeny .com
• cumunion .com

The crowd, atmosphere, etc. of these parties vary wildly and it's impossible to give a general overview of what they're like. It depends on the night, the theme, etc. Some are open invite and some require memberships or pre-approval, so plan ahead. 

East Side Club is a very disappointing club. It's more of a "sex club" than a "bathhouse" even though there is a sauna and a steam room. There are lockers, but rooms are only a couple bucks more. Guys cruise in towels and sandals, mostly. Partying is of course not allowed but very common. Room rentals are FOUR hours, not eight like most clubs I've been to. 

There is a AIDS Crisis-era NYC law that prohibits sex in public. The City has come out and said they will no longer enforce that, but the ESC management has stupidly decided to keep enforcing it. That means: no sex in the sauna or steam room, and no sex in your room/cabin with the door open or cracked. (You could wait ass up for someone to walk by and join... but as soon as they join, the door has to close. It's fucking stupid.)

With that said... since your trip lines up with Pride, most of these options -- including ESC -- will be better than average. ESC will likely be full and there may be a line or a wait for rooms, so there will be plenty of dick and you'll end up satisfied. But the downsides remain, so just manage your expectations. (I will probably end up at ESC that weekend at least once, so it's not a TOTAL lost cause. It can be fun when I go with friends, party, and lower my standards/expectations to just collect as many sketchy loads as possible.)

Sniffies is also very popular here and lots of people organize groups that way. These are usually at someone's apartment, not commercial groups. 

Kyros, I'm going to message you on telegram. Wherever you end up that weekend, you're getting my dirty load before you leave. 

On 5/27/2024 at 1:22 PM, Neely116 said:

My life was changing. I could feel it……….

So was your DNA, you filthy faggot 😈

In the spirit of standing up for our right to self-determination, someone should continue this dude's story with a stealthing or chasing aspect just to make a point (no pun intended 🎯).

On 3/26/2024 at 9:53 AM, rosebudforuse said:

Id also own your cunt...but your profile says 'Poz guys a plus'

WTF dude, if you are TRYING to get a disease, not cool.

Poz undetectable is the same if not safer than neg, but you don't say 'poz undetectable'???????

You say 'Poz'

I will happily bareback every fucking day 10 X a day with poz undetectable..... NOT poz poz.

oh, grow up

I really just want someone to help me understand the mindset here. 

When I'm on an app like Grindr, or a site like BBRT, or any other hookup site, I constantly see pictures that are clearly very old or clearly very fake. Old pictures can be a giveaway when there's a mirror selfie showing an iPhone 4 (which came out in 2011 I think?), or the the photo quality is so low/pixelated that you can tell it's not from the last decade. Recently a man send a selfie taken on a flip phone -- and not the kind you can still buy if you're one of those people who don't want a smartphone. Fake pictures are harder to spot, but generally: if you think a profile is too good to be true, it probably is. If I see a 22 year old on Grindr with the hottest body I've ever seen, claiming to have a 10" dick... I'm gonna be skeptical. (And if someone that young and hot and vain doesn't have their instagram attached, that's an even bigger red flag because they love attention on social media lol)

I've also noticed some guys will crop their mirror selfies in a way that seems specifically motivated by a desire to hide the old phone model. At least in these cases, the deception seems very purposeful. 

Others, more recently, will use AI filters on their faces to seem younger, blonder, or whatever-er. AI is good but it's not good ENOUGH to be imperceptible. The faces still have a hint of cartoonishness that you can see when you look closely. 

I tend to be hyperaware of any signs that the person I'm chatting with might be a catfish. (I had a bad catfish-turned-stalker situation a few years ago and that sticks with you!) So I understand that some people don't see the red flags and continue to chat or trade pictures or whatever. 

But what is the end result? Why would someone send a picture from 2011, knowing damn well they don't look the same now? The reason can't be that they aged well and haven't changed... if that were true, they wouldn't resort to 13 year old pics. So what happens when they show up at my door, or I show up at theirs. Setting aside any safety issues, and setting aside any possibility that the other person will be uncomfortable saying anything or obligated to just see it through, doesn't the catfish feel embarrassed? 

I just don't see the point! Have you been in a situation where you've been catfished, but just went through with the hookup anyway because it's too awkward to back out? Maybe that's the reason... maybe the embarrassment is worth the few times where it leads to sex anyway. 

I think I have an idea of what may happen, or who may show up, at this nameless mystery club.... 😛 

This sounds a lot like my gym in Manhattan. I don't I have ever (not once!) used the steam room without hooking up or seeing someone hooking up. 

I know this forum isn't incredibly active, but just in case....

I'll be in Houston 1/20 - 1/25 (with one night in Dallas for a cumdump event). I'll be at the sauna, checking out the "stairs" I've heard about, and maybe hosting. Let me know if there's something I need to suck... oops, I mean something I need to see... or anything else helpful 🙂

On 1/5/2024 at 6:36 AM, Jaygusher said:

The meeting of Will and uncle Chester

bonus: Chester’s dangerous tool

Sometimes I prefer erotic fiction over porn because I can picture the guys however I want to picture him. But now in my head, Chester looks like the moon man, dug up 10 years after burial 😂 Only teasing.... love the story ☣️😈

I'm traveling for a friend's (straight) wedding and escaping to Berlin for debauchery afterwards. 

My only plan so far is to attend the Biohazardmen party. I also can't wait to cruise the famous Tiergarten. Other than that, I'm open to suggestions. I would love a top to whore me out, either at a hotel or an apartment or one of these "rental dungeons" I've been hearing about. My record is 50 loads in 24 hours, and it would be very fun to beat that. I'm open to almost any kink/fetish (no suffocation/breath play or scat). Open to lots of different scenes. 

Filming is fun too. 

Send me a message and we can chat on whatsapp/telegram/something else. 

I'm going to send you a message 😈

Well this is one of the hottest ever 😍

Dedicated cumdump in Hell's Kitchen looking for all loads. Poz preferred, not on prep. On BBRT as hkcumdump.

I'm trying to find a story about a dad and a son. The dad finds a boy's clothes outside a public restroom while the boy is inside getting pozzed. He trades clothes and goes home wearing the anonymous boy's clothes home. When he goes to do the laundry, he finds his own clothes in his son's room and realizes his son was the boy getting pozzed in the bathroom. Can anyone help?

As a Harlem resident, I REALLLLY wish this place was real. I'd walk down the block every day for a recharge 

I was a cum hungry slut long before I found the Blue in Chelsea, but that store really made me into the depraved cum dump that I am today.

My favorite time was when a daddy fisted me through an open glory hole.  It was the rectangular glory hole that spanned the whole width of the booth.  He wrapped one muscular arm around my hips so I couldn't pull away, and jammed his free hand inside my hole.  

Not surprisingly my ass was soon bloody but that seemed to turn him on more as before long his raw cock was inside my bloody hole.

Very hot story. I've been to Manifest a couple times, but never on the poz4play night. I went on a "regular" night and it was just ok, but you should check out the CumUnion parties there. I've been to them in a few different cities and Atlanta was surprisingly my favorite. Lots of dirty poz talk too. You can check your clothes at CumUnion so there's more of a bathhouse feel

Bathhouses simply aren't a "thing" here in NYC. Don't waste your time. It's all about private sex parties--which is ok because it's cheaper and busier than the bathhouses. (I miss the venues like steam rooms, mazes, etc., but the sex parties can be really good.) 

Check out http://groupsexinthecity.com updated by some good samaritan in the city. Be sure to check out the post about how to find the right sex party for you. Some cater to certain races or body types, some require an email for entry, etc. So plan ahead. 

I agree with plowmeraw about CumUnion though. I took 19 loads one time. I'll never understand how I'm still neg...

God what a hot story. What makes it better is I've taken hundreds of loads at the blue store, so I can relate I live up near Fort Tryon so maybe I should give it a shot. Maybe I'll get lucky enough to find the same ff top and finally convert